Ep 96 - How Diabetes Shapes Relationships—and vice versa with Kaycee Parker
Release Date: 03/10/2025
Type 1 In Midlife: Support for Women with Type 1 Diabetes Facing Perimenopause, Menopause, Hormonal Changes, Insulin Resistance, Weight Gain, and Blood Sugar Struggles
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info_outlineToday I talked with a frequent guest of the show Kaycee Parker to explore the intricate relationship between diabetes and personal connections. Diagnosed with type 1 diabetes at age 12, Kaycee has lived with the condition for over 30 years. With a background in journalism and a passion for storytelling, she shares her journey of managing diabetes through the lens of faith.
We discuss the profound impact diabetes has on family dynamics, parenting, and spousal support. They delve into the emotional toll it takes on both the individual and their loved ones, emphasizing the importance of communication, setting boundaries, and fostering understanding.
Our conversation also highlights the evolving nature of relationships as children grow up with a parent who has diabetes and how friendships and community support play a crucial role in managing the condition.
Whether you or a loved one live with diabetes, this episode offers valuable insights on navigating relationships with grace, resilience, and faith.
Key Takeaways:
- Diabetes impacts both the individual and their relationships.
- Open communication is essential for managing diabetes with family and friends.
- Children's understanding of diabetes evolves as they grow.
- Spousal support plays a key role in diabetes management.
- Parent-child and sibling dynamics are affected by diabetes.
- Normalizing diabetes helps children accept it.
- Boundaries are important in relationships affected by chronic illness.
- Past experiences shape current diabetes management and relationships.
- Balancing diabetes care with everyday life is crucial.
- Support from mentors, friends, and community fosters resilience.
- Education helps dispel misconceptions about diabetes.
- Simple explanations help friends understand diabetes better.
- Faith provides strength in managing chronic illness.
- Sharing experiences reduces feelings of isolation.
- Open discussions strengthen relationships.
- Seeking help and resources is a sign of strength.
Whether you or someone you love is living with diabetes, this episode offers practical insights on balancing diabetes management while nurturing strong, supportive relationships. Tune in for an inspiring and honest conversation!
Visit her website http://devotionsondiabetes.com/
Two articles on this topic:
How Diabetes Affects Relationships
Two Diabetes Friends You Need in Your Life
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