The Treasure of God’s Wisdom - Receiving the Wisdom God Freely Gives
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Ep 74 - In this episode of Say Goodbye and Imagine!, Rose Ann Forte continues the Wisdom series with a reflection on Proverbs 2:6–7 (NLT), a passage that reminds us that wisdom is not earned through experience or effort—it is granted by God. Rose Ann walks listeners through a devotional reflection on why so many of us admire biblical wisdom yet struggle to access it when making real-life decisions. She explores how wisdom comes directly from God’s Word, how listening for His voice requires intentional pause, and why integrity activates the protection Scripture promises. This episode...
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Godly Decision Making - Why Wisdom Begins with Time, Obedience, and Foundation
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Ep 73 - A Wisdom Series Conversation Inspired by the YouVersion Devotional “Choosing Wisdom for Men" In this episode of Say Goodbye and Imagine!, Rose Ann Forte continues her wisdom series with a thoughtful conversation on godly decision making, time, and spiritual foundation—topics that deeply resonate with women navigating relationships, leadership, family, and personal growth. Joined by writer and business leader Dan Snyder, Rose Ann explores Choosing Wisdom for Men, a new five-day devotional now available on the YouVersion Bible App. While written specifically for men, this devotional...
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The Wisdom of Not Walking Alone
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Ep 72 - As we begin a new year, many people quietly reflect on what they want to change—how they want to feel, who they want to become, and which habits no longer serve them. In this episode of Say Goodbye and Imagine, Rose Ann Forte continues the Wisdom Series by exploring why community plays a critical role in lasting change. Drawing from Acts 2:42, this episode examines how the early believers devoted themselves to teaching, fellowship, shared meals, and prayer—and why faith was never meant to be practiced in isolation. Rose Ann shares personal stories from churches, Bible studies,...
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Compassion, Justice, and the Choices That Shape Generations
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Ep 71 - A wisdom devotional on God’s nature, generational impact, and choosing obedience Episode Summary In this episode of Say Goodbye and Imagine, Rose Ann walks listeners through a powerful wisdom devotional rooted in Exodus 34:6–8, where God declares His own name and nature: compassionate, merciful, slow to anger, faithful — and just. This passage reveals a holy tension we often struggle to hold: God’s unfailing love alongside real consequences for unrepentant sin. Rose Ann reflects on how Scripture repeatedly shows God patiently warning, inviting, and calling His people back —...
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When Life Gets Loud, Listen Closer
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Ep 70 - When life gets loud and when distractions multiply, emotions surge, routines slip, and pressures rise, our first instinct is usually to run faster, try harder, or grasp for control. But Jesus gives us a different invitation: “Pay close attention to what you hear…” —Mark 4:24–25 (NLT) In this episode, Rose Ann shares a deeply personal devotional about learning to listen closely to God in seasons of chaos and in seasons of comfort—when things were falling apart and when they seemed to be going well. She also opens up about the subtle drift that happens when we stop listening,...
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The Moment Before You Lose Control
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Ep 69 - In this episode of Say Goodbye and Imagine, Rose Ann transitions from the 12 Core Concepts into a brand-new exploration of godly wisdom—how Scripture guides our choices, shapes our mindset, and strengthens our self-control. Rose Ann shares the behind-the-scenes process of how her devotional writings begin: through daily Bible reading, reflection, and noticing what God highlights in His Word. Today’s insight comes from Genesis 4:7, a passage where God gently warns Cain that sin is crouching at the door—but also affirms that Cain has the power to subdue it. This episode dives...
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Mindset Protection: Winning the Daily Battle Within - Core Concept 12
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In the final episode of this 12-part series, Rose Ann Forte brings it all together with the powerful truth that we’re not just facing a behavior challenge—we’re fighting a spiritual battle. Drawing from Ephesians 6, this episode unpacks the Full Armor of God in practical, relatable ways and ties each piece of armor to the mindset shifts you’ve explored throughout the Core Concepts. You’ll learn: Why mindset is your greatest defense against relapse How spiritual armor protects you in your most vulnerable moments The real reason we keep going back to what hurts us—and how to stop...
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It’s Addictive: The Neuroscience of Habit and the Hope of Renewal - Core Concept 11
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Why do we keep going back to the things we say we don’t want to do? What if the problem isn’t a moral failure—but a hijacked reward system in the brain? In this episode, Rose Ann Forte dives into the neuroscience behind addiction and why willpower alone isn’t enough to break free. With biblical wisdom and brain-based understanding, she reveals the powerful biological process God designed—and how addictive substances or behaviors take advantage of it. If you’ve ever wondered “What happened to me? I used to be goal-oriented... joyful... motivated…”—this episode will help you...
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From Numb to Finding Purpose - Core Concept 10
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What happened to the person you used to be—the one who set goals, dreamed big, and believed they were made for more? In this episode of Say Goodbye and Imagine, Rose Ann Forte explores Core Concept 10: Finding Purpose—the pivotal moment when we begin to replace destructive habits with meaningful pursuits. This isn't about giving something up—it's about stepping into who God created you to be. Drawing from Scripture and real-life reflection, Rose Ann shares how purpose gets lost when we’re numbing pain, and how we can reclaim it—one step at a time. Understanding Purpose Loss How...
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The Two Commandments That Can Change Everything - Core Concept 9
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This week Rose Ann explores Core Concept 9 from the Choose Freedom Program: The Greatest Commandments. Discover how two simple but profound commands from Jesus can transform your freedom journey and help you understand the root of addiction and destructive behaviors. Key Topics Covered The Greatest Commandment Rose Ann unpacks Matthew 22:37-40, where Jesus identifies the commandments: Love God with all your heart, soul, and mind, and love your neighbor as yourself. Learn how prioritizing these commands creates the foundation for lasting freedom. Building Your Relationship with God Daily time...
info_outlineWhat happened to the person you used to be—the one who set goals, dreamed big, and believed they were made for more? In this episode of Say Goodbye and Imagine, Rose Ann Forte explores Core Concept 10: Finding Purpose—the pivotal moment when we begin to replace destructive habits with meaningful pursuits.
This isn't about giving something up—it's about stepping into who God created you to be.
Drawing from Scripture and real-life reflection, Rose Ann shares how purpose gets lost when we’re numbing pain, and how we can reclaim it—one step at a time.
Understanding Purpose Loss
- How substances and toxic behaviors cloud our sense of purpose and God-given gifts
- The disconnection from who we were created to be
- Moving from goal-oriented confidence to feeling lost and frustrated
The Lies We Believe
- Impact of unrealistic standards and comparison culture
- Pressure to fit in rather than embrace our unique design
- How pain and coping mechanisms (like drinking) deepen the disconnection from purpose
Biblical Foundation Three key scriptures discussed:
- Jeremiah 29:11 - God's plans to prosper and give hope
- Ephesians 2:10 - Created for good works prepared in advance
- Romans 12:2 - Transformed by the renewing of your mind
This week, take time to reflect on the person you used to be and the dreams you've set aside. Ask yourself: "What did I use to love doing? What have I always wanted to try?"
Whether it's picking up a musical instrument, exploring a career change through community college courses, or rediscovering hobbies like flower arranging, woodworking, or sports—start small but start somewhere.
For parents, consider how you can be more present with your children and what lasting memories or values you want to instill in them.
Remember, finding purpose isn't about grand gestures or immediate transformation; it's about following the instincts of who you were created to be and trusting that God will use these joy-filled pursuits in His kingdom.
The key is to replace what you're removing with something that brings genuine fulfillment and aligns with your unique design.
In the next episode, we'll dive into Core Concept 11: It's Addictive, where we'll explore the nature of addictive substances and behaviors and how understanding this reality can strengthen your resolve to stay free.
Before then, if this podcast is serving you on your journey, please take a moment to like, rate, or review it on your favorite platform—your feedback helps others discover these life-changing concepts.
Know someone who's stuck in a pattern they desperately want to break free from? Share this episode with them; sometimes one small act of encouragement can be the catalyst for transformation.
And if you've read "The Plans He Has for Me: Prepare to Quit or Transform by His Promises," leaving an honest review (even just one or two sentences) can help guide others toward their path to freedom.
Remember, you don't have to walk this journey alone—the Choose Freedom Program has licensed professionals ready to support you in any area where you feel stuck. Blessings until next time!
Practical Application
- It's never too late (Rose Anne quit drinking at 60)
- God never removes His call on our lives until our last breath
- Replace toxic habits with dreams, visions, and joyful pursuits
- Examples: learning an instrument, career change, community college courses, hobbies like flower arranging, woodworking, bowling, or golfing
- For parents: finding purpose in raising godly children
The Shift in Perspective
- It's not about stopping the behavior through willpower
- It's about turning away from destruction and toward your God-given gifts
- Focus on what brings joy and what you were created to do
Action Steps
- Reflect on "I used to be so..." statements
- Identify dreams or activities you've always wanted to pursue
- Start doing something that brings you joy
- Don't pursue this journey alone - seek support
Resources Mentioned
- Choose Freedom Program with licensed professionals - https://choosefreedom.today/directory/
- Book: "The Plans He Has for Me: Prepare to Quit or Transform by His Promises" - https://choosefreedom.today/books/
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