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Origins of Anxious Attachment w Chris Rackliffe & Kaneez Surka | Ask a Matchmaker w Matchmaker Maria

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Release Date: 03/18/2025

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On this week’s episode of Ask a Matchmaker,  is joined by co-host  are on a hotline ep, answering your toughest dating dilemmas. First, a 42-year-old single woman from Jersey City is looking for love, but struggles to find men who match her lifestyle and ambition. Maria offers advice on expanding her dating pool beyond NYC, embracing men with kids, and not letting success limit her options. Next, a listener shares a CRINGE-worthy story about dating a man with shockingly poor hygiene, think no soap and dirty forks! Maria urges her to walk away fast and explains why basic...

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How do you open the conversation about polyamory with your partner, without blowing things up? On this week’s episode of Ask a Matchmaker, is joined by co-host and NYC-based relationship therapist and professor to explore the nuances of ethical non-monogamy. From setting ground rules to navigating emotional triggers, Melissa shares expert insights on how to communicate openly, define boundaries, and check in regularly in polyamorous relationships. The trio also dives into how attachment styles can impact relationship dynamics and how to approach these conversations with empathy and...

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On this week’s Ask a Matchmaker, Matchmaker Maria sits down with the fearless and unfiltered co-host of the Decisions Decisions podcast and co-author of the brand-new book . From sugar baby adventures to navigating the emotional rollercoaster of dating in NYC, Weezy shares jaw-dropping stories that are equal parts hilarious and eye-opening. The two dive deep into the realities of sex, money, power, and the lessons behind it all, including why building a stock portfolio beats collecting purses! They also unpack what it means to date post-pandemic, finding connection in chaos, and the magic...

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This week, Matchmaker Maria is joined by her hilarious and heartfelt co-host for the month, comedian ! They dive deep into what it really means to love someone, and how therapy, timelines, and choosing your own adventure can all be ways to say “I love you.” Joyelle shares the origin story of her relationship, from getting set up by none other than Ilana Glazer (yes, that Ilana!) to navigating early pandemic dating, moving in together, and discussing major life decisions like marriage and kids. Along the way, she and Maria get candid about why therapy isn't just for crises, how evolving...

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This week, Maria is joined by her sister, Matchmaker Chrisoula! before we get into it, Maria's new book,  , is out! Go buy it! Now tune in for a special Hotline Episode of the podcast! The two take calls from listeners looking for real-time dating advice, from situationships to second date confusion. Also we dive into a callers life sharing about how she is a caretaker and struggling with her parner and trust. Maria and Chrisoula don’t hold back as they offer tough love, tactical tips, and a few laughs along the way. Whether you're dating with intention or feeling stuck in a cycle, this...

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In , celebrity matchmaker Maria Avgitidis blends heartfelt storytelling with decades of experience to offer a refreshingly honest guide to modern dating. Written as a “prescriptive memoir,” this isn’t just a dating manual it’s a candid, deeply personal conversation over coffee with a trusted friend. From her upbringing straddling Greek and American cultures to her revelations on how pop culture shaped our romantic expectations, Maria explores how our environments, past relationships, and cultural conditioning influence the way we love. She weaves in moments of vulnerability, like...

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Matchmaker Maria is just one week away from the release of her new book , and she's calling on all her listeners to support it! Whether you're a page-turner or an audiobook addict, now's the time to preorder and get ready to transform your dating life. Then it’s time to open the hotline! Maria is joined by her sister and fellow matchmaker, Ursula, as they dive into listener questions, starting with Brianna, who’s navigating the tricky post-hookup headspace after a sudden change of plans led her to her date’s house. Is he being consistent… or was that the beginning of the end? Plus, an...

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This week on Ask a Matchmaker, Matchmaker Maria is joined by a fellow matchmaker, her sister and May's cohost, Chrisoula! The two are diving into the matchmaking world! What it takes, how it works, and why it’s not all candlelit dinners and perfect matches. From surprising client obstacles to touching success stories, Maria and Chrisoula pull back the curtain on their day-to-day process, including how they vet matches, spot red flags, and determine compatibility. They reflect on the importance of empathy, professionalism, and the collaborative work of their full team at Agape...

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This week on Ask a Matchmaker, Maria is joined by the wildly entertaining Jesse, who brings her playful energy and real talk to your biggest dating dilemmas! 💌 First up, Brianna is overthinking a recent date with a man she felt went too well. Maria breaks it down with practical advice about pacing new relationships and managing expectations. 💥 Then, we hear from a listener whose recent first dates were filled with crossed boundaries and red flags. Maria delivers empowering advice on boundary-setting! 👻 Finally, Katie from Florida wants revenge on a man who ghosted her after two...

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This week, is joined by the insightful and hilarious  to break down what's happening in the wild world of dating right now. From the rise of kittenfishing—yes, that sneaky cousin of catfishing where people add just a little too much sparkle to their online personas to the U.S. government literally banning romantic relationships with Chinese nationals (wait...doesn't banning it make it even hotter?!), no topic is off-limits. Tune in for the hot takes, dating tips, and a little spy drama with your swipe sesh. 📚Maria has some big news—she's got a ,  🤩...

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Attachment coach and author Chris Rackliffe returns to the podcast to discuss his new book, Needy No More: The Journey from Anxious to Secure Attachment. In this insightful conversation, Chris breaks down the six origins of anxious attachment, the connection between attachment and addiction, and how trauma influences our relationships. Plus, cohost Kaneez shares her personal experiences with attachment styles and dating patterns. If you've ever struggled with feeling "too needy" in relationships or want practical strategies to build security and confidence, this episode is a must-listen!

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Chris Rackliffe, or @crackliffe as he is fondly known, is a trauma healer, mental health advocate, anxious attachment style coach, host of the Needy No More podcast, and author of two self-help books: It’s Good to See Me Again: How to Find Your Way When You Feel Lost and Needy No More: The Journey From Anxious to Secure Attachment, both of which are available exclusively on Amazon. Chris has worked with countless clients around the world to help them heal their anxious attachment style and grow more secure, sharing everything he’s learned on his own healing journey—from how to integrate trauma and regulate the nervous system, to how to effectively communicate and set boundaries. To explore working with Chris, visit https://www.crackliffe.com/coaching

 

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ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗
Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully, gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying!

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ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗
Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully, gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying!

#matchmakermaria  #askamatchmaker  #datingadvice  #datingprofilereview  #podcast