How to Change a Negative Lifestyle When Everyone is Doing It
Release Date: 12/04/2025
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Thank you for helping us reach over 1,000 downloads. This episode is just a sharing of messages that people need to hear and I'm trusting it'll find its way to them in perfect timing. If you identify as any of these, take some time to listen. 1) Intuitive/highly sensitive 2) You don't quite fit though you're never an outsider 3) Feel stuck even though you're capable and put in the work Note: Here's where you can find the I mention.
info_outlineIn this episode, Arejay shares powerful, practical strategies for changing a negative lifestyle, even when you're surrounded by people who aren't ready to change. She encourages listeners to challenge the belief that “everyone is doing it” and instead focus on finding or creating supportive communities aligned with healthier, more positive goals. Arejay emphasizes starting small and being prepared for resistance from friends and family. Start, stay committed, seek out environments that reflect your ideal lifestyle, and confidently walk your own path until others are inspired to follow.
Got a topic you want me to dive into? A question you’re holding?
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