172. A Beautiful Evil Pouring Out Of Me with Miss Gold
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This month on the Deep Dive series, we’re graced with the presence of one of London’s preeminent kink queens — Dominatrix, photographer and creator of the iconic parties.. She shares with us how her SW career has influenced her photographic gaze, her specialty in *the kink* most people list as their hardest of hard limits, and her thoughts on mothering be it of humans or hand-reared kittens. In signature Ask A Sub style, this interview goes anywhere and everywhere and we know you’ll have fun keeping up. Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our...
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171. You Can’t Step In The Same River Of Pee Twice
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A caller is doing trauma therapy and wants a good lens to explain the value of kink in their healing journey. In response, Lina checks in on how we’re interpreting the word ‘healing’ when it comes to kink (ableism — be gone!), gives some reflections on what kinds of messages our bodies give us in scenes, and somehow in the midst of that coined the phrase that is our episode title this week, once again making the English language just a little bit worse 🫶 You’re welcome. Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium...
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170. Daddy Is A State Of Mind
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In honor of U.K. father’s day we’re getting into ‘Daddy’ as an honorific, whether it always implies age play (Sometimes? Yes? No?) and how nobody has to do anything they don’t want to do but maybe getting curious is what saves us all from the shame monsters. Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for this podcast by going to and recording a voice memo. Get your slot at . Or to get an...
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169. Don’t Throw The Therapist Out With The Bathwater
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A listener wants to know what to do about their well-meaning but vanilla therapist, and in response Lina earns her gold star Therapist’s Favorite badge by exploring the ins and outs of the therapeutic relationship, how to resource your therapist and yourself, and takes a weirdly polyamory-informed stance on getting your needs met. Links: | | Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for...
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168. I’m Coming Out Of My Cage - Wait Put Me Back In The Cage
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167. Lubing Up The Flirting Dipstick
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This week we’re doing a refresher on flirting so Lina can assist you all into getting into more trouble to keep the questions coming for the pod — vertical integration!! That’s how that works, right?? Either way, we’re talking about flirting by zodiac sign (helpful even if you’re a grumpy Capricorn that doesn’t believe in astrology), flirting to bring forward your most authentic self, and flirting as a measure of compatibility. Now go look at people and talk to them!! Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium...
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166. High Volume Orgasms: Blessing Or Curse?
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A caller wants to know whether their miraculous gift of nonstop orgasms is hindering them from long term partnership — really goes to show one person’s dream scenario (Lina’s) is another person’s anxiety (this caller’s)! Lina talks about the joys of dating high-volume cummers, lists practical tips for Domming and topping these lucky ducks, and shares how the patriarchy infects all of us when we imagine the limits of what a submissive can be. Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as...
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165. Quick Hits: “Straight-Passing” Queer Couple Spring Is Here
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These week callers want to know how to welcome the springtime, how to enjoy/not enjoy the Met Gala, hack quiet sex, and, of course, see Lina lose it over exclusionary privileged queers being weird about who’s allowed to use the label. Pull up a chair to the burn sesh (with love). Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for this podcast by going to and recording a voice memo. Get your slot at...
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164. Submission But Not Like THAT
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A listener is recovering from a religious culture that expected submission from women by default — how, then, can she trust her desire to be submissive in a consensual D/s dynamic? This week we’re talking self trust, healing through kink, and Lina’s deep desire to physically harm this caller’s ex (for legal reasons this is a joke - ha ha) Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for this podcast by going...
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163. Hedonism is a Moral Imperative with S.T. Gibson
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On this month’s Deep Dive, we’re joined by , bestselling author of A Dowry of Blood, Savage Blooms, and more, who also hosts the . Her approach to fantasy is intellectual, informed by her background in theology and deep thought about queerness and our insatiable hungers. Join us for our thoughts on fairies, vampires, and what to say to local river. To get the full version of this episode at $11/month or at $8/month. Submit questions for this podcast by going to and recording a voice memo. Sign up for Lyft ! Subscribe to the subby substack . See the paid post archive . Get 20%...
info_outlineActivist and writer Michelle Tea joined me this month to vulnerably discuss the places magic intersects with lineage, life, and sex. We transitioned into a bit of a slumber party tee-hee-ing about the archetypes of the tarot and how many of the famous figures of the major arcana could be Doms or subs. It’s fun! Get in here!
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Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune
With Additional Support from Mr. Dune
Artwork by Kayleigh Denner
Music by Dan Molad