79. Making it Weird While Keeping it Secure with Casey Tanner aka @queersextherapy
Release Date: 07/13/2024
119. Should Doms sub? Should subs Dom? Should chaos reign supreme?
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Today Lina answers one of life’s age old questions, one that’s debated frequently in a public forum much like the God question or origins of the universe — should Doms be subs before they Dom? Together we’ll weigh the benefits of gaining that empathetic perspective while also balancing the hot take that nobody should do anything sexually they don’t want to do. Also — a bonus discussion of Lina in a room with power advocating for sexuality creates online! Thanks to you! Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of...
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118. Sydney Baloue Is A Daddy Enthusiast
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is a writer, performer, event producer and advocate for racial, social, and gender justice, LGBTQ+ rights, and for trans-masculine visibility in voguing, boxing and in the film and television industry. He opened up with us about the gay male rumspringa he had after transitioning, and how he’s found refuge in the wildest of places — gay male saunas and in the arms of various Daddies to name a few. To get the full version of this episode at $11/month or at $8/month. Subscribe to the subby substack . See the paid post archive . Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to...
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117. Break Glass for Instant 24/7 Starter Kit
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A long-married caller wants to know how to jumpstart a 24/7 dynamic with a partner who may have some reservations. Lina validates that your 24/7 dynamic is supposed to breathe with you, not suprise choke unwanted breath play on you. Something like that. Use code FIRST50 for 50% off your first . Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, ad-free podcast feed, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for this podcast by going to and...
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116. Escaping Neurospicy Perfectionism
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Ok so I’ve brought you into my basement, tied you to a chair, fixed a single lightbulb on you, put my spiky boot between your legs, leaned in real close, and now I’m gonna scream “YOU’RE PERFECT AS YOU ARE!!!!!!” Ok with that out of the way let’s get into some practical skills for doing kink while neurodivergent and some strategies you can implement today to ease the burden on yourself!! Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with...
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115. Quick Hits: Vetting Q’s & Power Struggles
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In this new monthly series Lina is answering quick text-based q’s from paid members and bringing them to the public feed! This month we’re talking about vetting questions to identify inexperienced Doms and subs, what to do about Dom4Dom chaos, and how making prints out in the sun is a metaphor for growth (isn’t everything around here??) Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for this podcast by...
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114. Kink In The Tarot with Michelle Tea
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Activist and writer Michelle Tea joined me this month to vulnerably discuss the places magic intersects with lineage, life, and sex. We transitioned into a bit of a slumber party tee-hee-ing about the archetypes of the tarot and how many of the famous figures of the major arcana could be Doms or subs. It’s fun! Get in here! To get the full version of this episode at $11/month or at $8/month. Subscribe to the subby substack . See the paid post archive . Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected] Go for information on how to record a voice memo Get 20% off...
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113. Licking Your Wounds (Figurative …Unless?)
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A caller wants to know how to repair their relationship with their mind and body after a breakup. Lina’s take? Don’t let your drive to be considerate and ethical override your humanity. Feel it, be messy, take your space. The filth will be there to hold you along the way <3 Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for this podcast by going to and recording a voice memo. Subscribe to the subby...
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112. Scaring Your Partner’s Pants Off
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Craving a broad introduction to fear play? I bet you are you sick freak!! In this lesson, I mean episode, Lina talks about the classics of fear play: knives, cages, trampling, and even really really sick and perverted edge play like tickling and, god forbid, forced compliments. | Join Lina’s Patreon for access to allllll the perks! Submit questions for this podcast by going to and recording a voice memo. Subscribe to the subby substack . See the paid post archive . Get 20% off your order at with code LINADUNE | | CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina...
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111. Hot and Unbothered with Yana Tallon-Hicks
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Sex therapist and author Yana Tallon-Hicks dropped by to share some practical sex advice, thoughts on neurodivergence and kink, and lay down some beautiful reflections on consent-forward parenting. To get the full version of this episode at $11/month or at $8/month. Subscribe to the subby substack . See the paid post archive . Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected] Go for information on how to record a voice memo Get 20% off your order at with code LINADUNE | | CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support...
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110. A Fire Under Every Butt!
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Introducing my campaign slogan — let’s get a fire under every would-be Dom’s butt! You can’t light the fire, but you can toss some kindling on the sucker and warm yourself by its flame. Maybe roast a marshmallow. Is this becoming gross? Sadly, the short-lived Sub Space membership is now deceased. Please support us on or to get extra goodies! Submit questions for this podcast by going to and recording a voice memo. Subscribe to the subby substack . See the paid post archive . Get 20% off your order at with code LINADUNE | | CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited...
info_outlineIn this preview of Deep Dive, Lina chats with Casey Tanner, @queersextherapy, about their new book Feel It All. Topics covered include defining secure sexuality and the origins of insecure sexuality (aka why are we so messed up about sex?!). In the full Deep Dive, available to paid members, hear them discuss how to support queer people in straight passing relationships, whether sexual preferences or attraction can be problematic, how to negotiate accommodation for neurodivergent and disabled people, and other ways of being sexual secure, filthy (if that’s what you want!), and thoughtful freaks.
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Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune
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Artwork by Kayleigh Denner
Music by Dan Molad