Command Your Presence
Command Your Presence is the ultimate podcast for professionals looking to amplify their voice, present with confidence, and leave a lasting impact. Hosted by Jacinda Patty, a seasoned performer, speaker, and coach with over 25 years of experience, this show equips you with practical tools to connect authentically, own your space, and tell your story with clarity. Each episode features Jacinda’s expert tips and strategies to overcome fears, manage time constraints, and master impactful communication. Plus, inspiring guests share their journeys of building influence and commanding presence, offering valuable lessons to help you step into your power. Whether preparing for a presentation, leading a meeting, or elevating your communication skills, Command Your Presence is your go-to resource to show up, speak up, and stand out.
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EP23: From scout camp to Hollywood: How Shane learned to command any room
12/14/2025
EP23: From scout camp to Hollywood: How Shane learned to command any room
Confidence isn’t something you’re born with; it’s something you build, one uncomfortable moment at a time. Welcome to Command Your Presence Podcast with Jacinda! In this episode, she reconnects with long-time creative friend and filmmaker Shane, whose journey from Scout Camp leader to Creative Director reveals powerful lessons on confidence, leadership, and authentic communication. Shane shares how his early experiences commanding a noisy dining hall of 400 campers taught him to project his voice, connect with an audience, and earn respect. Those lessons would later shape his success in film and creative production. Together, Jacinda and Shane explore what it really means to “read the room,” how to balance empathy with authority, and why the best leaders are also great listeners. Whether you’re a speaker, creator, or entrepreneur, this conversation will inspire you to step up, take space, and own your voice wherever you are. Episode Highlights: 01:40 Who is Shane beyond his job title? 03:00 The moment he first learned to command presence 05:40 From camp counselor to confident communicator 09:00 The power of adapting your communication style 13:20 Lessons from film school and working in production 17:30 Big-budget sets vs. indie projects: what fuels creativity 20:00 Finding your best “room” as a speaker or performer 22:00 Why great speakers are great listeners 25:00 The difference between being a great performer and a great communicator 27:00 How to practice your voice and build presence through repetition 29:00 Reframing wins and losses into wins and lessons 31:00 Shane’s high-pressure story from a live film festival 35:00 Staying calm and taking control when things go wrong 37:00 How to zoom out and focus on the bigger picture under pressure 39:00 Connecting the dots between different skill sets and experiences 40:00 Quick-fire lessons on public speaking and success 42:00 The importance of listening to your head, heart, and gut 🎧 Listen now and discover how to command your presence with confidence, empathy, and purpose. 💬 If you enjoyed this episode, share it with a friend who’s ready to level up their voice and leadership, and tag on Instagram with your biggest takeaway!
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EP22: From failure to fierce: How Kateesha rebuilt, refocused, and commanded her presence
11/23/2025
EP22: From failure to fierce: How Kateesha rebuilt, refocused, and commanded her presence
Have you ever poured your heart, time, and money into something only to watch it fail publicly? Welcome to Command Your Presence Podcast, where Jacinda sits down with Kateesha, a bold entrepreneur and branding expert who’s mastered the art of resilience and authentic leadership. In this episode, they unpack how devastating setbacks can become the foundation for unstoppable growth and why commanding your presence starts long before you step on a stage. Kateesha opens up about investing $40,000 in a business that never took off, the grief that followed, and the powerful mindset shifts that helped her rebuild into a thriving personal brand and coaching business. Together, she and Jacinda dive deep into integrity, confidence, and the small daily actions that lead to massive transformation. This conversation is a must-listen if you’ve ever felt defeated, doubted your path, or wondered how to bounce back stronger than ever. Episode Highlights: 01:00 - Who is Kateesha, beyond her title 02:30 - Realizing the importance of commanding presence 05:00 - The painful $40,000 lesson that changed everything 08:30 - Grieving business failure and rebuilding confidence 11:00 - Why tying your self-worth to your business is dangerous 12:30 - Authenticity and standing out on LinkedIn 15:00 - The link between integrity, confidence, and presence 17:00 - Weekly “integrity check-ins” to stay aligned 20:00 - Creating pressure to perform and knowing your growth pace 23:30 - Building a brand with intention, not burnout 25:00 - Pivoting from done-for-you services to coaching 27:00 - Investing big and backing yourself when the pressure is on 29:00 - Fast growth vs. slow growth (knowing what’s right for you) 31:00 - Setting clear end goals before going all in 33:00 - Why she stopped networking and grew her brand entirely online 35:00 - How she helps clients show up and build presence in the digital space Connect with Kateesha: LinkedIn: Instagram: Follow the Command Your Presence Podcast Instagram: 🎧 Loved this episode? Share it with a friend who needs a reminder that failure isn’t the end, it’s the foundation of your next success. Leave a review and tell us your biggest takeaway about commanding your own presence.
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EP21: From shy kid to confident coach: How Jess Elford found her power (and why “Fake It till you make It” actually works)
11/02/2025
EP21: From shy kid to confident coach: How Jess Elford found her power (and why “Fake It till you make It” actually works)
Welcome to Command Your Presence Podcast Episode 21! Okay, picture this: you’re five feet tall, training to be a jockey, and your horse decides you’re the one getting trampled today. That’s how Jess Elford’s fitness journey began, not exactly the typical “I found my passion” story, but definitely one for the books (and the blooper reel). In this episode, Jacinda chats with Jess, a personal trainer, former almost-jockey, and self-proclaimed early bird who believes confidence can be learned… preferably after a lemon water and a good stretch. They laugh their way through Jess’s journey from shy kid to coach commanding a full class, the fake it till you make it moments that built her confidence, and the surprising power of just being yourself (even when you’re still figuring out who that is). You’ll hear stories of hilarious missteps, personal growth, and why having a solid morning routine might just be the secret to showing up like a boss, both in and out of the gym. Episode Highlights: 01:24: From shy schoolgirl to aspiring jockey 03:02: The whoopsy daisy that changed everything 04:21: First group class nerves and the “fake it till you make it” mindset 06:45: Early challenges that shaped Jess as a trainer 08:30: Mentors who inspired confidence (including Jacinda!) 09:45: Morning routines that set the tone for success 10:38: Why giving to yourself first helps you show up stronger for others 11:22: The power of being your true self 12:30: Knowing when to walk away and trust your instincts 13:05: Handling pressure and commanding a room full of clients 15:00: Leadership lessons from the gym floor 16:30: Why connection and trust are key to client success 18:00: Getting out of your own head and finding confidence over time 19:15: “Just go for it” — Jess’s advice for anyone chasing their goals 20:00: Her focus on proper form and helping clients train safely 22:45: What DOMS really means and why recovery matters 23:50: Challenges of learning each client’s unique style 24:30: How caring deeply can be both a strength and a struggle 25:00: What’s next for Jess and True Form Fitness Follow Jacinda for more real (and slightly ridiculous) conversations that make personal growth a little less serious and a lot more fun. 💛 If this episode made you laugh, nod, or rethink your morning routine, hit follow and leave a quick review! It helps more listeners find the Command Your Presence Podcast and join the fun.
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EP20: Performing for millions, seeing no one: why large audiences are easier
10/19/2025
EP20: Performing for millions, seeing no one: why large audiences are easier
When I was in high school, I performed at the Rugby World Cup opening ceremony in front of 80,000 people. The lights were blinding, the crowd was roaring, and my heart was pounding so hard I could feel it in my throat. But once I stepped onto that field, something strange happened. The fear disappeared. Years later, standing in a small boardroom with just two people watching me, that same fear came rushing back. My palms were sweaty, my voice shaky, and every glance felt like a spotlight. How could performing for two people feel scarier than performing for thousands? In this episode, I unpack that question and dive into the psychology of stage fright, why big crowds feel less intimidating, how small rooms trigger self-doubt, and how you can tap into your stadium confidence in any setting. I’ll share practical tools you can use to shift your focus, manage your energy, and command presence without needing to be the loudest person in the room. Episode Highlights: 01:10 Performing at the Rugby World Cup Opening Ceremony 03:05 Why Big Crowds Feel Less Personal (The Sea of Faces Effect) 05:12 How Small Rooms Trigger Hyper Awareness and Anxiety 07:00 Mental Tricks to Recreate the Comfort of a Stadium Anywhere 09:20 Practical Tips to Command the Room Without Being the Loudest Person 🎧 Ready to feel more confident the next time all eyes are on you? Tune in now and learn how to own your space, whether you’re speaking to 80,000 people or just 8. 👉 Listen on Spotify and YouTube Follow me on Instagram for more behind-the-scenes stories and upcoming episodes!
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EP19: How to effectively use humour in presentations
10/12/2025
EP19: How to effectively use humour in presentations
Welcome to Command Your Podcast Episode 19! Did you know that over 75% of presenters admit their jokes often fall flat? And many never try humor again because of it? That’s a huge mistake, because when used correctly, humor is one of the most powerful public speaking tools you can use to build trust, connect with your audience, and make your message unforgettable. In this episode, Jacinda reveals how to use humor effectively in presentations (even if you don’t consider yourself a “funny” person). She breaks down why humor works, how it helps you create engaging presentations and a stronger audience connection, and the common mistakes that make jokes backfire. From practical public speaking tips to real-life stories (including a joke that totally bombed on stage), you’ll learn how to: Add humor naturally to your presentations Avoid common pitfalls and cultural missteps Keep your message authentic and impactful Read the room and adapt in real time Use humor as a storytelling tool to make your content stick Whether you’re delivering a keynote, leading a meeting, pitching clients, or giving a wedding speech, this episode will show you how to make people laugh and listen (without trying too hard). Episode Highlights: 01:00 – Why humor is one of the most powerful presentation tools 02:00 – How humor breaks the ice and builds audience connection 03:00 – Making your message more memorable with laughter 04:00 – Common pitfalls: missed jokes, cultural sensitivity, and overdoing it 06:00 – Know your audience: tailoring humor that resonates 07:00 – Authenticity matters: making humor feel natural 08:00 – Tying humor back to your key message 09:00 – Reading the room and adapting your delivery 09:50 – Jacinda’s maid of honor speech story: lessons in humor 12:00 – Why the best presentations are about connection, not perfection If you’ve ever had a joke flop during a talk or avoided humor altogether because you were afraid it wouldn’t land, this episode is packed with presentation skills tips that will help you bring more personality, confidence, and laughter to the stage. 👉 Now it’s your turn: What’s your favorite tip for adding humor to a presentation? Or do you have a funny story about a joke that didn’t land? Share it with Jacinda on Instagram at or email her at . Your story might even inspire a future episode!
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EP18: They want you to succeed: Reframing fear and embracing adrenalin
10/05/2025
EP18: They want you to succeed: Reframing fear and embracing adrenalin
Welcome to Command Your Presence Podcast Episode 18! Commanding a room isn’t about being the loudest voice; it’s about presence, authenticity, and connection. Jacinda is joined by Ben Marshen, a former research scientist turned financial services leader, consultant, and advocate who has spent nearly two decades shaping better systems for consumers. Beyond his corporate roles, Ben brings a fascinating mix of curiosity, creativity, and performance experience that has shaped the way he commands a stage and captivates audiences. In this episode, Ben shares his unconventional journey, from working in science labs to financial planning, from shy introvert to confident speaker. He opens up about how theater and performance shaped his ability to present with confidence, why reframing fear is key to public speaking, and how anyone can learn to connect deeply with their audience. Together, Jacinda and Ben explore strategies for commanding presence, overcoming fear of the stage, and reframing performance anxiety into empowerment. Whether you’re a business leader, entrepreneur, or someone preparing for that big wedding speech, this conversation will inspire you to step into the spotlight with confidence. Episode Highlights: 02:00 – From research scientist to financial services advocate 05:45 – Lessons from his extroverted father and how theater shaped his confidence 09:30 – The turning point: presenting financial seminars and finding his voice 12:10 – Why audiences actually want you to succeed 15:00 – Simple techniques to engage and captivate a room 18:40 – Breaking away from the lectern and using movement for impact 21:00 – The surprising safety of being on stage 25:00 – Reframing rejection and finding empowerment in performance If you’ve ever felt nervous about public speaking or struggled to own your presence, this episode will give you practical tools and inspiration to shift your mindset and step up with confidence. 👉 Don’t miss future episodes! Subscribe to , follow Jacinda on Instagram , and share this episode with someone who’s ready to find their voice.
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EP17: Four shows a day, six days a week: Surviving the ultimate performance grind
09/28/2025
EP17: Four shows a day, six days a week: Surviving the ultimate performance grind
What happens when your dream job abroad turns into a relentless marathon? How do you stay present under pressure when your body and mind are pushed beyond their limits? Welcome to Command Your Presence Podcast Episode 17! In this episode, Jacinda pulls back the curtain on the reality of life as a performer in Dubai. What seemed like a glamorous overseas opportunity quickly turned into a grind: performing four 45-minute shows a day, six days a week, in heavy costumes under 50-degree heat. From exhaustion and nutrition struggles to cultural challenges and isolation, Jacinda shares the raw truth behind the stage lights. She dives into the physical and mental toll of long-term performance, how small rituals (like Snickers bars and late-night burgers) became survival tools, and the powerful mindset shift that helped her discover what it really means to command your presence. This story isn’t just for dancers or entertainers; it’s for anyone navigating burnout, high-pressure work environments, or the daily grind of chasing big dreams. Episode Highlights: 01:40 – The reality of a “dream contract” in Dubai 04:00 – Performer nutrition, recovery, and energy hacks 07:00 – Suit performing: cardio with weights on stage 09:00 – Cultural challenges and homesickness 11:00 – The Snickers bar incident: when food backfired 13:00 – Creating comfort in a foreign country 15:00 – Commanding presence as a choice, not a feeling 17:00 – Why rest and recovery fuel high performance If you’ve ever felt like your dream career turned into a pressure cooker, this episode will inspire you to rethink presence, recovery, and performance, whether you’re on stage, in business, or simply managing life’s demands. 👉 Follow Jacinda on Instagram for more behind-the-scenes stories on performer life, resilience, and personal growth. ✨ If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone navigating their own high-pressure season, and don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an inspiring conversation.
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EP16: How to stop saying “UM” and “AH”
09/21/2025
EP16: How to stop saying “UM” and “AH”
Welcome to Command Your Podcast Episode 16! If saying “um” and “ah” were a competitive sport, most of us would already have Olympic gold medals. But don’t worry, in this episode, we’re breaking the habit and learning how to sound more confident, polished, and professional without those pesky fillers sneaking in. In this solo session, we explore why filler words creep into our speech, what they signal about confidence, and how you can replace them with one of the most powerful tools in communication: the pause. You’ll hear simple, practical techniques you can practice right away, from recording yourself to slowing down, and even trying a fun “pause drill” with a friend. Whether you’re a podcaster, presenter, teacher, or just tired of cringing at your own ums, this episode is your step-by-step guide to sounding clear, confident, and in control. Episode Highlights: 00:40 – Why filler words like “um” and “ah” sneak into your speech 01:36 – How fillers connect to confidence (and what they signal to others) 02:00 – The surprising power of silence: why pausing is better than filling 03:12 – Technique 1: Record yourself and tally the fillers 04:09 – Technique 2: Slow down and let your brain catch up with your mouth 05:00 – The Pause Drill: practice answering questions with no fillers 06:00 – Why consistency (not perfection) is the key to improvement Find out more & connect: Instagram: Follow me for more communication and presentation tips! If you enjoyed this episode, hit subscribe so you don’t miss the next one! Share it with a friend who’s guilty of a few too many “ums” and “ahs”, and don’t forget to try the pause drill this week. Tag me on Instagram and let’s celebrate your progress together!
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EP15: From physio to women’s health coach: Sophie Horne on reinvention, presence, and the power of owning your story
09/14/2025
EP15: From physio to women’s health coach: Sophie Horne on reinvention, presence, and the power of owning your story
Welcome to Command Your Presence Episode 15! What happens when you realize the career you’ve built no longer lights you up? And you take a leap into an entirely new path? In this episode, Jacinda is joined by Sophie Horne, a former physio who boldly transitioned into women’s health coaching and cycle education. Sophie shares her journey of following curiosity, stepping away from the traditional healthcare system, and finding her voice in the women’s health space. From the awkward realities of learning about periods in school to the freedom she discovered living in London, Sophie reflects on the moments that shaped her confidence, authenticity, and ability to command presence. Their conversation explores the challenges of people-pleasing, perfectionism, and losing yourself in the expectations of others, and how Sophie reclaimed her sense of self through reinvention and motherhood. You’ll hear how she’s helping women better understand their cycles, embrace authenticity, and shift from simply surviving to thriving. Episode Highlights: 03:15 – Sophie’s pivot from physio to women’s health coaching 07:42 – Why cycle syncing is more than just a TikTok trend 11:36 – The contraceptive pill and creativity: Sophie’s personal story 14:25 – Early lessons on presence from a standout teacher 18:00 – The struggles of adolescence, perfectionism, and fitting in 20:12 – Reinvention in London: starting fresh and making mistakes 24:15 – Meeting her husband and choosing a new life in Sydney 26:30 – Advocating as a new mom: Sophie’s journey with her daughter’s tongue tie and trusting her gut over professional advice 32:00 – How commanding presence shows up in motherhood, business, and beyond 36:00 – Quick-fire questions: advice on storytelling, client connection, daily rituals, and the one piece of wisdom Sophie wants every listener to take away If you’ve ever felt stuck in your career or unsure how to step into your own presence, this conversation will spark your curiosity and inspire you to take bold chances. ✨ Don’t miss future episodes! Subscribe to Command Your Presence on your favorite podcast platform and leave a review to help us reach more listeners ready to step into their power. 📲 Follow us on Instagram for behind-the-scenes, clips, and updates!
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EP14: The burger ritual: How unusual habits can boost confidence and command presence
09/07/2025
EP14: The burger ritual: How unusual habits can boost confidence and command presence
Welcome to Command Your Presence Podcast Episode 14! What do burgers and stage presence have in common? For me, everything. Before stepping into the spotlight for my very first one-woman show, I found myself across the street from a KFC. Hungry and anxious, I grabbed a chicken burger, fries, and a Coke before curtain call. That small ritual quickly became more than just a snack. It was the anchor I needed to calm my nerves, focus my mind, and step into my power on stage. In this episode, I share how quirky rituals like mine, whether it’s smashing a burger, listening to Britney Spears, or even carrying a bizarre lucky charm, can actually ground us in high-pressure situations. Rituals give us a sense of control, reduce anxiety, and help us show up as our most confident selves. Whether you’re facing a performance, a presentation, or a big life moment, the right ritual can help you command your presence and own the room. Episode Highlights: 01:10 – The origin of the “burger ritual” 02:45 – Why rituals help calm nerves and boost focus 04:30 – The psychology of comfort food and presence 06:15 – Quirky rituals of celebrities (from Christian Bale to Heidi Klum) 09:20 – How to create your own grounding ritual 10:45 – Tying rituals back to confidence and presence So, what’s your ritual? Maybe it’s food, a song, or even a lucky pair of socks. Whatever grounds you, embrace it. And if you don’t have one yet, this episode might inspire you to create your own. 👉 I’d love to hear about your quirky rituals! Share them with me on Instagram and join the conversation about how we can all show up more confident, calm, and powerful in life’s big moments.
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EP13: The power of eye contact in communication
08/31/2025
EP13: The power of eye contact in communication
Welcome to Command Your Presence Podcast Episode 13! Did you know that studies show over 60% of communication is nonverbal—and eye contact alone accounts for a huge part of how people perceive your confidence, trustworthiness, and authority? Yet, many of us either avoid it, overdo it, or simply don’t know how to use it intentionally. In this episode, we’re diving into the subtle but powerful art of eye contact. You’ll learn how to use your gaze to build trust, create meaningful connections, and command presence—whether you’re on a dance floor, across a boardroom table, or leading a team meeting. I’ll share personal stories, practical techniques like the three-second rule, and ways to balance warmth with authority so you can project confidence without coming across as intimidating. Plus, we’ll talk about common mistakes to avoid, cultural nuances to keep in mind, and exercises you can start practicing right away. Episode Highlights: 01:10 – Why eye contact is one of your most powerful tools 03:00 – The science behind eye contact and human connection 04:20 – The three-second rule for balanced presence 05:40 – Soft vs. intentional focus (and when to use each) 06:50 – Common mistakes: staring, avoiding eye contact, cultural awareness 08:30 – Practical exercises to build your confidence with eye contact 10:45 – Recap: how to dial up or down intensity to fit the moment Eye contact isn’t just about looking—it’s about leading with presence. By the end of this episode, you’ll know how to harness this skill to elevate your communication in both personal and professional settings. ✨ I’d love to hear how these tips work for you! Share your takeaways or questions with me on Instagram . Don’t forget to follow the podcast so you don’t miss the next episode, where we’ll explore how to master presence in virtual meetings.
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EP12: How two accountants-built confidence, leadership, and impact
08/24/2025
EP12: How two accountants-built confidence, leadership, and impact
Confidence isn’t optional—it’s the foundation of leadership. Welcome to Command Your Presence Podcast Episode 12! Jacinda sits down with Liz and Michelle, co-founders of Emspire Advisory, who share how commanding presence has shaped their careers, their business, and their personal lives. From overcoming language barriers and self-doubt to stepping into leadership roles and running their own firm, Liz and Michelle open up about the strategies and struggles behind building true confidence. They reveal how boxing, travel, fitness, and even photography shaped their resilience, and why commanding your presence is more than just speaking up, it’s about preparation, mindset, and learning to own the room. This is a conversation packed with real stories, practical tips, and the reminder that presence creates a ripple effect far beyond yourself. Episode Highlights: 01:40 – Michelle’s journey: from film photography to accounting 03:00 – Liz’s background and solo travel safety lessons 07:00 – Why presence matters in client meetings 09:00 – Early struggles with confidence and communication 13:00 – How mentorship shaped their partnership 15:00 – Overcoming fear of public speaking and self-doubt 18:00 – The power of pausing and preparation 21:00 – Why presence creates a ripple effect in business and life 24:00 – Using personas to step into confidence 28:00 – Liz’s high-pressure webinar story Connect with Liz and Michelle: Instagram - Website - Follow me on Instagram: 👉 If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to follow the podcast, share it with a friend, and leave a review. Your support helps us bring you more conversations that inspire growth and confidence.
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EP11: When a dinosaur takes you down: Handling unexpected disruptions with grace
08/17/2025
EP11: When a dinosaur takes you down: Handling unexpected disruptions with grace
What do you do when life throws you a curveball you never saw coming? Welcome to Command Your Presence Podcast Episode 11! In this solo episode, I share one of the most unexpected—and hilarious—moments of my career: getting literally knocked over by a dinosaur (yes, you read that right) during a live kids’ show. But this isn’t just a funny backstage story. It’s a powerful metaphor for how to handle those “dinosaur moments” in real life—the times when you’re blindsided in a meeting, hit with unexpected criticism, or forced to adapt on the spot. You’ll learn three simple yet powerful strategies for staying calm, pivoting with confidence, and owning your presence, even when you feel completely thrown off your game. Episode Highlights: 01:12 – The day a dinosaur took me down on stage 03:40 – Recognizing your own “dinosaur moments” in life and work 05:00 – Step 1: Pause and assess before reacting 05:42 – Step 2: Adapt and improvise under pressure 07:10 – Step 3: Command your presence and regain control 08:54 – Why grace under pressure is a skill worth cultivating 09:45 – Turning unexpected challenges into opportunities for growth Have you had a “dinosaur moment” this week? Share your story with me on Instagram —I’d love to hear how you handled it! And if you found this episode helpful, take a moment to rate, review, and share it with someone who could use a reminder that they can get back up, dust themselves off, and command the room—no matter what knocks them down.
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EP10: Simple body language hacks for authority
08/10/2025
EP10: Simple body language hacks for authority
🧠 Have you ever walked into a room and felt invisible—like no one took you seriously, no matter what you said? What if the secret wasn’t what you said... but how you held yourself? In this episode, we dive into simple yet powerful body language hacks that help you project authority, confidence, and credibility—without saying a word. Whether you're leading a team, presenting on Zoom, or walking into a client meeting, your nonverbal cues do the heavy lifting. 🎙️ You'll learn: Why over 50% of communication is nonverbal The secret behind power poses and how to use them to your advantage How to use gestures that command attention without seeming robotic What to avoid so you don’t look nervous or unsure The truth about crossed arms and how to decode them with nuance A practical weekly challenge to improve your posture and presence gradually ✨ The best part? You don’t have to change everything at once. Just pick one body language tweak and start small. Consistency over perfection—because confidence is built one intentional movement at a time. 🎯 Your homework: Choose one area—posture, gesture, or power pose—to focus on this week. Practice it daily in small moments, then reflect on how it changes your presence. 💬 DM me on Instagram and tell me what you're working on! I’d love to hear how it’s going and support you in the journey. 👀 Stay tuned for next week's episode, where we take things online—yep, we'll unpack how to command authority even in virtual meetings and Zoom calls.
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EP9: Lens, light, and life: Rory’s journey behind the camera
08/03/2025
EP9: Lens, light, and life: Rory’s journey behind the camera
You know you’re a creative when dinner turns into a lighting study, and a casual walk becomes a mental photo shoot. In this episode of Command Your Presence, Rory—a photographer who literally couldn’t turn off his creative brain even while landscaping for five years—joins us for a conversation about owning your presence, chasing your passion, and learning how to start before you're ready (even if you're holding 1,000+ potential gallery images hostage in your hard drive). We dive into: Why silence is awkward for some... and full of whistling for others How creativity refuses to clock out The moment Rory realized he was holding space like a pro (without even trying) Why the most powerful work often starts at 80% done The heartbreak of missing a once-in-a-lifetime shot... and learning to live with it And how to truly command your presence behind the lens and in life If you’re the kind of person who sees a perfect shot in the middle of chaos—or someone who’s still dreaming about starting—you’ll find this one comforting, relatable, and motivating in equal parts. 🎯 Loved this convo? Screenshot this episode and tag us with your biggest creative "just start" moment. And don’t forget to follow for more stories like this every week.
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EP8: From stage panic to power: How breathwork saved my big performance
07/27/2025
EP8: From stage panic to power: How breathwork saved my big performance
Have you ever been one breath away from falling apart? At 19, I was about to perform in the most important show of my life—agents in the crowd, lights blazing, adrenaline pumping. Everything we had trained for came down to this final night. But just before the curtain call, something unexpected hit me: I couldn't breathe. Not metaphorically—literally. In this raw and personal episode, I take you behind the scenes of a high-pressure, one-night-only performance, where exhaustion nearly knocked me out of the spotlight. You'll hear the moment I almost collapsed, how a friend's quiet support pulled me back, and how I learned to rely on the one thing we all have—our breath. Whether you're presenting in a boardroom, on stage, or leading a Zoom call, this episode is a reminder that you are never truly alone—and your breath is your secret weapon. In this episode, we explore: What really happened backstage that night The cough that came from nowhere (and never left) Why breath is the first step to commanding presence How to stay grounded during high-stakes moments A simple breathwork technique you can use anywhere—even in a toilet cubicle! If you’ve ever felt like the pressure was too much, this one’s for you. 👉 Take a deep breath—and hit play. And if you found this helpful, don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share it with someone who needs to hear it.
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EP7: How to sound confident when you speak
07/20/2025
EP7: How to sound confident when you speak
Did you know? According to a study by UCLA, only 7% of communication is based on the actual words we say. 38% is vocal tone, and the remaining 55% is body language. That means your voice alone carries over five times more weight than your words when it comes to how you're perceived. Let that sink in. If you’ve ever shared an idea in a meeting, on stage, or even in a casual conversation—only to feel unheard or brushed aside—this episode is for you. The way your voice sounds has the power to shift how seriously people take you. In this episode, we’ll break down: The 3 qualities of a confident voice: clarity, steadiness, and resonance Vocal habits that undermine your authority (hello, vocal fry and rising intonation) Key techniques to strengthen your voice: from pacing and tone to breath control and volume Why true vocal confidence starts within—and how health, mindset, and preparation all play a role A behind-the-scenes look at how I overcame shaky voice moments and the truth about preparation (spoiler: a one-hour keynote = 600 hours of practice!) 🎧 Whether you're prepping for a big presentation, leading a team meeting, or just want to sound more self-assured in everyday conversations, this episode is packed with practical tips and real talk to help you sound (and feel) like the most powerful version of yourself. Try this today: Pick a short paragraph and record yourself reading it with clarity, steady pacing, and tonal variety. Then listen back. You might be surprised by how much you’re capable of. Let’s take this further Share your practice or reflections with me on Instagram and tag me—I’d love to hear how you're showing up with more confidence this week. Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review if you’re enjoying these episodes. And next week, we’re diving into body language—yes, even if you're 5'1" like me. 😉 Stay tuned!
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EP6: Paris on commanding presence in the Middle East, fearless leadership and breaking barriers
07/13/2025
EP6: Paris on commanding presence in the Middle East, fearless leadership and breaking barriers
“You don’t go to Afghanistan for a vacation selfie.” That’s the bold energy Paris brings as a tour guide leading groups through some of the world’s most high-risk destinations — think Syria, Iraq, Madagascar, and beyond. As our second ever guest on the show, Paris shares what it really takes to guide people through intense, unpredictable, and often misunderstood regions. From managing grown adults’ expectations (and bowel emergencies ), to standing her ground in a male-dominated space, Paris gives us a behind-the-scenes look at a job that demands presence, grit, and a lot of guts. This isn’t a tourism highlight reel — this is about leadership under pressure, cultural sensitivity, and learning when to stop apologizing. In this episode, you’ll hear: How Paris stepped into her power after one disastrous tour The life-threatening moment that sharpened her mindset Why being “nice” isn’t enough — and when to start saying no The realities of guiding in conflict zones What changed when she started working for herself And yes... the logistics of desert bathroom breaks 👀 “You’re in my tour — not yours.” Paris may be young and blonde, but don’t underestimate her. She’s been there more times than anyone, and she’s the one making sure you come back home safe. Curious about exploring the side of the world we only see in headlines? Want to travel with someone who actually understands the ground you're walking on? Follow Paris on Instagram and keep an eye out for the launch of her private tour company — where courage meets culture, and experience makes all the difference. If this episode inspired you, share it with a fellow travel lover or someone curious about leadership in unconventional places. Don’t forget to rate and review the show — it helps more people discover these important stories.
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EP5: Vomit, fear and the show must go on: Performing under extreme pressure
07/06/2025
EP5: Vomit, fear and the show must go on: Performing under extreme pressure
Picture this: it’s five minutes before curtain at a major international festival. You’re the only person on stage for a 40-minute solo show. And you’re on the bathroom floor, projectile vomiting. In this raw and unforgettable episode, I share the true story of performing my one-woman show Safety Banana under extreme physical stress and what it taught me about presence, preparation, and pushing through fear. From a broken tap shoe to blood dripping down my arm, this wasn’t just about "the show must go on." It was about being so prepared that your body can take over when your mind wants to give up. If you’ve ever felt like nerves, imposter syndrome, or physical limitations might stop you from showing up powerfully, this one’s for you. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why preparation isn’t just about knowing your lines. It’s about knowing them in your body How performance and presence rely on resilience and rehearsal What to do when things don’t go as planned on stage (or in life) Why your audience doesn’t know what you didn’t plan and how that works in your favor 🎧 Listen now to hear how I got through that show, and what it means for how you show up in high-stakes moments. 👉 Ready to command the room, even under pressure? Follow the podcast, share this episode with a friend who performs or presents, and DM me your biggest takeaway over on Instagram . Let’s keep building your presence, confidence, and impact one story at a time.
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EP4: What does It mean to command presence?
07/01/2025
EP4: What does It mean to command presence?
Have you ever walked into a room and felt invisible? Or maybe you've seen someone instantly command attention and thought, “How do they do that?” Here’s the truth: commanding presence isn’t something you’re just born with. It’s something you can learn, refine, and show up with—every single day. In this episode, we’re breaking down what it really means to command presence and why it’s about so much more than being the loudest person in the room. Whether you're speaking on stage, leading a Zoom call, or just trying to feel seen in your everyday life, these tools will help you show up with authenticity, confidence, and connection. What you’ll learn in this episode: What commanding presence actually is (hint: it’s not about being perfect or pushy) The 4 key components: body language, voice, energy, and mindset The 3 core pillars of presence: authenticity, confidence, and connection Simple, actionable tools to build your presence right away Why practicing presence in everyday settings (yes, even at a barbecue) makes all the difference A behind-the-scenes look at how I learned to show up powerfully—even in uncomfortable moments You’ll also hear honest stories, real-life examples (including teaching 3-year-olds), and simple ways to embody your presence no matter where you are or who you’re with. Pick one area this week to intentionally practice your presence. Whether it's a meeting, a casual conversation, or your next social hangout—show up with intention. Reflect afterward. How did it feel to be more grounded, more connected, more you? If this episode resonated with you, I’d love to hear from you. Message me on Instagram and let me know what “commanding presence” looks like in your world. Next time, we’re diving deeper into body language and how to project confidence without saying a word. Until next time, keep showing up owning your voice and making your mark. You've got this.
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EP3: How Emily built a 10,000-strong community (and found her voice along the way)
06/29/2025
EP3: How Emily built a 10,000-strong community (and found her voice along the way)
Emily is one of those people who leads quietly but powerfully. She doesn’t need the spotlight, but when she speaks, people listen. Over the last eight years, she’s gone from working in financial planning to becoming the heart of a 10,000-strong community of advisors. In this episode, she shares how she found her voice, not by becoming an expert, but by learning how to connect, listen, and truly see people. In this episode, we cover: 🔥 How Emily went from outsider to trusted voice in a tight-knit industry 🌱 Why you don’t need to be the smartest in the room to be valuable 👀 What it really takes to command presence in a digital space 📹 The uncomfortable (but necessary) habit that skyrocketed her confidence 💡 How thoughtful follow-up and showing you care builds long-term influence Emily has a gift for spotting what people need before they even know it. Her journey is full of grounded wisdom, hard-earned confidence, and practical insights for anyone looking to lead with more impact, on or off the stage. 💬 Enjoyed the episode? Don’t forget to follow the show, leave a cheeky 5-star review, and share this with your favorite community builder, quietly confident queen, or anyone who's on their own journey to owning their magic. Until next time, keep showing up owning your voice and making your mark. You've got this.
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EP2: Who am I?
06/29/2025
EP2: Who am I?
🎙️ Studies show that 77% of people experience anxiety about public speaking. For many professionals, that fear doesn’t just show up on stage, but in meetings, interviews, and everyday conversations. Welcome back to Command Your Presence! In this powerful solo episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on my personal journey from dancer to solo performer to confidence coach and sharing the real, raw moments that shaped how I show up today. You'll hear what it felt like to stand in the spotlight of my first solo show, why commanding presence has nothing to do with being perfect, and the role storytelling, self-awareness, and support systems play in truly owning your voice. Whether you’ve ever felt too scripted, not prepared enough, or just unsure if your message will land, this episode is for you. What You’ll Learn: Why presence is a learned skill, not an inborn talent How to reframe fear as a sign you’re stepping into growth The importance of having your own "brain’s trust" to support your message Why authenticity beats perfection every time 🎧 Tune in and learn how to start showing up with confidence in every room you enter. 👉 What’s a pivotal moment in your life that shaped who you are today? DM me on Instagram and let’s start a conversation. And don’t forget to follow the show for more practical episodes on building presence, boosting confidence, and making your voice unstoppable.
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EP1: What is Command Your Presence?
06/29/2025
EP1: What is Command Your Presence?
Have you ever walked away from a conversation, a presentation, or even a simple introduction wishing you had spoken with more confidence? Welcome to the very first episode of Command Your Presence! 🎙️ Do you ever feel like you’re too scripted, or not scripted enough, when you speak? Maybe you worry about forgetting your words or not making the impact you intended? You're not alone. Presence isn’t just about being in the room, it’s about how you show up, how you communicate, and the confidence you radiate. In this episode, I will share my personal journey from dancer to solo performer, highlighting the pivotal moments that taught me how to truly command presence. From my first production in the Melbourne SpiegelTent to developing solo shows like Safety Banana and Tinder Cindy, I will uncover the lessons that helped me transform from a performer into a confident speaker and storyteller. ✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why commanding presence isn’t an inborn talent but a skill you develop ✔️ The power of storytelling and how it makes your message unforgettable ✔️ How to overcome fear and step into the spotlight with confidence 🎧 Listen in and start owning your voice! 👉 Before we dive into future episodes, take a moment to reflect: What’s one time in your life where you wish you had commanded your presence? DM me on and share your story I’d love to hear it! Until next time, keep showing up owning your voice and making your mark. You've got this.
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Command Your Presence Trailer Episode
06/28/2025
Command Your Presence Trailer Episode
Your presence can make or break your message. It’s time to own the room before you even say a word. Hey there, I’m Jacinda Patty, and welcome to the trailer episode of Command Your Presence! I’m so excited you’re here. This podcast is all about helping you speak with confidence, communicate with clarity, and show up with impact. In each episode, I’ll be sharing actionable strategies, expert insights, and stories that inspire so you can feel grounded, focused, and powerful whenever all eyes are on you. Whether you're prepping for a big presentation, pitching your ideas, leading a team, or just want to feel more comfortable using your voice, this show is for you. I truly believe presence is something we can all build, and I’m here to help you do exactly that. In this kickoff trailer, you’ll hear: Why I started Command Your Presence What you can expect from future episodes Who this podcast is really for (spoiler alert: probably you!) If this resonates, I’d love for you to follow the show so you never miss an episode. And if you’re feeling generous, leave a quick review and share this with a friend who’s ready to step into their power, too. Want more? Come hang out with me on Instagram for more tips and behind-the-scenes goodness. Let’s command our presence together. I’m so glad you’re here!
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