The Biblical Battle Plan: How to Break Free from Strongholds (The 4 R’s) with Pastor Rustin Rossello
Release Date: 03/17/2025
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Ep 51 - Pastor Rustin Rossello from Scottsdale Bible Church shares his personal journey of redemption and transformation through faith, offering a powerful testimony that resonates deeply with anyone who's ever felt trapped by life's strongholds. As someone who has battled with substance use, Pastor Rustin provides a raw and inspiring account of finding freedom in Christ. Key highlights from our conversation include: Understanding Strongholds: Pastor Rustin breaks down the concept of spiritual strongholds, explaining how they are formed and why they have such a grip on our lives. He shares...
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Thank you for joining us for Episode 47 where we discuss what happens to a family when alcohol becomes a significant problem? Discussing alcohol and its impact on your family internally? Check out the rest of for more helpful content, books, or programs that have helped others. This week's guest, Pastor Jack Hawkins returns to share his own personal story of his childhood and how alcohol impacted his family. He opens up about his past, the profound impact of his father's drinking, and how faith played a crucial role in his healing journey. Together, they explore themes of...
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Ep 46 - This week we have such a great topic, the neurobiology of alcohol use disorder and how it progresses, and what is going on in your brain and when it turns into something called addiction, We then get to where you need medical attention, and we have an expert to talk to us about it all, Dr. Holly Geyer. She is an associate professor of medicine and consultant in the division of hospital internal internal medicine at Mayo Clinic in Phoenix. On this episode - 04:11 Understanding Substance and Alcohol Use Disorder 06:35 The Biology of Substance Use Disorder 07:30 The...
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Ep 45 - We have a special guest with us today: Dr. Aaron Weiner. Dr. Weiner is a board-certified psychologist and addiction specialist who works nationally on addiction, behavioral health, and the impact of drug policies on public health. His expertise comes from directing hospital addiction services, along with experience in private practice, combining clinical experience with current research. Because we're interviewing a doctor today, I wanted to give you a quick disclaimer: The content of this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. The views and opinions expressed are...
info_outlineEp 51 - Pastor Rustin Rossello from Scottsdale Bible Church shares his personal journey of redemption and transformation through faith, offering a powerful testimony that resonates deeply with anyone who's ever felt trapped by life's strongholds. As someone who has battled with substance use, Pastor Rustin provides a raw and inspiring account of finding freedom in Christ.
Key highlights from our conversation include:
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Understanding Strongholds: Pastor Rustin breaks down the concept of spiritual strongholds, explaining how they are formed and why they have such a grip on our lives. He shares how, through seemingly small agreements, we give the enemy a place to operate in our lives.
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The 4 R’s to Break Free: Discover the biblical battle plan involving the 4 R’s—Repent, Receive, Rebuke, and Replace—that can dismantle these strongholds and lead you to a life of spiritual freedom.
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The Power of Truth: Highlighting the necessity of being rooted in God's Word, Pastor Rustin stresses the role of truth in overcoming the lies and deceptions of the enemy.
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Community and Accountability: Learn the importance of finding a supportive community that shares your struggles, as well as the transformational power of accountability in your journey.
This episode is a lifeline for anyone seeking to overcome addiction, fear, or any stronghold that keeps them from living abundantly. We explore not just the problem, but also provide actionable steps to pave your way towards spiritual victory.
We also encourage you to revisit the sermon by Pastor Rustin that sparked this conversation. It's linked in our episode show notes and is a must-watch for anyone wanting to delve deeper into spiritual warfare and freedom. https://www.scottsdalebible.com/message-archive/v/spiritual-warfare-week-1-breaking-strongholds?categoryId=648a5f39388c793aabc68b24
Thank you for being part of our community. We hope this episode equips and encourages you to stand firm in your faith and live life to the fullest as God intended.
P.S. Remember Galatians 5:1 - "It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery." Let's walk together in this truth!
00:00 A sermon on spiritual battles attracted 2,000 attendees, emphasizing that our true battles are spiritual, not physical.
04:14 Molested at five, I became a people pleaser, using humor and athletics to cope, feeling at home in junior high where everyone felt awkward about sex and bodies.
08:18 Struggled with self-acceptance, rediscovered faith, and sought a grace-based relationship with God after a decade away.
11:12 A churchgoer, Steve, encouraged daily attendance to counter daily drinking; the narrator later confesses this to their concerned spouse.
14:49 Sober journey from suicidal to teaching pastor over 15 years; unexpected transformation attributed to faith.
18:52 Sin begins with agreement with the enemy, as seen in Genesis, where Eve is tempted despite being in God's perfect creation.
20:57 Mankind's choice to prioritize temptation over God's will led to sin, resulting in a fallen state marked by death and decay.
25:51 Fear leads to a false sense of control, offering an illusion of power without actual influence.
27:57 Believers face spiritual warfare, risking agreements with the enemy, who distorts God's creation. God should be our stronghold, not the enemy.
31:18 Recovery requires spiritual growth and community support with like-minded individuals who understand your struggles.
35:24 Christ's victory over sin and death subdues the enemy, who still seeks to destroy incrementally to remain hidden.
36:53 Don't measure your life by others' standards. Personal challenges can feel major due to internal struggles, much like how trauma exacerbates situations unexpectedly.
40:37 Years of counseling helped me place my sexual abuse on an abuse spectrum, offering clarity and comfort.
45:55 Dismantling spiritual strongholds involves repentance, receiving forgiveness, rebuking the enemy, using Christ's authority, and replacing lies with truth. Repentance means turning away from sin, not just seeking forgiveness.
49:25 Repentance involves changing beliefs and returning to God's goodness, leading to forgiveness upon confessing sins.
51:16 The Bible teaches active rebuking of the enemy through obedience and authority, as demonstrated by Jesus, the disciples, and other followers who cast out demons and brought the kingdom.
56:03 Recovery needs a higher power; flourishing addicts often recognize this.
59:10 Praying for those struggling despite trying various solutions, seeking spiritual breakthrough.
59:44 Pray for breakthrough, guidance, and restoration.