481: This is What It Sounds Like to Step Into LOVE-LED™ Leadership
Release Date: 08/22/2025
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info_outlineCan you relate to the constant pressure to perform? Do you ever find yourself carrying the quiet fear that you're slipping behind, or that a simple "no" from a client is proof you're not cut out for this? In this powerful, unscripted coaching session, I sit down with Amy, a health coach who, from the outside, has it all together, but on the inside is battling these exact feelings.
You'll hear the raw, emotional moment she reconnects with the purpose that first inspired her to become a coach. We'll unpack the "red light stories" that try to derail us and the old patterns that make us walk away from opportunities. But most importantly, you'll witness what it looks like to lead from a place of love and authentic purpose instead of letting fear lead you.
Amy’s story is a perfect demonstration that you don't have to keep leading from fear. There is a different, more fulfilling, LOVE LED™ way. Press play and find out what it sounds like.
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Listen to Learn:
6:01 - Why Amy's "red light story" was a classic sign of a fear-led mindset
10:07 - How she turned a prospect's objection into an opportunity by validating her feelings and asking open-ended questions
18:05 - The way to move past the constant pressure of performance, as Amy did when she realized her old methods buried her true calling
22:23 - What she is doing now to build a business that won't fail under pressure by choosing a new LOVE LED™ approach
27:57 - A key lesson Amy learned when she realized she can't pour her energy into people who aren't committed
29:30 - The analogy I gave Amy when thinking of creating a strong foundation for future growth that's aligned with her purpose
33:53 - A reminder that in order to redefine success, you must focus on presence, not rank
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