EP103: Find out today how time works for you!
Closing The 18 Inch Gap Podcast
Release Date: 02/03/2026
Closing The 18 Inch Gap Podcast
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Today I start with a funny story about how I answered a belief in Santa from a bully from a neighborhood I was in while in one of my many foster homes. It ties into todays topic about what we still believe and the consequences that follow. But I want to speak to you today about a belief you also need to outgrow and no longer give it anymore attention. It’s the belief that you “should be further along” often has nothing to do with reality and everything to do with comparison. When you release the pressure to prove yourself, clarity returns. Progress built from self-trust is always...
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info_outlineIf there is a question that is impossible to answer. A question that many ask but no one ever answers. The question? How long?
How long until:
My dream comes true
How long until:
I can get out of this job
How long until:
I’ll see my breakthrough
How long until fill in the blank.
Time is something we treat as something negative as an enemy. We live in a culture where a lot of pressure is put on fast results.
A culture where timing is everything. A time where everything is based on being at your best, your prime, fastest, youngest etc.
But in today’s episode I want to show you how time can actually work in your favor. The advantages of letting time, well … take its time.
Time, when looked at correctly can actually work in your favor. Of course, this is all a matter of also having it in context.
Are you willing to let time work in your favor as well?
Let’s find out in today’s episode.
• Quote of the week: "Time is the wisest counselor of all." — Pericles
25 Ways Dreamers Can Allow Time to Work in Their Favor
1. Time exposes whether a dream is real or borrowed
2. Urgency often comes from fear, not purpose
3. Growth happens underground before it shows up on the surface
4. Time matures your thinking
5. Delays often protect you from premature success
6. Time reveals what needs healing before elevation
7. Rushing steals joy from the journey
8. Time teaches patience without killing passion
9. Consistency beats intensity when time is honored
10. Time helps you separate preparation from procrastination
These are just the first ten points. Listen to the full episode to listen to all of them.
Listen to the full episode for all of the 25 points I bring to help you discover how time can and will work in your favor and help you Close your own 18-Inch Gap.
Are you ready to make time work in your favor this year, in fact starting today? You need more than just a plan, you need a partner that can walk along side of you and make this happen. If this resonated with you then please reach out to me for a complementary Next-Level Dream Chat. It only takes about 30 minutes to get through where we start diving into what may be holding you back. No financial commitment required for the call or afterwards.
One last word before I go, this episode was sponsored by my book Closing the 18-inch Gap and is available on Amazon. To find it faster, simply go to edwinsoler.com/book. That will take you to the book page where you can click on the Amazon logo and order your copy right away. It’s available in paperback, Kindle, and Audible.
Thank you for listening, in the meantime, keep closing that 18- inch gap!