Episode 228: The Joy of Inconvenience: A Conversation with Comedian Tom Shillue
Release Date: 05/27/2025
Being Human
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Our world—and especially Catholic social media—is flooded with sensationalized talk about the devil, demonic activity, and spiritual “access points.” But what if that fear-based narrative is actually distracting us from the truth? In this episode, Dr. Greg Bottaro is joined by Dr. Sean Tobin to reframe the conversation around spiritual warfare, demystify deliverance, and remind us of the one truth we often forget: God is bigger. Way bigger. Key Topics: Why obsessing over the devil may actually weaken your spiritual life How Catholic social media is shaping our fears—and not always...
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info_outlineWhat does it take to be funny—and faithful—in today’s culture? In this lively and thought-provoking conversation, Catholic Psychologist Dr. Greg Bottaro sits down with comedian and broadcaster Tom Shillue to explore the grit, humility, and creative discipline behind the scenes of stand-up comedy. From resisting comfort in favor of calling, to navigating AI, analog living, and the deeper meaning of being human, Tom shares a rare peek behind the curtain of the entertainment world. Whether you're a fan of Gutfeld, a lover of vintage vinyl, or just hungry for a more integrated life, this episode will make you laugh, reflect, and maybe even reconsider your smart fridge.
Key Topics:
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The tension between professionalism, calling, and comfort
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The power of imperfection in both performance and relationship
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The spiritual and psychological cost of convenience culture
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How shared laughter creates connection and healing
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What to expect at the Summit of Integration—and why Tom said yes to hosting it
Learn More:
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Summit of Integration – June 20–22 in Madison, NJ
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Tom Shillue’s Website
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Dr. Greg Bottaro’s Book: The Personalist Cure (Preview)
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