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EP212: What Is Really Ruining Your Relationships! Wounded Ego, How Trauma, Avoidance & Anxiety Wreck Relationships Featuring Quentin Decamp

The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers

Release Date: 02/26/2025

EP 226: Interviewing Andrew Tate, the Hollywood Myth and Why Men Are Lonely, Misunderstood, and Full of Shame

The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers

In this profound and emotionally charged episode, I sit down with David Sutcliffe — actor turned therapist — to explore the deeper psychological wounds that most men carry in silence. We unpack David’s personal descent from Hollywood fame into emotional collapse, his groundbreaking work in emotional mastery, and his now-viral interviews with Andrew Tate. Together, we explore the roots of male shame, emotional repression, and why so many modern men feel lonely, unseen, and misunderstood. David Sutcliffe is a coach, teacher, workshop facilitator, and podcast host. He is a...

Weekly Mini Episode: How to Be a Man Without Being Toxic

The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers

In this week's mini-episode, I dive into the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways men confuse masculinity with dominance, control, and emotional suppression—and how that leads to disconnection, fear, and toxicity. From performative behavior to the fear of vulnerability, I break down the immature patterns men fall into and what it really means to embody mature, grounded, emotionally intelligent masculinity. Instagram: Website: For Coaching: Newsletter:

EP 225: The Truth About Monogamy vs Polyamory: Transitioning Your Relationship, The Pathologisation of Polyamory, and the Aubrey Marcus Debate

The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers

Thinking about opening your relationship? Watch this first. In this powerful and eye-opening conversation, relationship therapist and polyamory coach Roy Graff joins David Chambers to unpack what truly needs to happen before couples transition from monogamy to polyamory or ethical non-monogamy. They explore the essential mindset, emotional preparation, and communication tools that most couples skip—leading to heartbreak, jealousy, or breakdown. From trauma-informed relational insights to real-life experiences and practical steps, this episode is a must-watch for anyone curious about open...

Weekly Mini Episode: How to be vulnerable Without Losing your Masculinity and respect

The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers

In this week's mini-episode, I dive into the truth about vulnerability and masculinity—and how men can be emotionally open without losing respect. From hiding emotions to fearing rejection, I break down the real reasons men struggle to express themselves and how this blocks intimacy, connection, and fulfillment. Vulnerability isn’t weakness—it’s courageous clarity. And when practiced with integrity, it deepens relationships, builds trust, and strengthens your masculinity—not weakens it. Instagram: Website: For Coaching: Newsletter:

EP224: Men, How To Be A Better Partner

The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers

Are you ready to become the kind of man your partner truly feels safe, seen, and supported by? In this powerful solo episode of The Authentic Man Podcast, host and men's relationship coach David Chambers dives deep into one of the most crucial yet rarely taught life skills: how to be a better partner as a man. Whether you're in a long-term relationship, navigating dating, or simply wanting to grow emotionally and relationally, this conversation is for you. David shares honest, actionable insights on what makes men great partners—from emotional availability and communication to leadership in...

Weekly Mini Episode: 9 Mistakes Men Are Making That Are Stopping Them From Embodying Healthy Masculinity

The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers

In this week's mini-episode, I dive into the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways men block themselves from embodying healthy masculinity—and how it impacts every area of their relationships. From emotional reactivity and shallow communication to the fear of vulnerability and outdated "alpha male" ideals, I break down the beliefs and behaviors that keep men disconnected—and how to step into depth, leadership, and authentic connection. Instagram: Website: For Coaching: Newsletter:

EP 223: The Emotional Impact of Family Separation on Fathers: A Deep Dive Into Men’s Mental Health Featuring Ben Hine

The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers

In this powerful and eye-opening conversation, David Chambers speaks with Professor Ben Hine—psychologist and researcher at the University of West London—about the deep emotional toll family breakdowns have on fathers. From the overlooked role of dads in the family court system to the systemic biases men face during separation and divorce, this episode uncovers the hidden truths about fatherhood, emotional well-being, and societal expectations. If you're a father, know a father, or work with families, this is a conversation you don't want to miss. We explore mental health, parental...

Weekly Mini Episode: 10 Mistakes Men Make When Choosing a Woman

The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers

In this week's mini-episode, I dive into the subtle (and not-so-subtle) mistakes men make when choosing a partner—and how those choices often stem from unhealed wounds, outdated beliefs, and unconscious fear. From chasing chemistry over compatibility to projecting fantasies onto women, I break down the behaviors that sabotage love before it even begins—and how to shift into healthier, more empowered dating. Instagram: Website: For Coaching: Newsletter:

EP222: Beating Anxious Attachment as a Man

The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers

Are you struggling with anxious attachment as a man? Do you find yourself overthinking texts, fearing rejection, or rushing into relationships — only to feel more disconnected? In this episode of the Authentic Man Podcast, David Chambers breaks down how anxious attachment shows up in men, why it's often misunderstood, and most importantly, how to overcome it to build healthy, secure relationships. KEY TOPICS: ⭐ Most Men Are Avoidant - Why This Is Not True ⭐ The 4 Types of Attachment Styles And Differences Between Them ⭐ The Paradox Of Craving Abandonment - Anxious Attachment Style In...

Weekly Mini Episode: How to Communicate Better with Your Wife

The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers

In this week's mini-episode, I dive into the toxic communication habits that silently erode relationships—and how men can break free from them. From defensiveness and emotional avoidance to projecting old stories onto your partner, I uncover the root causes of disconnection and offer practical steps to rebuild trust, presence, and intimacy. Learn how to listen deeply, take radical responsibility, and create a safe space for vulnerability before resentment takes hold. Instagram: Website: Coaching Inquiries: Free Insights:

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Struggling in relationships and wondering why you keep attracting the wrong partners? In this episode, attachment expert Quentin reveals the hidden patterns driving your love life, why good men often get left behind, and how to finally break free from self-sabotaging cycles to build deep, lasting connections.

Quentin is a relationship coach, mentor, somatic practitioner and breathwork facilitator. He is a dedicated writer & content creator who uses the power of language, breath and energy to create a safe, transformational space, helping people to dissolve their wounded ego limitations, release suppressed emotions and restraining narratives. Quentin guides individuals and couples to remove what’s in the way of them feeling attuned to their true selves, so they can build a lasting, connected and conscious romantic relationship with themselves and their partner.

Key topics include:

⭐️ How Childhood Shapes Your Relationships

⭐️ Why You Attract the Wrong Partners

⭐️ The Truth About Love & Validation

⭐️ Rejection as a Mirror of Self-Worth

⭐️ The Misconceptions About Easy Relationships and why real growth happens through challenges.

⭐️ Men, Vulnerability, and Perceived Weakness

⭐️ Breaking Free from Toxic Relationship Cycles

⭐️ Why People Fear Being Wrong in Relationships

⭐️ How to Build a Healthy, Evolving Relationship

⭐️ How Your Attachment Style Shapes Your Love Life

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Relationships and Healing Journeys

01:32 Quentin's Journey: From Pain to Purpose

06:45 Understanding Attachment Styles and Their Impact

10:07 The Programming of Relationships and Love

15:38 The Cycle of Healing and Repeating Patterns

20:52 Masculine and Feminine Vulnerability in Relationships

24:40 The Dynamics of Pressure and Emotional Release

30:05 Rejection: A Reflection of Self-Worth

37:01 Conflict: Symptoms and Solutions

44:10 Understanding Relationship Projections

48:40 The Dynamics of Conflict in Relationships