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096: You’re Not Mean—You’re Just Managing (2 of 6 Part Series)

Leadership Sandbox: Strategies to Uplevel Workplace Communication, Team Collaboration, and Your Corporate Culture

Release Date: 08/21/2025

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In the second installment of the "Communication Lies Leaders Believe" series, Tammy J. Bond tackles a myth that keeps countless leaders "stuck": the lie that giving direct feedback makes you mean. Tammy powerfully argues that direct feedback doesn't make you mean—it makes you a manager. This episode is a call to courage for every leader who has let their discomfort drive silence. Tammy shares how this avoidance leads to resentment and underperformance and provides a practical framework, the SBIE model (Situation, Behavior, Impact, Expectation), for delivering feedback that is both direct and human. You are not mean for saying what needs to be said; you're managing with intention.

Key Takeaways for Leaders

  • Mean vs. Managing: Giving direct feedback is a core function of leadership, not an act of meanness.

  • The Cost of Silence: Your discomfort with conflict is more costly than the conflict itself. Silence leads to confusion, resentment, and underperformance.

  • Courage is Clarity's Best Friend: It takes courage to bring clarity into the workplace. You must be willing to be uncomfortable for the sake of your team's success.

  • Separate the Do from the Who: Use a framework like the SBIE model to focus feedback on the specific behavior ("the do") rather than the person's identity or personality ("the who").

  • Feedback as a Gift: Embrace the perspective that direct, clear feedback is a valuable opportunity for growth, not something to be feared.

  • The Problem with Over-Parenting: Leaders who avoid difficult conversations often fall into the trap of being a "friend" or "accidental therapist," which undermines their ability to lead effectively.

  • Managing with Intention: Recognize that your words have purpose. You're not just speaking—you're managing, mentoring, and empowering your team to be their best.

In This Episode, You'll Learn

  • Why the lie that direct feedback is mean keeps leaders from being effective.

  • How to use the SBIE (Situation, Behavior, Impact, Expectation) model to deliver clear, actionable feedback.

  • The psychological reasons behind our avoidance of tough conversations.

  • The negative consequences of a leader's silence on team morale and performance.

  • How to build a culture where direct, kind feedback is a normal and valued part of your team's success.

Call to Action

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