99. Fear Is Good, Actually
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This Christmas, fear isn’t just for the ballot box. That’s right, a caller wants to know how to negotiate with fear around kinks, edges, and, the scariest monster of all, the terrifying ordeal of being Known by another human being. Also in the intro Lina sets expectations for Babygirl (medium) and encourages all of you to get to work on your kinky screenplays in 2025. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, starting at $6/month! Submit questions for this podcast by going to and recording a voice memo. Subscribe to the subby substack ....
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98. Queer Pill Your Holidays
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A caller wants to know if straight people are ruining kink, and Lina gets into the history of gentrification in the kink world and how well-meaning straights can use their kink for good. Also a diatribe on how Fake Doms have class-traitor vibes. Sorry it had to be said!! To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, starting at $6/month! Submit questions for this podcast by going to and recording a voice memo. Subscribe to the subby substack . See the paid post archive . Get 20% off your order at with code LINADUNE | | CREDITS Created, Hosted,...
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97. Debuting Your Kinks: A Formula
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Ever wondered how to drop the news of some of your less mainstream kinks in a relationship? You know… the really head-turning ones that would shock polite company? The ones that keep you up at night googling really specific gear? The ones that pop up in your head even as you’re trying to write the description of your podcast?? Well this week Lina is sharing an actionable formula for introducing your new partner to what you want, and also laying down a new Ask A Sub commandment — no dragging Doms into Dominance. Now back to those kinks… To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub...
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96. Age Gap Autumn
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Gather ‘round to hear the debauched tales of connection, mutual support, and hot sex contained in the ever problematic social media boogeyman… the Age Gap Relationship!! These crowdsourced stories come from our very own AAS community and will warm your freezing cold heart, ever so briefly slake your unquenchable thirst, and perhaps expand your dating app age filters. To get the full version of this episode at $11/month or at $8/month. Subscribe to the subby substack . See the paid post archive . Submit questions for this podcast at Get 20% off your order at with code LINADUNE | ...
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95. The World Needs Male Subs
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Looootttttaaaaaa feelings about gender this week, huh folks? We’re discussing the “gender wars,” how you can assist in the political apocalypse, and how to embrace one’s identity as a male submissive. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, starting at $6/month! Submit questions for this podcast by going to and recording a voice memo. Subscribe to the subby substack . See the paid post archive . Get 20% off your order at with code LINADUNE | | CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support...
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94. Feral Raccoon Hour with the AAS Moderators
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Come one, come all, to the wholesome dumpster we raccoons cluster in also known as the Ask A Sub discord community. The community is a benefit of patreon and the reason it’s so many people’s favorite place on the internet is the absolutely top tier moderation and vibes-curation brought to you by our mod team. Hear the voices of the people behind the server in this exclusive interview! You know you wanna join us… To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, starting at $6/month! Submit questions for this podcast by going to and recording a voice...
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93. Kink for Survivors
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A caller wants to know how to use their kinky toolkit to address a recently resurfaced memory of past trauma, and Lina gets into how kink, while not a panacea, can be supportive as we transform triggers into memories. Send in your q’s at To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, starting at $6/month! Subscribe to the subby substack . See the paid post archive . Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected] Get 20% off your order at with code LINADUNE | | CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina...
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92. The Spiky Wartenberg Wheel Of Emotions
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C'mon guys, a tale as old as time. We’ve all been there - your Dom is seeing other subs, and your jealousy and the Social Media Demon have twisted the situation to be unbearable. How can we break jealousy down into more manageable components, and negotiate whether we want to deal in the first place? Lina shares from her own experience and has some ideas to tend to your tender feels. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, starting at $6/month! Subscribe to the subby substack . See the paid post archive . Submit questions for this podcast as...
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91. Getting Left Hanging (Not In The Fun Way)
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A sub calls in wondering what to do when you’ve been in multiple relationships where the kink slowly vanishes over time. Are you going crazy?? No, this is a disappointingly common thing, and Lina’s going to help you spin an annoying part of dating into a helpful learning experience. Send in your questions for the pod at . To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, starting at $6/month! Subscribe to the subby substack . See the paid post archive . Get 20% off your order at with code LINADUNE | | CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and...
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90. Switch for Switch Poly Parenting with Evolving Love Project
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You guys — we did it — we trapped a true switch for switch poly couple with our big butterfly net and dove deep into their deeply respectful and inspiring relationship. Join us for a convo with charismatic Aussies Abbey and Liam for a tour through their individual love lives, and the love they have for fostering connections in their broader ENM community. To get the full version of this episode at $11/month or at $8/month. Subscribe to the subby substack . See the paid post archive . Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected] Go for information on how...
info_outlineWe all know about Fake Doms, people on dating apps who co-opt the language of BDSM to push a misogynistic agenda, but what about when the messaging of manipulation is more subtle, and even uses sex positive language to confuse subs? Enter: Fake Dom 2.0. In this episode, Lina shares signs you may be dealing with a Fake Dom 2.0, vetting questions to try to weed them out, and solace for those who have been victimized by these creeps.
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Music by Dan Molad