479: 'Post More and You'll Grow' is Killing People's Businesses
Release Date: 08/15/2025
489: You Chose the Right Vehicle. You Were Given the Wrong Engine
Your Virtual Upline Podcast
For years, you’ve been told the reason your business isn’t moving is because you need to try harder, show up more, be more consistent, or become a “better driver.” But what if the problem was never the driver? In this episode, I reveal one of the most powerful insights of the entire Revive Your Downline series: You chose the right vehicle… but you inherited the wrong engine. You’ll discover why your business stalled, your team stopped moving, and your belief took a hit, not because you lacked discipline, desire, or leadership, but because the fear-led engine you were handed was...
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488: The Belief Bridge: How Leaders Actually Move People
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Most leaders think people say yes because of a great pitch, the perfect message, or the right closing script. But that’s not why people move. In this episode, I'll reveal the real reason people say yes through a powerful concept we created called The Belief Bridge™. You’ll learn the three stages every person must cross before they join your team, buy from you, or decide to trust your leadership again: 1. Belief in YOU 2. Belief in your solution 3. Belief in themselves And you’ll discover the silent force that’s been collapsing that bridge without you realizing it: your leadership...
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487: Sponsoring Isn’t Selling. It’s a Leadership Invitation.
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Most people think the reason they struggle to sponsor is because they’re not confident enough, bold enough, influential enough, or good enough at “explaining the business.” But that’s not the truth. The real reason sponsoring has felt heavy, discouraging, or inconsistent is because you were taught a version of sponsoring that was never built on belief, only pressure, performance, and persuasion. In this episode, we expose the fear-led system that drained your belief, shrunk your calling, and turned sponsoring into a transaction instead of a transformation. And he reveals the...
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486: The Belief Recession: The Real Reason Your Team Stopped Growing
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Everyone is talking about algorithms, engagement, and strategy… but no one is naming the real crisis in the profession: We’re in a Belief Recession. Not a motivation dip. Not a recruiting slowdown. A collapse of belief in the system, in leadership, and in themselves. In this episode, I reveal the truth most leaders have felt but haven’t been able to articulate: your business didn’t stall because you failed… it stalled because the fear-led system you were given collapsed underneath you. The old way of growing through pressure, hype, and constant performance no longer works. Your team...
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485: How to Get Your Chicken List to Reach Out to You
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What if the people you’ve always dreamed of leading started coming to you? In this first episode of Taking Off the Mask, Bob shares the powerful story of Stephanie Wood, a leader who reignited her business through the power of presence and authenticity. After years of doing “all the right things” and feeling like nothing was working, Stephanie made one simple shift in how she showed up in her content. The result? One of the people on her chicken list, someone who had been a customer for ten years, reached out to her and joined her team. This isn’t a story about recruiting....
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484: The 4 Biggest Sponsoring Mistakes People Make
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Are you tired of signing up team members who quit, fail to launch, or just aren't as driven as you are? Do you secretly worry that sponsoring is the one area of your business you've completely failed at? What if I told you that the reason you're not attracting motivated leaders is because you're faithfully following a system that has utterly failed you? It's not your fault! On today's episode, we’re having a mirror moment as I expose the four biggest sponsoring mistakes I see being taught today. In fact, most people in the industry today have never really developed the skill of...
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483: Your Content Has Been Wearing a Mask
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You feel the burnout, the comparison, and the constant pressure to post... but what if your content isn't broken? What if it's just wearing a mask? If you’ve been showing up every day, posting exactly what you're told, but still feeling numb and disconnected, then this is a must-listen episode. Today, I'm having one of the most important conversations about why your successful-looking content isn't generating the results you desperately want. It's not because you're broken; it's because you've been trained to lead from fear instead of love, hiding your authentic self behind tips,...
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482: You're One Presentation Away with Colin Boyd
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Do you ever feel that quiet pressure to perform every time you show up? Whether it's going live on social media, leading a team call, or stepping onto a stage, it’s like there’s an invisible weight telling you to prove something. And if you've been taught to push, promote, and pitch your way through it, you’ve probably noticed it leaves you feeling disconnected and drained. In this episode, I’m joined by my good friend and speaking expert Colin Boyd. We’re having a real, honest conversation about what it looks like to lead and speak from a place of purpose instead of pressure. This...
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481: This is What It Sounds Like to Step Into LOVE-LED™ Leadership
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Can you relate to the constant pressure to perform? Do you ever find yourself carrying the quiet fear that you're slipping behind, or that a simple "no" from a client is proof you're not cut out for this? In this powerful, unscripted coaching session, I sit down with Amy, a health coach who, from the outside, has it all together, but on the inside is battling these exact feelings. You'll hear the raw, emotional moment she reconnects with the purpose that first inspired her to become a coach. We'll unpack the "red light stories" that try to derail us and the old patterns that make us walk away...
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480: Are People Feeling Your Pressure…or Your Presence?
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Are you feeling the pressure to constantly sprint in your business, posting nonstop and messaging everyone with a pulse? Do you ever worry you're falling behind because you're not keeping up with the frantic pace? In this episode, I share a powerful story about a client who felt exactly that. She was shamed for "going slow," but was actually making one of the most important shifts of her entire business journey. You’ll discover why activity without alignment is just noise and how moving from a fear-led to a LOVE LED™ approach can lead to more fulfilling, sustainable growth. I’m going to...
info_outlineFeeling burned out from social media? The advice to "just post more" is not only outdated, it's dangerous. AI-driven algorithms now make generic content invisible, proving that trying to out-post a machine is a game you can't win, and today I want to smash the myth that quantity trumps quality on social media.
In this episode, I share why the new AI-driven algorithms are making your generic, check-the-box content completely invisible, and why trying to out-post a machine with human effort is a game you just can't win.
But there's a better way, and I reveal the secret to the new social media game: emotional resonance and true connection. So let’s learn how to stop being ignored and build a business rooted in your unique voice and purpose. After listening to what I have to say, you’ll discover how to use AI as a mirror to unlock the leader within you, rather than just have it be a content machine.
Grab your spot in The ChatGPT Content Reset here! www.yourvirtualupline.com/chatgpt
Listen to Learn:
4:25 - How social media has changed in a BIG way, making the old strategy of "just post more" ineffective and a recipe for burnout
8:20 - The impact of AI and why the algorithm is now no longer looking for likes or views
10:37 - What will happen if you try to compete with AI by using sheer human effort and posting more
11:45 - The main things that the algorithm is scanning for today
13:13 - How to achieve emotional resonance and why it requires more than just simply presenting facts or promotions
19:03 - What to consider when using AI to move you forward in connection
Grab your spot in The ChatGPT Content Reset here! www.yourvirtualupline.com/chatgpt
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