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Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP054: Red or Blue? Decide NOW!

Closing The 18 Inch Gap Podcast

Release Date: 02/25/2025

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Closing The 18 Inch Gap Podcast

This is the question that echoes in the quiet moments when your heart aches for something more.... How?   It’s the whisper that asks why your dreams have stayed locked away, waiting, while life moved on. How did you get here—staring at the gap between who you are and who you know you could be? How wide is that gap? 18-inches wide. It’s those 18 inches that you need to travel to break free from the lies, the fears, and the beliefs that have kept your dreams buried. How do you take what feels impossible... and make it real? I’m Edwin Soler, your Dream Realization Partner....

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Have you ever wondered what a dead dream looks like? What causes it? This isn't just a conversation… it’s an examination. Somewhere, deep within you—or someone you love—there was a dream. A dream once alive, vibrant, breathing with purpose. But today… it’s gone. Was it killed by fear? Starved by delay? Drowned in someone else’s opinion? Or did it simply go unloved and unnoticed for too long? I’m your Dream Realization Partner, and in this episode, we perform the autopsy. Together we’ll examine the wounds and  ask the hard questions. Not to linger in loss—but to...

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There’s a question that comes before all the others. A question that opens the door… or locks it shut. It’s not “Why me?” It’s not “How do I do it?” It’s not even “When will it happen?” It’s “What?” What is stopping you? What dream are you denying? What lie have you accepted as truth? What would happen if you finally said yes to the life that’s been waiting on you? In this episode, we go deeper than surface questions. We go into the raw, uncharted terrain of your locked away dreams— The “What” that most people are too afraid to ask, and too exhausted...

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Last week I was so into the episode that I lost track of time. So today I’m bringing you the last 14 points. I mistakenly thought I had brought 12 points but actually only brought 11.   The word I am exploring is such a simple but powerful one: Why? Like I said last week.  It’s such a simple word. One syllable. Three letters. But inside that word now that we’re all grown up… lives a storm. Today, I’m not here to give you steps, or tips, or strategies. I’m here to ask you questions. Because that’s what good coaches do. They ask real questions. The kind that...

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Do you remember being a kid and always asking the same question? Remember how we drive our parents and teachers crazy? It’s such a simple word. One syllable. Three letters. But inside that word now that we’re all grown up… lives a storm. Today, I’m not here to give you steps, or tips, or strategies. I’m here to ask you questions. Because that’s what good coaches do. They ask real questions. The kind that don’t just live in your head—they echo in your soul. I’m your Dream Realization Partner. And if you’ve ever felt like your dream is locked in a box… hidden behind...

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Today I’ll be talking about….. well today!  Why it matters so much.  I won’t be repeating it before or after every point because that would be SO ANNOYING!!!  But I will certainly be discussing these few points and many more: Is All You Truly Have Is Where Dreams Begin Is the Seed of Your Future Doesn’t Need Permission and so much more. Do you often get lost in the future?  I want to emphasize living in the present, seizing opportunities, and shaping a better future through actions taken today to get closer to your dreams coming true.    Quote of the week:...

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We all must face ourselves before we face anything else that will hold us back.  I have been thinking a lot these past few weeks about the struggles it takes to get through to see the results we are looking for. It takes perseverance and will power to get to the level we seek to reach. While not all of these may necessarily apply to you, I am sure some will.  And in each scenario, I will give you something that will help you overcome that which holds you back. It may take some time but be assured that in time, you will succeed.  Quote of the week: “It’s not that I’m so...

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Everyone loves an underdog story, but living one? That is a whole different challenge. The struggle, the doubt, and those nights when giving up feels like the easiest choice. It’s tough, but that’s exactly why it feels so good when you finally prove them wrong. Being the underdog is not a weakness. It is a secret weapon. No one sees you coming. No one expects you to win. And when you do? That victory hits different! Every champion, record-breaker, and history-maker started at the bottom. If you are pushing through setbacks, proving doubters...

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Do you ever feel too small to dream BIG? "In this episode, I want to go over a list of things I call “dream stoppers”.  These are things that make you feel small and stop you from making progress on what matters most to you, what keeps you from not just reaching, but even getting started on your journey to make those big dreams happen.  If you don’t have something big to dream for than you are simply living and nothing else. If you are ok with that, than that’s fine. That’s completely up to you.  However, if you want to do something meaningful then you must remember...

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Welcome to today’s powerful episode of the podcast—a moment you’ll remember because today, we’re going to crack open the barriers that have kept you from fully chasing your dreams. “DREAM BIG – The Breakthrough Blueprint to Unleashing the Life You’re Meant to Live” Too often, people believe dreaming big is for someone else—for the lucky, the talented, the privileged. Let me ask you this, are you living someone else’s dream? If the answer is yes then I’m here to tell you: dreaming big is not a luxury—it’s your birthright. That’s right, I’ll say it again- it’s...

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 This podcast reaches many parts of the world. If you are in the US, this has nothing to do with politics. As you may know, Red and blue represent the two main parties: Democrats and Republicans.

This started with an email last week that has had me thinking and I wanted to go deeper in this week’s podcast.  And it actually has to do with one of my favorite movie series called The Matrix.  Let me explain:

 

In the 1999 film The Matrix, the protagonist, Neo (played by Keanu Reeves), is a computer hacker who senses that there's something fundamentally wrong with the world he inhabits. His quest for truth leads him to Morpheus (portrayed by Laurence Fishburne), a mysterious figure who reveals the unsettling reality: the world Neo knows is a simulated construct called the Matrix, created by intelligent machines to subdue the human population while their bodies are used as an energy source.

Morpheus offers Neo a pivotal choice between two pills, each symbolizing a different path:

  • Red Pill: This pill signifies the willingness to embrace the often harsh and painful truth of reality. Upon taking it, Neo's mind is freed from the Matrix, allowing him to experience the real world and understand the depth of the deception he was under. 

The red pill is hard, requires courage, and forces him to face his fears—but it leads to a life of purpose, success, and no regrets. It represents awakening, truth, and breaking free from illusions—much like the journey of personal growth and success.

 

  • Blue Pill: This pill represents a choice to remain in comfortable ignorance. By taking it, Neo would return to his familiar life within the simulated reality of the Matrix, forgetting his encounter with Morpheus and the truths he was exposed to. 

The blue pill represents comfort, avoidance, and the illusion of safety, but it comes at the cost of personal growth, fulfillment, and realizing one's dreams. The blue pill may seem safe, but it leads to a life of "What if?" and unfulfilled potential.

 

The red and blue pills have since become cultural symbols, representing the decision between confronting uncomfortable truths or maintaining blissful ignorance.

 

Quote of the week:  "I'm trying to free your mind, Neo. But I can only show you the door. You're the one that has to walk through it."  Morpheus

 

Points covered:

 If you take the red pill:

1. Reality Can Be Harsh, but It's Better Than Living a Lie

2. Growth Requires Leaving Your Comfort Zone

3. Fear is an Illusion That Holds You Back

4. Courage is the Price of Transformation

5. Doubt Will Test You—Keep Moving Forward Anyway

6. The Right Mentors Can Change Your Life

7. Success Requires Unlearning Old Patterns

8. Your Mind is More Powerful Than You Think

9. Most People Will Resist Change—Do It Anyway

10. Knowledge Without Action is Useless

Many more in the podcast.

 

BUT….. If you take the blue pill:

 

1. Comfort is a Trap That Kills Potential

2. Avoiding Hard Truths Doesn’t Make Them Disappear

3. Fear of Failure Leads to a Life of Regret

4. A False Sense of Security is Still an Illusion

5. Short-Term Comfort Leads to Long-Term Suffering

6. Society Conditions You to Stay Small

7. Living for Approval Keeps You Trapped

8. The Illusion of Happiness Fades Over Time

9. You Can Lie to Yourself, but Your Soul Knows the Truth

10. Settling for Less Feels Safe—Until It Feels Like a Prison

Many more in the podcast. 

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Did anything resonate with you?  Do you want to explore deeper how I can help you with this topic?  If so, reach out to me and let me know. Simply send me an email to [email protected] and let me know what your question is and how we can connect.

I always offer a freecoaching session where we can explore how I can help you and you can see coaching action for yourself. 

If this was your first time, I’m glad you’re listening, and I hope you can come back for more podcast episodes.  In the meantime, feel free to listen to all the previous ones I have.  You can find them in your favorite podcast directory.   I can’t wait to be here with you next week but until then keep closing that 18- inch gap!