281: From Self-Abandonment to Self-Trust & It’s Impact on Everything with Terri Cole
Release Date: 10/13/2024
309: Letting My Groans Out — and the Deeper Nervous System Work I’m Doing Now
The Blair Badenhop Show
In episode 308, I shared my practice of “letting my groans out” — a practice I’ve been doing for nearly a decade to release stress, unwind tension, and support deeper sleep. Today, I’m going deeper into the whole origin story from my 30s, plus giving you the play-by-play on the nervous system work I’m doing today. Specifically, I share: A modality called Network Spinal Analysis and how it opened my eyes to the body’s capacity to release stored emotion through sound, breath, and spontaneous movement. How I’ve continued following subtle breadcrumbs toward deeper...
info_outline
308: Life Lately - Winter Rituals, Wellness Experiments & What’s Grounding Me
The Blair Badenhop Show
In today’s episode, I’m sharing a behind-the-scenes look at what’s been filling my days lately — the small rituals, habits, and choices that are supporting me in this slower winter season. I talk about the books, routines, wellness experiments, and mindset shifts that are helping me clear mental and emotional clutter, tend to my wellbeing, and gently prepare for spring — without rushing or forcing anything. I share: A beautiful book that’s reshaping how I think about healing, stress, and aging My current cozy rituals (including a favorite winter drink) A few wellness tools...
info_outline
307: On Taking January Slow—and Saving the Visioning for Later
The Blair Badenhop Show
In this episode, I’m letting go of the pressure to “start strong” in January — and maybe giving you permission to do the same. If your new year feels less like a clean slate and more like a slow crawl out of holiday chaos, sickness, or just plain exhaustion… you’re not alone. This week, I’m sharing why I’m not beginning 2026 with a grand plan, a detailed vision board, or a perfectly mapped-out set of intentions. Instead, I’m choosing the slowness of winter, the simplicity of small tasks, and the honesty of meeting myself exactly where I am. Inside, I talk about: The moment...
info_outline
306: My Holiday Epiphany - How a Check-In with My Inner Child Helped Me Grow Up
The Blair Badenhop Show
This week’s episode is a personal one — a holiday reflection I didn’t expect to record but absolutely needed to. It starts in my kitchen, making hot chocolate for my kids, Bing Crosby playing, the tree lit up across the room… and realizing I didn’t feel a single ounce of Christmas magic. Not one spark. Even though everything around me looked perfect. In this episode, I unpack the truth I uncovered — a quiet holiday epiphany that led me straight to my inner child and the part of me still longing for Christmas to feel the way it used to. Inside, I share: ✨ Why Christmas feels so...
info_outline
305: Oh Hi! Why I Took a Big Break — And What I’m Creating Now
The Blair Badenhop Show
In this episode, I share what led me to step back from the podcast and social media, the truth about our move to Georgia, and how this season has reshaped my work, my identity, and my priorities. If you’re craving an honest, grounded look at what it means to begin again, this one’s for you.
info_outline
304: Life Lately - House Hunt Updates & Finding Our New Rhythm
The Blair Badenhop Show
Big news — we finally found our house! In today’s solo episode, I’m sharing all the behind-the-scenes of our home search, what made this place feel like “the one,” how the kids are adjusting, and what it’s been like settling into a whole new life here in Georgia. I share: How we found our dream home after a wild search Funny preschool drop-off adventures Finding my new favorite yoga studio First impressions of southern living NOTE: From now until September, I'll be releasing a monthly solo episode where I'll keep you updated on our move and adjusting to...
info_outline
303: Risky Career Moves & Life-Changing Pursuits with Kate Terentieva
The Blair Badenhop Show
Kate Terentieva is the founder of Off The Record, a connection card game that revolutionizes how we communicate and build deeper, more impactful relationships. With a background as a creative & art director for some of the world’s most iconic brands, like WhatsApp, Calvin Klein, Converse, Justin Alexander, and Four Seasons Hotels & Resorts, Kate combines her passion for creative innovation with her love of authentic connections through Off the Record. While the game is fun to play, its true mission is to offer a supportive and enjoyable way to turn small talk into meaningful...
info_outline
302: Using Vision to Transform Your Life with Neri Karra Sillaman
The Blair Badenhop Show
Neri Karra Sillaman is an advisor, speaker, and author, recently named to the Thinkers50 Radar List for 2024, recognizing her as one of the world’s top 30 emerging management thinkers. She serves as an Entrepreneurship Expert at the University of Oxford and as an Adjunct Professor at ESCP Paris. Neri is also the founder of Neri Karra, a global luxury leather goods brand with over 25 years of partnerships with leading Italian labels. A former child refugee, Neri’s journey fuels her passion for resilience, cultural innovation, and ethical business practices. Her thought leadership has...
info_outline
301: We Moved to Georgia: The Beauty, the Mess, and Everything In Between
The Blair Badenhop Show
In this solo episode, I’m bringing you behind the scenes of our big move to Georgia. From the emotional rollercoaster of saying goodbye to our old life, to the two-day drive with two kids, to landing in a totally new place—we’ve been in it. I share how the first two weeks have unfolded: The highs and lows of house hunting The moments of homesickness and what they’ve taught me What’s helping me stay grounded (even when everything feels unfamiliar) My honest thoughts on navigating change as a mom, entrepreneur, and human What’s next for the podcast during this transitional time ...
info_outline
300: A Farewell, a Road Trip & 7 Steps for Embracing Change
The Blair Badenhop Show
In this solo episode, I’m sharing a personal goodbye to our very first home — and I’m walking you through 7 steps that have helped me stay present through this big transition. In this episode, I talk about: • My heartfelt ode to our “fairy house” — and all the memories we’re leaving behind. • 7 simple (but powerful) ways I’ve supported myself through this transition. • How I’m letting myself feel the feelings, while also making space for excitement and possibility. This episode is for you if: • You’re in a...
info_outlineTerri Cole is a licensed psychotherapist, relationship expert, an empowerment coach, and author Boundary Boss and her latest book Too Much. She’s also the host of her top-rated podcast The Terri Cole Show.
For over 20 years, her approach has combined the best of practical psychology and Eastern mindfulness practices - making complex psychological concepts accessible, and then actionable so that women can achieve true transformation.
She’s been featured in Cosmopolitan Magazine, Vogue, ABC, The New York Times, Forbes, and more.
So, this is the second time I’ve had the honor of chatting with Terri Cole on the show. And so much of our conversation this time was centered around something really crucial as we purpose our purpose work: Our relationship to self.
In this episode, we chat about how she describes her relationship with herself today and the role it has played in her success over the past two decades, her journey to developing this kind of relationship to herself and how she used to struggle with codependency, self-abandonment, and a lack of boundaries, how the unshakable inner trust has empowered her to always stay true to herself and how she wants to deliver her work to the world and not cave to the pressure of publishers or outside advice, her biggest tips for transcending old limiting beliefs, and unhealthy patterns like burnout and people-pleasing as you go after your dreams, and so much more!
To learn more about Terri Cole and the resources mentioned in this episode, visit the show notes.