THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT Starts Now | EPISODE 4: What LOVE-LED™ Leadership Actually Looks Like
Release Date: 07/26/2025
481: This is What It Sounds Like to Step Into LOVE-LED™ Leadership
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Can you relate to the constant pressure to perform? Do you ever find yourself carrying the quiet fear that you're slipping behind, or that a simple "no" from a client is proof you're not cut out for this? In this powerful, unscripted coaching session, I sit down with Amy, a health coach who, from the outside, has it all together, but on the inside is battling these exact feelings. You'll hear the raw, emotional moment she reconnects with the purpose that first inspired her to become a coach. We'll unpack the "red light stories" that try to derail us and the old patterns that make us walk away...
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480: Are People Feeling Your Pressure…or Your Presence?
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479: 'Post More and You'll Grow' is Killing People's Businesses
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478: Quitting Isn't the Enemy, Living Without Belief Is
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Let me ask you something. Are you wearing a "badge of honor" that says, "I haven't quit yet"? Do you find yourself pushing, posting, and grinding, but deep down you're not sure it's working? Today, I'm taking you inside a coaching conversation that revealed a hard truth many of us are carrying but have never questioned: continuing without belief is more dangerous than quitting. In this episode, you'll learn why the fear-led system has trapped so many good-hearted leaders in a cycle of exhaustion and shame, and what the real difference is between just "staying" and truly "believing." This...
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477: Why ChatGPT Is The Most Important Leadership Tool Ever Created
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THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT Starts Now | EPISODE 5: This Is Where Fear Ends and LOVE-LED™ Leadership Begins
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🎙THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT A 5-part audio series for the leaders who can’t keep doing it the old way. This is your line in the sand, naming what’s breaking, what’s next, and how to build what lasts. Here we are, the fifth and final episode of THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT series, and this is the one that brings it all home. Let me ask you something real. Do you secretly fear that the version of success you’ve been chasing was handed to you, not truly chosen by you? In this episode, I unmask the lie so many are living with but never say out loud: “I believe in myself… but only when...
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THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT Starts Now | EPISODE 4: What LOVE-LED™ Leadership Actually Looks Like
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🎙THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT A 5-part audio series for the leaders who can’t keep doing it the old way. This is your line in the sand, naming what’s breaking, what’s next, and how to build what lasts. As I’ve been sharing throughout this special series, the old way of doing business in our industry is breaking down, and it’s not just costing you momentum. It’s costing you trust. Trust in yourself, trust from your team, and even trust in the very model you’re trying to share. In this fourth episode of THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT series, we’re pulling the curtain all the way back....
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THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT Starts Now | EPISODE 3: The SHIFT EQUATION™: Content + Conversations = Leadership
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🎙THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT A 5-part audio series for the leaders who can’t keep doing it the old way. This is your line in the sand, naming what’s breaking, what’s next, and how to build what lasts. You’re grinding harder than ever, but is your business actually growing? In this third episode of our 5-part series, we’re cutting through the noise and exposing why the old leadership playbook is keeping you and your team stuck, overwhelmed, and disengaged. It’s not about pumping out more content or staying constantly visible. It’s about getting back to the real rhythm of...
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THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT | EPISODE 2: Why Content Alone Can’t Build the Business You Were Called to Lead
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🎙THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT A 5-part audio series for the leaders who can’t keep doing it the old way. This is your line in the sand, naming what’s breaking, what’s next, and how to build what lasts. Are you feeling disconnected from your content and finding yourself second-guessing your message? Content isn’t meant to just teach or sell. It’s meant to build belief. And in this second episode of the LOVE-LED™ SHIFT series, I’m showing you how to do exactly that. This conversation goes beyond content creation. It’s about leadership. Because what people are craving right now...
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THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT | EPISODE 1: The System Is Breaking And You’re Not the Problem
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🎙THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT A 5-part audio series for the leaders who can’t keep doing it the old way. This is your line in the sand, naming what’s breaking, what’s next, and how to build what lasts. I’m so excited to bring you Episode 1 of The LOVE-LED™ SHIFT series. This marks a bold line in the sand, a declaration that we’re done with the fear-led system that’s been quietly eroding your confidence and forcing you to trade your peace for performance. If you’ve been putting in the work but still feel disconnected, if your content isn’t landing, your team feels...
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A 5-part audio series for the leaders who can’t keep doing it the old way. This is your line in the sand, naming what’s breaking, what’s next, and how to build what lasts.
As I’ve been sharing throughout this special series, the old way of doing business in our industry is breaking down, and it’s not just costing you momentum. It’s costing you trust. Trust in yourself, trust from your team, and even trust in the very model you’re trying to share.
In this fourth episode of THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT series, we’re pulling the curtain all the way back. I’m breaking down the real, tangible costs of fear-led leadership with examples that are going to hit home. This isn’t just about switching strategies. This is about making a foundational shift that will change everything.
And we’re not done yet. There’s one more episode to come. If you’ve ever felt your belief vanish the moment your results dip, that next conversation is for you. We’re going to unpack what real belief is and why you’ve been chasing it in all the wrong places.
This is the message I wish someone had told me when I was in the thick of it. So don’t stop now. When you’re ready, I’ll meet you there.
Listen to Learn:
0:50 - The core difference between leading with pressure and leading with belief, and why the old way is "breaking down"
3:10 - The hidden face of fear-led leadership and how to identify the subtle signs of fear-based leadership
5:00 - Some of the key ways that urgency can create dependency and hollow actions in your team rather than genuine belief
7:55 - The true cost of constant pressure and the endless "growth loop" it creates
10:20 - Why your leadership pipeline is capped and how fear-led systems unintentionally filter out thoughtful, value-driven, and sustainable leader
13:37 - How a disconnect between what you say and what your culture rewards quietly damages team trust
18:57 - What I say to challenge the notion that "it's working" when success is built on compliance, not conviction, and comes at a high cost to your team
24:27 - Meeting people where they are: the foundational principle of LOVE-LED™ leadership
35:12 - The lesson I’ve come to learn about celebrating more than just the outcome and recognizing the “invisible wins”
Make sure to listen to all of the other episodes in this series, below!
THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT | EPISODE 1: The System Is Breaking And You’re Not the Problem
THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT | EPISODE 2: Why Content Alone Can’t Build the Business You Were Called to Lead
THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT Starts Now | EPISODE 5: This Is Where Fear Ends and LOVE-LED™ Leadership Begins
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