Delilah, Tupac, TikTok Moms & Cassie’s Wedding Recap

On this episode of Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, Kila and Ashley are in full storytelling mode with an episode that’s equal parts hilarious, nostalgic, disgusting (you’ll see 👀), and downright sweet. They kick things off talking about Delilah – yes, the late-night radio legend – and how her voice was the emotional soundtrack of the 90s. That memory throws them straight back into childhood: long car rides, fireworks on bridges, “crying, loving, or leaving” on 95.5, and even remembering exactly where they were the day Tupac died. It’s a deep dive into those oddly specific core memories that never leave you.

From there, the conversation hits all over:

• 🎙️ Delilah, radio nights & 90s nostalgia – calling in for love advice, listening to strangers air out their relationships, and wondering how in the world she just went viral on TikTok now.

• 🧠 Mom guilt & judgment – talking about how quick people are to judge moms (especially online), from smoking to how they parent, while never offering real help or support.

• 📱 TikTok creators vs real-life memories – unpacking the weirdness of people filming everything for content instead of just living in the moment, and the pressure it puts on “regular” moms who are just trying to survive the day.

• 🤢 The most disgusting bus story ever told – featuring the greenest, longest booger and a man on the verge of throwing up. If you’ve got a weak stomach, consider this your warning… but also, it’s absolutely hilarious.

• 👑 Pageant life & little girl wins – a sweet story about helping a little girl get ready for a competition, doing her hair and makeup, nerves and all—and her priceless reaction to winning “two of them stick things and some flowers” (aka TROPHIES).

• 💒 Cassie’s wedding chaos – Kila’s sister Cassie is officially a married woman, and the recap does not disappoint. From getting ready at the event space, doing hair and makeup, hyping Cassie up like the queen she is, to all the emotional, funny, and chaotic moments only a family wedding can bring—this segment is pure gold.

They close things out with some holiday talk—being grateful, dealing with family, and of course the great debate: stuffing vs dressing (spoiler: it’s dressing around here 🦃).

If you love:

• Southern storytelling

• Real talk about motherhood & mental load

• 90s nostalgia (Tupac, Delilah, radio love lines)

• TikTok culture critiques

• Wedding chaos & family comedy …this episode is absolutely your vibe.

🎧 Listen now on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Make sure to subscribe, rate, and share with someone who remembers Delilah and Tupac days—or someone who’s planning a wedding and needs a laugh.