Help! My Spouse is Married to Their Job Ep. 692

Is your spouse married to their job, or are you? In today’s episode, we’re talking about what happens when work takes priority over marriage and how couples can recognize the signs before it causes lasting damage. Let’s talk about why this is such a common struggle, what Scripture says about balancing work and marriage, and how to reconnect when work has created distance. If you’re feeling like your relationship is playing second to a career, this one’s for you. Let’s dive in.

 

Episode Highlights:

God gave us ambition and talents for a reason.

Work balance in marriage is a common struggle.

We tried to look at struggles as growth opportunities instead of failures

Society adds to the pressure we feel to pursue success first.

If conversations become logistical or date nights become extinct you may be prioritizing work over your marriage.

There’s a biblical order, that when we get that order right, everything else finds its proper place.

Prayer reminds us who our work is truly for.

Quotes from Today’s Episode:

• The issue is when our ambition becomes our identity. When we believe our value comes from our next promotion.

• We are sacrificing our family for our ego.

• Our culture has us believe rest is laziness.

• Providing isn’t just about money. Your spouse needs your presence, your attention, and your emotional availability.

• Scripture makes it clear that work is good. We are created in the image of a working God. Bu work has its place in the greater order, and that place isn’t first..

• Rest and relationship are sacred.

• Boundaries aren’t restrictions. They are protections.

• Create rituals that prioritize connections.

• Our ultimate provision isn’t in our performance, it’s in God’s faithfulness.

• See what happens when you’re physically forced to be present with one another.

 

Couples’ Conversation Guide:

1. What one daily ritual can you begin this week to show your spouse and your marriage the energy it deserves. (coffee in the morning, lunch time phone call, prayer in the evening, etc.)

2. When you hear the word “boundaries” do you automatically feel restricted? How can we implement some boundaries that feel like protection instead? 

3. Does our calendar reflect our heart for keeping our marriage first? If not, where can you begin to say “no” so that you can say “yes” to your marriage?

4. What are some physical distractions we can remove during our time together? 
   

 

Mentioned in this Episode:

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• A unified family mission can help the work/ family balance. Check out our 10 Christian Family Mission Statements. 

• Help your children write God’s Word on their hearts with our FREE 11 Bible Verses For Kids to Memorize

• Want an opportunity to dig into God’s Word with your spouse? Find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. If work seems to take priority over your marriage, you’ll love this FREE YouVersion plan: Boundaries in Marriage

• If you haven’t browsed our site, you’ve GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com ! 

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