470: Everything I Want to Say to Leaders Still Teaching the Old Way
Release Date: 07/07/2025
481: This is What It Sounds Like to Step Into LOVE-LED™ Leadership
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Can you relate to the constant pressure to perform? Do you ever find yourself carrying the quiet fear that you're slipping behind, or that a simple "no" from a client is proof you're not cut out for this? In this powerful, unscripted coaching session, I sit down with Amy, a health coach who, from the outside, has it all together, but on the inside is battling these exact feelings. You'll hear the raw, emotional moment she reconnects with the purpose that first inspired her to become a coach. We'll unpack the "red light stories" that try to derail us and the old patterns that make us walk away...
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480: Are People Feeling Your Pressure…or Your Presence?
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Are you feeling the pressure to constantly sprint in your business, posting nonstop and messaging everyone with a pulse? Do you ever worry you're falling behind because you're not keeping up with the frantic pace? In this episode, I share a powerful story about a client who felt exactly that. She was shamed for "going slow," but was actually making one of the most important shifts of her entire business journey. You’ll discover why activity without alignment is just noise and how moving from a fear-led to a LOVE LED™ approach can lead to more fulfilling, sustainable growth. I’m going to...
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479: 'Post More and You'll Grow' is Killing People's Businesses
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Feeling burned out from social media? The advice to "just post more" is not only outdated, it's dangerous. AI-driven algorithms now make generic content invisible, proving that trying to out-post a machine is a game you can't win, and today I want to smash the myth that quantity trumps quality on social media. In this episode, I share why the new AI-driven algorithms are making your generic, check-the-box content completely invisible, and why trying to out-post a machine with human effort is a game you just can't win. But there's a better way, and I reveal the secret to the new social...
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478: Quitting Isn't the Enemy, Living Without Belief Is
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Let me ask you something. Are you wearing a "badge of honor" that says, "I haven't quit yet"? Do you find yourself pushing, posting, and grinding, but deep down you're not sure it's working? Today, I'm taking you inside a coaching conversation that revealed a hard truth many of us are carrying but have never questioned: continuing without belief is more dangerous than quitting. In this episode, you'll learn why the fear-led system has trapped so many good-hearted leaders in a cycle of exhaustion and shame, and what the real difference is between just "staying" and truly "believing." This...
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477: Why ChatGPT Is The Most Important Leadership Tool Ever Created
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Are you tired of feeling like Chat GPT is just another tool to churn out hollow content, leaving your unique voice lost? What if the real power of AI isn't about writing faster, but about revealing your deepest beliefs and transforming you into a more authentic leader? In this episode, we challenge conventional wisdom, showing you that ChatGPT isn't merely a content shortcut, but the most powerful leadership tool you've never been taught to use. This isn't just about better posts; it's about building a bridge between your beliefs and your actions, with ChatGPT making that connection...
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THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT Starts Now | EPISODE 5: This Is Where Fear Ends and LOVE-LED™ Leadership Begins
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🎙THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT A 5-part audio series for the leaders who can’t keep doing it the old way. This is your line in the sand, naming what’s breaking, what’s next, and how to build what lasts. Here we are, the fifth and final episode of THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT series, and this is the one that brings it all home. Let me ask you something real. Do you secretly fear that the version of success you’ve been chasing was handed to you, not truly chosen by you? In this episode, I unmask the lie so many are living with but never say out loud: “I believe in myself… but only when...
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THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT Starts Now | EPISODE 4: What LOVE-LED™ Leadership Actually Looks Like
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🎙THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT A 5-part audio series for the leaders who can’t keep doing it the old way. This is your line in the sand, naming what’s breaking, what’s next, and how to build what lasts. As I’ve been sharing throughout this special series, the old way of doing business in our industry is breaking down, and it’s not just costing you momentum. It’s costing you trust. Trust in yourself, trust from your team, and even trust in the very model you’re trying to share. In this fourth episode of THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT series, we’re pulling the curtain all the way back....
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THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT Starts Now | EPISODE 3: The SHIFT EQUATION™: Content + Conversations = Leadership
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🎙THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT A 5-part audio series for the leaders who can’t keep doing it the old way. This is your line in the sand, naming what’s breaking, what’s next, and how to build what lasts. You’re grinding harder than ever, but is your business actually growing? In this third episode of our 5-part series, we’re cutting through the noise and exposing why the old leadership playbook is keeping you and your team stuck, overwhelmed, and disengaged. It’s not about pumping out more content or staying constantly visible. It’s about getting back to the real rhythm of...
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THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT | EPISODE 2: Why Content Alone Can’t Build the Business You Were Called to Lead
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🎙THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT A 5-part audio series for the leaders who can’t keep doing it the old way. This is your line in the sand, naming what’s breaking, what’s next, and how to build what lasts. Are you feeling disconnected from your content and finding yourself second-guessing your message? Content isn’t meant to just teach or sell. It’s meant to build belief. And in this second episode of the LOVE-LED™ SHIFT series, I’m showing you how to do exactly that. This conversation goes beyond content creation. It’s about leadership. Because what people are craving right now...
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THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT | EPISODE 1: The System Is Breaking And You’re Not the Problem
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🎙THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT A 5-part audio series for the leaders who can’t keep doing it the old way. This is your line in the sand, naming what’s breaking, what’s next, and how to build what lasts. I’m so excited to bring you Episode 1 of The LOVE-LED™ SHIFT series. This marks a bold line in the sand, a declaration that we’re done with the fear-led system that’s been quietly eroding your confidence and forcing you to trade your peace for performance. If you’ve been putting in the work but still feel disconnected, if your content isn’t landing, your team feels...
info_outlineHave you ever felt that nagging whisper inside you, telling you something's off, even when you're doing everything 'right' in your business?
Are you tired of the endless pressure, the feeling that your worth is tied to a number, or that you're constantly fighting burnout?
If you're honest with yourself, you know this isn't how leadership was meant to feel…
In this episode, I rip back the curtain on what I call 'fear-led leadership', or that inherited system of urgency, performance-at-all-costs, and subtle manipulation that's keeping so many good people stuck, and I introduce you to our LOVE-LED™ growth philosophy. This isn't just a kinder tone; it's a complete reformation, a belief-first, trust-driven model that puts people, identity, and sustainable growth first, because this is about building from peace, not pressure.
And as a special sneak peek, I'm revealing the upcoming LOVE-LED™ Shift Series, a 5-part blueprint that will give you the exact tools and language to finally lead differently, which will be dropping all at once late next week as a podcast series you can binge. This isn't about improving the old way; it's about replacing it. So, if this hits something in you, don't look away. Lean in. Your shift starts now. Are you ready?
Listen to Learn:
5:49 - Decoding fear-led phrases and examples of what manipulation often sounds like
8:57 - The foundational principles of LOVE-LED™ growth and how represents a new standard built on belief and identity
10:40 - Why this type of leadership honors your life and your priorities
12:04 - A look at genuine motivation and manipulative tactics disguised as leadership, and why it's time to dismantle the latter
12:59 - Debunking the myth that LOVE-LED™ growth avoids effort
19:34 - The difference between a fear-based strategy and a deep-seated fear-built culture that can subtly sabotage teams and leaders
25:33 - What the three types of leaders are and identifying your role in the current landscape of our industry
32:37 - An exclusive preview of the upcoming 5-part podcast series which will offer a complete framework to transform your leadership and build a business rooted in love, not fear.
469: What Happens When You Stop Performing and Start Leading
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