Brothers In Depth
Join me in this compelling conversation with Jan Willem van der Heiden about the transformative power of fighting as a means to achieve inner strength and emotional freedom. Jan shares how physical combat can be a powerful tool for personal growth, illustrating the often-overlooked benefits of fighting in developing mental strength and overcoming internal challenges. We discuss how fighting forces people to confront their deepest fears and insecurities, leading to significant breakthroughs in love, money, business, fatherhood, and more. Jan shares transformative...
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I sat down with Justin Patrick Pierce, an author, mentor, and relationship coach, to discuss his profound insights on intimacy, monogamy, and the spiritual path of relationship. We kicked off the conversation by getting deep into Justin’s unique position in the world of tantra and intimacy, where he and his partner, Londin, practice radical monogamy while raising a child, a rarity in this space. Justin opened up about why radical monogamy holds such significance for him and how he grew into this practice over time. We also discussed how people often enter the world...
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Welcome to the first official episode of Brothers in Depth. To kick things off, I welcomed Lianne Schwartz, a renowned midwife who has been a registered midwife for 23 years and attending births for 28, including the births of my own children, Lila and Latham. Our discussion starts with the magical and intuitive aspects of midwifery, touching on how midwives like Lianne can often sense details about pregnancies that parents themselves may not yet realize — including how she knew my wife Megan was pregnant before we even did. Later, we dig deeper into the often...
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Brothers In Depth is a monthly podcast for men ready to drop the mask, step off autopilot, and live with more depth, presence, and purpose. Hosted by James Mattingley, each episode explores a different facet of modern masculinity—from fatherhood to intimacy, from mythic archetypes to movement and vulnerability. Through honest solo reflections, powerful interviews, and grounded monthly summaries, Brothers In Depth invites listeners to dive beneath the surface of their own lives—to feel more, to show up more fully for their families, their partners, and themselves. This is not a...
info_outlineJoin me in this compelling conversation with Jan Willem van der Heiden about the transformative power of fighting as a means to achieve inner strength and emotional freedom.
Jan shares how physical combat can be a powerful tool for personal growth, illustrating the often-overlooked benefits of fighting in developing mental strength and overcoming internal challenges.
We discuss how fighting forces people to confront their deepest fears and insecurities, leading to significant breakthroughs in love, money, business, fatherhood, and more. Jan shares transformative stories of both men and women who have found inner peace and strength through controlled fighting scenarios, and how these experiences help them stay present and handle stress better in day-to-day life.
We also touch on societal misconceptions about fighting, particularly from a woman’s viewpoint, and how controlled physical confrontations can lead to deeper emotional connections and trust in friendships and romantic partnerships. Because of the vulnerability that comes with fighting, it can help people shed their defenses and open up to others.
Connect with Jan-Willem online:
Website: https://jwvanderheiden.com/about
Instagram: @janwillemvanderh
Find more from James:
Email: james@jamesmattingley.com
Website: https://www.jamesmattingley.com/
Instagram: @james.mattingley
Free polarity guide: https://mailchi.mp/jamesmattingley/av41397s0n