BTI #224: Grow Your Network to Grow Your Net Worth with Karen Stanley
Release Date: 04/21/2021
Is Adobe in Trouble? The Free AI-Powered Alternatives Challenging Creative Cloud
Beyond the Image Podcast
What if you could replace your Adobe subscription with free software that does nearly the same thing? For photographers, designers, and filmmakers, Adobe has become an essential part of doing business. Photoshop, Lightroom, Premiere Pro, Illustrator, InDesign, and After Effects are deeply embedded in creative workflows. But after years of monthly subscription fees, cancellation frustrations, and increasing dependence on software we no longer truly own, a new wave of AI-powered development and open-source alternatives is raising some serious questions. In this episode of Beyond the Image, James...
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Glamour Photography, Consent, and the Responsibility of Direction
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What happens when a photographer forgets that the person in front of the camera is a collaborator, not a prop? During a recent glamour photography workshop, someone in the chat criticized the models for not being “sexy enough,” not showing enough skin, and not smiling enough. It sparked a larger conversation about what good direction actually looks like, and where the line gets crossed. Glamour photography isn’t about imposing a photographer’s expectations onto a subject. It’s about direction, expression, body language, styling, lighting, composition, implication and collaboration....
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40 Photographers Applied to Work With Me. Here’s What Went Wrong.
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I recently had about 40 people apply to work with me. Some were great. Some were fine. And some were honestly shocking. The surprising part? It wasn't necessarily about their photography. Some of the applicants were probably very talented photographers. But they didn't know how to apply for photography work. In this episode of Beyond the Image, I break down what I saw and what photographers can do differently when they're trying to get hired, assist, collaborate, or land commercial work. We talk about: Why having a great portfolio isn't enough The difference between showing your work and...
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When You Can’t Shoot: Photographer’s Income Problem
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James Patrick spent six days in the hospital and suddenly faced a problem every photographer should think about: when your income depends on you physically showing up with a camera, what happens when you can't? Getting sick. Getting injured. Taking care of your kids. Your car breaking down. Taking an actual vacation. For many professional photographers, time equals money. If you're not shooting, you're not earning. And that's a dangerous business model. In this episode of Beyond the Image, James breaks down why photographers need to stop relying exclusively on trading their time for money and...
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The 7 Biggest Portrait Lighting Mistakes I See Photographers Make
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Great portrait lighting isn’t about owning more lights. It’s about understanding what your light is actually doing. After photographing more than 800 magazine covers and working with photographers for years, I’ve seen the same lighting mistakes come up again and again. In this episode of Beyond the Image, I break down the 7 biggest portrait lighting mistakes I see photographers making and, more importantly, how to start thinking about lighting differently. We’ll look at mistakes like relying too heavily on the brightest part of the light, only lighting the broad side of the face,...
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Photography Copyright Explained: How to Protect Your Photos, Brand & Business | Wendy Neal, Esq.
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What happens when someone uses your photograph without permission? Who actually owns the copyright? Should you register every photo you take? What happens when a client wants the RAW files? And what legal protection do you really have when another photographer, contractor, client, magazine, or business uses your work? For Episode 700 of Beyond the Image, James Patrick sits down with attorney Wendy Neal for a deep dive into copyright, trademarks, licensing, contracts, infringement, and protecting the intellectual property behind a photography business. With 27 years of legal experience spanning...
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What Photographers Get Wrong About Copyright (And How to Protect Your Work)
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Not Every Client Has to Be Your Client
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What do you do when a company with more than $70 billion in annual revenue asks you to work for one-tenth of your normal rate? You could try to convince them that your pricing is justified. You could explain your experience, your overhead, your equipment, your expertise and the value of the work. Or you could have a completely different conversation. In this episode of Beyond the Image, James Patrick breaks down what happened when a major company presented him with a budget dramatically below his normal rate, and why he chose not to negotiate against himself. Instead of simply discounting his...
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I Followed Peerspace's Rules. They Flagged My Account Anyway.
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What happens when you follow a platform’s rules exactly as they’re written… and still get flagged? In this episode of Beyond the Image, James Patrick shares his recent experience with Peerspace after a potential renter tried to move a conversation off-platform. James did exactly what Peerspace’s rules require: he refused and kept the conversation on the platform. He was then flagged by Peerspace anyway. What followed raised much bigger questions about the relationship between Peerspace and the small businesses that supply its marketplace. James breaks down Peerspace’s increasingly...
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You Don't Need More Leads, You Need This Instead
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If your answer to every slow season is, "I just need more leads," this episode is for you. The truth is, most photographers don't have a lead problem—they have a client journey problem. In this solo episode of Beyond the Image, James Patrick breaks down why chasing more inquiries isn't the answer and why building a complete marketing journey is what creates consistent, predictable business growth. You'll learn: Why more leads won't fix a broken marketing process The client journey every photographer should be intentionally designing Why marketing is more than social media How to stop...
info_outlineSomething I bring up a lot on this show is the importance of having a strong foundation that you are building your business upon. In past episodes, I shared about my own journey in how I chose to focus on my physical health, my mental wellbeing, and to foster successful relationships. When I chose to do these three things, my business actually took off. In today’s episode, we are talking about why we need to cultivate the best relationships; not only with others, but also with ourselves. And how these relationships can improve our business.
WHO IS KAREN STANLEY?
Karen Stanley is the best-selling author of Becoming Mrs. Stanley, an agency owner, and an entrepreneur based in Arizona. At the beginning of her journey, she struggled with self-worth and self-confidence until she decided to start applying her knowledge of relationships in business to her personal life. Karen believes relationships truly are the key to being successful.
“You can’t be successful on an island by yourself, you need people.”
But she also believes that the best way to have strong and healthy relationships with others, is to have a strong and healthy relationship with yourself. Her book came out of her personal experiences of attracting confident and strong relationships in her life, including her husband of 6 years.
WHY DO WE STRUGGLE WITH SELF-WORTH?
Karen learned that we develop our core beliefs during childhood. There are events that happen to us before the age of 7 that lead us to create a story around the event, which then leads us to create a core belief. EX: Abused as a child -> “I’m not worthy.”
“We have to identify the beliefs and then get clear on what the facts are.”
The believes that we have that aren’t true, are limiting us. It’s important to build new and empowering beliefs.
BEING DILIGENT ABOUT YOUR INPUT
Karen is a big believer of being very particular of the things we put into our brains. The things we watch, look at, listen to. Everything we look at and listen to matters. It’s also important to be diligent about who we follow and look up to. If someone or something is making you feel less than your best, get rid of it! We want to follow people who inspire us and who have been successful, because this inspires us to do the same. We don’t want to follow people who are faking it or haven’t actually achieved success. It’s okay to take that person off your feed!
HOW TO INCREASE SELF-CONFIDENCE
When Karen realized the missing piece in her life, she made time for things that in turn, increased her self-confidence and changed her life.
- Karen made time to work on her mindset.
- Karen made time for fitness.
- Karen made time for reading.
“It’s an inside job. You’re the only one who can give yourself self-confidence.”
In turn, Karen said she started to feel great, and this is truly when her business started to grow. She pinned down what was missing and decided what was important. Taking time for herself was a missing piece that led to many other things falling into place. The secret sauce is the internal work. It doesn’t happen overnight, but it’s an intentional work that pays off.
FOCUS ON THE WINS
Highly driven individuals are goal oriented and always making sure they get things done. Oftentimes, we may forget to take a step back and acknowledge all the things we did accomplish. One of Karen’s best strategies for herself is to focus on her wins in the morning.
EX: Did I have a great conversation with ___? Did I have a great meeting with that client?”
When you start to see the list of wins, we see what we have a new appreciation for the progress you’ve made.
“There’s actually more dopamine released when you make progress towards the goal, than when we actually achieve it.”
Karen has found that really taking time to quiet your mind and be grateful for the things you do have now, brings a joy and fulfillment that is so important to our lives. Entrepreneurs often look towards the future and the goals we want to accomplish, which is great and keeps us going, but being thankful for the right now, magnifies all the great things that come.
Another simple task that Karen emphasizes is actually writing things down. Karen writes down a positive quote and her goals daily in the morning. She talks about how writing helps to slow down our brain and sets us up for success.
THE SCIENCE OF HABITS
Have you heard, “It takes 21 days to create a habit?” Karen shares how that’s not true. It’s a minimum of 66 days all the way up to a year. Knowing this, you can commit to doing something you know will make you successful for 90 days. (ex: a great morning routine, working out.)
If you can create habits you don’t have to think about, it saves time and energy and leads to your success. The energy you no longer spend on being intentional about creating the habit, can be used to build your business or build relationships.
THE IMPORTANCE OF HAVING A WHY
Living every day towards purpose and intention is what helps us reach our goals. When we know exactly why we are doing something, it makes it easier to do. For Karen, she works out because she wants to be active with her grandkids. Find your why and it will lead you to choosing to do the things that make you successful. This then leads to building that self-confidence and to knowing that you are doing what’s best for your business and your clients.
“When you start to believe in the work you’re doing, it makes it a lot easier to put it in front of other people.”
MORE FROM KAREN STANLEY
Tune into the episode to hear more detailed strategies from Karen and personal stories that will help you feel connected to her. Karen shares about the things that have given her great success and how she helps her clients.
Follow Karen on her website mrskarenstanley.com and on Instagram @officialmrskarenstanley . Karen drops a blog weekly so make sure to follow along!
CONNECT WITH HOST JAMES PATRICK
https://www.jamespatrick.com/coaching - To apply for 1-on-1 business coaching
https://www.instagram.com/jpatrickphoto - Follow in IG
Text James at (480) 605-3254
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