EP14: The Circle of Confidence: How to Trust Yourself and Take Action
Release Date: 05/17/2024
Ep19: How to Move From Anxiety to Agency
The Ambitious Procrastinator
Whether you're feeling overwhelmed by the current events, the holiday season, or personal challenges, this episode is packed with insights and practical tools to help you navigate those anxious moments. Here are three key takeaways from this episode that I believe will help you bring the best of yourself into each moment: Reframe Anxiety as an Invitation: Instead of viewing anxiety as a negative force, consider it an invitation to grow and learn. Anxiety often signals that something important to you is at stake. By recognizing this, you can shift your perspective and use that energy to fuel...
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Ep 18: How to Use Procrastination as a Compass
The Ambitious Procrastinator
This show is designed to be listened to while on a walk, so put on your favorite sneakers, double tie your shoelaces and then listen to this episode. In this episode, I delve into the concept of procrastination and how it can actually serve as a compass guiding us towards our deepest desires and fears. What if the very things we avoid may actually be pointing us towards something significant. I beleive that procrastination often stems from a lack of clarity, consistency, or confidence. By reframing procrastination as a signal of what truly matters to us, we can uncover valuable insights...
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EP 17: How to Break Your Belief Barrier
The Ambitious Procrastinator
In this episode, I delve into the power of belief and how it shapes our reality, thoughts, actions, and energy. Together we explore the concept of belief, highlighting how it influences our brain's plasticity and can physically change our brain structure. Drawing from personal experiences, I also share how beliefs can be shaped by our environment, experiences, and the people around us. As Henry Ford said, "whether you think you can or you think you can't, you're right." This episode serves as a reminder to choose beliefs that propel us towards our best possible future and to believe in...
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Episode 16: Hard Decisions: Quit, Start Over, Compromise, or Keep Going
The Ambitious Procrastinator
Use this episode to walk and listen to as you assess your decisions on the topics of compromise and consistency. Click to learn more about the 4K poster mentioned in the show. Enter Petra as you checkout to receive a 10% discount. In this episode, Petra shares her personal journey with a challenging program called 75 Hard, where she had to make decisions on whether to compromise or start over. She discusses the importance of aligning our actions with our values and goals, and how sometimes compromising can be the best choice for our growth and progress. Here are...
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Episode 15: Time ROI: Investing in What Truly Matters
The Ambitious Procrastinator
Use this episode to walk and listen as you reassess your daily routines, identify time-wasting habits, and make intentional choices to create a more fulfilling and balanced life. Click to learn more about the 4K poster mentioned in the show. Enter Petra as you checkout to receive a 10% discount. In this episode, join Petra as she explores the topic of time management and the importance of investing our most precious resource, time, wisely. Reflecting on the concept of return on investment (ROI) for our time, the episode delves into strategies to optimize how we spend our days and...
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EP14: The Circle of Confidence: How to Trust Yourself and Take Action
The Ambitious Procrastinator
This Episode is sponsored by The Catalyst Community, a membership for Ambitious Procrastinators in Mid-Life. To learn more visit This weeks show is all about how to take confident actions before we actually "feel" confident. I'm also trying something new this week. At the end of the show I'll be asking 5 questions to help you tap into your inner coach. These questiones are desgined to be done while walking or moving and I've added some music to keep you company. Confidence is something that I never thought I would be known for teaching, considering my own struggles with it as a child....
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Episode 13: Navigating the Sunk Cost Fallacy: When to Hold On and When to Let Go
The Ambitious Procrastinator
This Episode is sponsored by The Catalyst Community, a membership for Ambitious Procrastinators in Mid-Life. To learn more visit In this episode of The Ambitious Procrastinator, I explore the concept of the sunk cost fallacy and its impact on our decision-making processes. Drawing from my own experiences I talk about how we often hold onto projects, relationships, or commitments longer than necessary due to past investments, whether it be time, money, or effort. Here are three takeaways from this weeks show. 1️⃣ Sunk Cost Fallacy: In this episode, we dive into the...
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Episode 12: Second Thoughts: The Art of Changing Your Mind
The Ambitious Procrastinator
This Episode is sponsored by The Catalyst Community, a membership for Ambitious Procrastinators in Mid-Life. To learn more visit In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of changing our minds. Changing your mind is not a weakness. It's a sign of strength and growth. It means you're betting on yourself and your values, allowing room for new opportunities and possibilities to step in. Here are the key takeaways from this week's episode. Changing Your Mind is a Sign of Strength: Many of us fear changing our minds because we think it's a sign of weakness or lack of commitment. However,...
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Episode 11: When To Ride and When To Wait
The Ambitious Procrastinator
In this episode of The Ambitious Procrastinator, I share a metaphor of surfing, to illustrate how we can navigate through life's challenges and opportunities. Drawing inspiration from observing surfers at Redondo Beach and watching the documentary series "100 Foot Wave," I discuss the importance of seizing opportunities, taking action, and having faith in ourselves. In this show I compare our life to three choices that surfers make daily: When to Ride the Wave: Just like surfers navigate the ocean, we too must learn to ride the waves of life. Whether it's seizing opportunities,...
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Episode 10: How to Trust Yourself: Mastering Self-trust for Unstoppable Progress
The Ambitious Procrastinator
In this episode, Petra explores the importance of TRUST - especially when it comes to trusting ourselves and teaches us five ways to strengthen our beleif in ourselves. She uses the acronym Truth, Respect, Understanding, Self-Awareness and Time to build her case for why this is such an important tool for you, and how to use it, as you create your best possible future. Here are three key takeaways from the episode: 1️⃣ Trust in Yourself: Trusting yourself is about living out loud what you already know to be true. It's about believing in your abilities, strengths, and intuition....
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This weeks show is all about how to take confident actions before we actually "feel" confident. I'm also trying something new this week. At the end of the show I'll be asking 5 questions to help you tap into your inner coach. These questiones are desgined to be done while walking or moving and I've added some music to keep you company.
Confidence is something that I never thought I would be known for teaching, considering my own struggles with it as a child. Growing up, I was riddled with anxiety and self-doubt, always feeling like I didn't measure up. It wasn't until I encountered a group of confident Americans in my late teens that I realized there was a different way of being in the world.
Confidence, I've come to learn, is not something we are born with but rather something we can nurture and strengthen over time. It's like a muscle that requires daily practice and intentional effort.
Here are three key takeaways from this episode that I believe can truly make a difference in your journey towards confidence:
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Actions of Confidence Always Come Before Feelings of Confidence: One of the most powerful insights shared in this episode is that confidence is not a destination but a journey. It's about who you are becoming along the way. Remember, actions of confidence always come before feelings of confidence. It's through taking action, practicing, failing, and learning that we truly strengthen our confidence muscle.
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The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem: We talk about the pillars of self-esteem outlined by Nathaniel Brandon in his book "The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem." These pillars include living consciously, self-acceptance, self-responsibility, self-assertiveness, living purposefully, and personal integrity. Reflecting on these pillars can help us understand how to nurture our self-belief and build a strong foundation of confidence.
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Visualizing Confidence and Taking Empowering Actions: Visualizing what confidence looks like in a specific area of your life and taking empowering actions can be transformative. By supporting yourself through self-care, positive self-talk, and surrounding yourself with uplifting individuals, you can boost your confidence and step into your full potential.
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