Men & Fighting with Jan-Willem van der Heiden
Brothers In Depth
Join me in this compelling conversation with Jan Willem van der Heiden about the transformative power of fighting as a means to achieve inner strength and emotional freedom. Jan shares how physical combat can be a powerful tool for personal growth, illustrating the often-overlooked benefits of fighting in developing mental strength and overcoming internal challenges. We discuss how fighting forces people to confront their deepest fears and insecurities, leading to significant breakthroughs in love, money, business, fatherhood, and more. Jan shares transformative...
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Men & Erotic Power with Justin Patrick Pierce
Brothers In Depth
I sat down with Justin Patrick Pierce, an author, mentor, and relationship coach, to discuss his profound insights on intimacy, monogamy, and the spiritual path of relationship. We kicked off the conversation by getting deep into Justin’s unique position in the world of tantra and intimacy, where he and his partner, Londin, practice radical monogamy while raising a child, a rarity in this space. Justin opened up about why radical monogamy holds such significance for him and how he grew into this practice over time. We also discussed how people often enter the world...
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Men & Birth with Lianne Schwartz
Brothers In Depth
Welcome to the first official episode of Brothers in Depth. To kick things off, I welcomed Lianne Schwartz, a renowned midwife who has been a registered midwife for 23 years and attending births for 28, including the births of my own children, Lila and Latham. Our discussion starts with the magical and intuitive aspects of midwifery, touching on how midwives like Lianne can often sense details about pregnancies that parents themselves may not yet realize — including how she knew my wife Megan was pregnant before we even did. Later, we dig deeper into the often...
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Welcome to the Brothers in Depth Podcast!
Brothers In Depth
Brothers In Depth is a monthly podcast for men ready to drop the mask, step off autopilot, and live with more depth, presence, and purpose. Hosted by James Mattingley, each episode explores a different facet of modern masculinity—from fatherhood to intimacy, from mythic archetypes to movement and vulnerability. Through honest solo reflections, powerful interviews, and grounded monthly summaries, Brothers In Depth invites listeners to dive beneath the surface of their own lives—to feel more, to show up more fully for their families, their partners, and themselves. This is not a...
info_outlineWelcome to the first official episode of Brothers in Depth. To kick things off, I welcomed Lianne Schwartz, a renowned midwife who has been a registered midwife for 23 years and attending births for 28, including the births of my own children, Lila and Latham.
Our discussion starts with the magical and intuitive aspects of midwifery, touching on how midwives like Lianne can often sense details about pregnancies that parents themselves may not yet realize — including how she knew my wife Megan was pregnant before we even did.
Later, we dig deeper into the often underappreciated role of fathers during pregnancy and childbirth. Lianne emphasizes how crucial it is for fathers to be actively involved from the very beginning, including preconception meetings where intentions and plans are set with the midwife. She stresses the importance of emotional connection, presence, and the simple yet profound act of loving touch to help both the mother and the baby feel secure and supported. Lianne also sheds light on how Western societies lack rituals and rites of passage for men entering fatherhood, something that still holds strong in many indigenous cultures.
Lianne outlines common mistakes men make during labor, such as bringing stress and anxiety into the birthing space, advises fathers on how to maintain a calm and supportive environment, the importance of planning and having clear birth plans, and the role of advocacy if complications arise.
Throughout the episode, Lianne highlights how the entire process of pregnancy and birth can serve as a profound rite of passage for men, encouraging them to grow and connect in ways they might not have previously considered. This episode serves as an essential guide for expectant fathers wanting to fully engage in the birthing process and support their partners emotionally, physically, and spiritually.
Connect with Lianne online:
Website: https://www.consciousbirthcommunity.com/ConnectedFromtheStart
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/conscious_birth_community/
Find more from James:
Email: james@jamesmattingley.com
Website: https://www.jamesmattingley.com/
Instagram: @james.mattingley
Free polarity guide: https://mailchi.mp/jamesmattingley/av41397s0n