The Power of Praying Together as a Couple and Pursuing Spiritual Growth Together Ep. 70

700 episodes! What better way than to do this episode with Nancy who has been here with me through all of the seasons and cohosts and guests on the Awesome Marriage podcast. And there is no better topic for us than to talk about how powerful prayer is for your marriage and the daily rhythm of praying together. Nancy initiated praying together on our first night as a married couple and we’ve kept it going ever since. Not only does it serve to protect our marriage, but it serves to grow us each closer to the Lord and one another. Join us as we talk about the power of a praying couple and how to pursue spiritual growth together.

 

Episode Highlights:

If you feel uncomfortable, start with silent or guided prayers- just start somewhere.

Prayer becomes a rhythm that allows you to partner with God.

Prayer becomes the glue that helps you withstand the seasons of marriage and life together.

Hard times have been some of the biggest seasons of growth individually and in our marriage.

 

Quotes from Today’s Episode:

Praying together can feel intimidating at first, but it's not about perfection—it's about inviting God into your story, one honest word at a time.

It's hard to pray when you're angry—and hard to stay angry when you start to pray.

There is power in the prayer—and even greater power in the One we pray to.

When couples choose to consistently pray and grow together, it changes everything—your marriage, your family, and generations to come will be transformed.

Let God lead you, one small step at a time. Habits of faith begin with intentional choices.

If you miss a day, don't quit. The habit matters more than perfection—keep pursuing God together.

There is nothing like drawing close to your spouse in spiritual intimacy—it's a bond deeper than anything else.

Take time to talk honestly about where you are spiritually as a couple, without judgment. Then choose just one thing to pursue together.

 

Couples Conversation Guide:

1. What fears or awkward feelings do we have about praying together, and how could we take a first step to make it a natural part of our relationship?
   
   
2. How has our prayer life (or the lack of it) shaped the emotional and spiritual climate of our marriage so far?
   
   
3. In what ways can we set spiritual goals together that encourage growth without feeling like a checklist or competition?
   
   
4. How can we support each other through seasons of spiritual dryness or difference in faith, and what role can Scripture or prayer rhythms play in that?
   
   

Mentioned in this Episode:

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• Need help starting the practice of prayer in your marriage? Here's a great resource: 21 Prayers for Building an Awesome Marriage
• Want an opportunity to dig into God’s Word with your spouse? Find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. We even have a plan for praying as a couple! Check out 7 Prayers to Grow Your Marriage.
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