130. The Republican Dommy Mommy Archetype
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Today Lina reads a piece that’s popping off on her substack about the intersection of The Hunting Wives, Susan Sontag, fascism, and Leather aesthetics. Why are we horny for what scares us? Well step right up to the erotic kaleidoscope and peer in at Malin Akerman’s very Victoria’s Secret-coded thongs with me. Read the article | Get Elizabeth Rose Quinn’s book Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit...
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129. On Not Turning Your Daddy Into Your Dad
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A caller has gone no contact with her parents and wants to know how to be mindful with not projecting that trauma on her Daddy Dom. As a bit of an expert on this topic, Lina discusses the ins and outs of codependence versus interdependence, and caring for your inner child as revenge on . Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. JOIN ON THE “COLLAR CLUB + POSTCARD” LEVEL BEFORE 8/25 TO GET A POST CARD!! Submit...
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128. Is Everybody Frickin’ Poly Or What??
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It’s summer. It’s hot. It’s sexy. And what’s more hot and sexy than… endless scheduling and calendars? A caller wants to know how to stay sane while single and it seems that everyone in the dating pool is already partnered. Answer? Maybe some people need to take a hard look at their poly saturation point!! Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for this podcast by going to and recording a...
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127. The Things You Cannot Unsee In Public Play Spaces (And Why You Should See *Some* Of Them)
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We got a write-in question from a Patreon member wondering how to prepare for a big public kink event like Folsom, and Lina gets into creating a plan for regulation, connection, and what to do when you get super horny seeing a human doggy peeing in the gutter (FOR EXAMPLE). | Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for this podcast by going to and recording a voice memo. Subscribe to the subby...
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126. Quick Hits: Objectification, Romance Fiction, and The Skeezy Little Black Book
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Hey it’s the episode where you write in and ask about the light or deep kink questions that are on your mind! Today we’re talking about how being a human ottoman can activate your parasympathetic nervous system, how to build confidence as a bottom, and get into Lina’s deep-seated and probably problematic issues with romance novels. Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. For Lina's spicy book recomendations go . Submit...
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125. The Clown Serenity Prayer with Gutter the Mod
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What do online privacy, sex work decrim, fire butt pix, and clowns have in common? Well they’re all special interests of our Deep Dive guest this month — Gutter! Gutter is one of our long time moderators of the Ask A Sub Discord community (a benefit of ask a sub patreon membership), and she joined me to talk community building, masochism, and more. Join us in a clown serenity prayer. For your filthy eternal soul. To get the full version of this episode at $11/month or at $8/month. Subscribe to the subby substack . See the paid post archive . Submit questions for this podcast as...
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124. Do You Have To Bring Your 35-Year-Old Boyfriend To The Olive Garden?
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Should we keep our friendships separate from our D/s dynamics? Should we merge all our relationships, friendships, and situationships into the world's largest cuddle puddle? What can we learn, aside from the latest scientific advances in filler technology, from reality television about the monogamy/polyamory divide? Lina tackles all that in this episode and more and because we were all good boys/girls/they/thems we get a special treat from a listener who shares their personal story about why they love pet play 🐶 Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our...
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123. The ENM Jealousy Thrill Ride
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ISN’T BEING AN OPEN-HEARTED AND EVOLVED HUMAN SO FUN??? HAHA Well this week we’re talking about what to do when your partner is in love, not forcing yourself to feel compersion before you’re ready, and some hot takes on boundaries (sometimes they can control the behavior of others?? Are we backsliding into toxicity on the AAS pod or innovating?? You be the judge) PLUS stick around till the end of the episode for a BRAND NEW ONGOING SEGMENT called SCENE STORIES!!! Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and...
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122. With Pride this June We Take it Up the Butt 🫡
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The first brick at Stonewall. The repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell”. Obergefell v. Hodges. What better way to commemorate these extremely profound and meaningful moments in the history of the struggle for LGBTQ+ rights than by chaotically (but helpfully!) talking about… butt stuff. In this chaotically good June Pride Month episode, we revisit a classic podcast answer where Lina went deep, we’re talking reaaaaallll deep, into all things anal. Come away educated, excited, enlivened, and relaxed. (In the butthole) Read Dan Savage’s beautifully written and juicy Thirst Inventory Get...
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121. Quick Hits: On The Mic In A Ball Gag
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How do we advocate for our desires the same way we advocate for our limits? How do we see ourselves as valid even if we’re bedroom-only? How can a safe word be heard through a ball gag? Lina has practical answers to all of the above, including a (ASMR?) demonstration for one of them…. you’ll never guess which!! Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for this podcast by going to and recording a...
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