Planning for 2026 When You're Tired of the Same Results
Breaking Sales
What determines whether your 2026 becomes a breakthrough year or just another year of good intentions? Most sales professionals approach year-end planning the same way they approach everything else: they only focus on what they want without examining why they don't already have it. This Breaking Sales episode provides a planning methodology that flips that approach on its head: Instead of starting with ambitious goals and hoping for the best, you begin with brutal honesty about the behaviors and thinking patterns that have kept you stuck—and the ones that will move you forward. ...
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The Uncomfortable Truth About Giving Feedback
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Why do we avoid giving feedback when we know someone needs to hear it? It's not a lack of time or unclear expectations; it's the fear that speaking up will damage the relationship. But the uncomfortable truth is that withholding feedback because you're afraid denies people the chance to fix the patterns that are holding them back. In this episode of Breaking Sales, Dan and Pam explore what happens when the need to be liked overtakes the responsibility to help people improve. Their conversation reveals how passivity and people-pleasing keep you from sharing valuable observations, the three...
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How Victim Mentality Sabotages Performance
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How do you respond to pressure and repeated rejection? Most sales professionals can spot a victim mentality in their colleagues instantly: the rep who blames the CRM, the veteran who insists the territory is cursed, the coworker who always has an excuse for missed quota. But recognizing when you're the one deflecting responsibility? That's where it gets difficult and uncomfortable. In this episode of Breaking Sales, Dan and Pam explore how victim mentality creeps into sales performance—not as a permanent character flaw, but as a natural response to the demanding pursuit of...
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Staying in the Game When Conversations Go Sideways
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What separates the sales professionals who consistently close deals from those who accept rejection too easily isn’t charisma, product knowledge, or years of experience. It’s conversation resilience: the ability to maintain composure and curiosity when discussions take unwelcome turns. In this episode of Breaking Sales, Dan explores this critical skill. Through his personal story of landing his first coaching client after sixteen months of failures, Dan demonstrates how conversation resilience converted apparent rejection into a closed deal. You’ll discover what it actually...
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The Cost of Poor Preparation
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What happens to your brain when a prospect says something you didn't expect to hear? In this episode, Dan and Kristie explore why even seasoned sales professionals can freeze up or panic when conversations take unexpected turns, and the specific preparation process that prevents it from happening. You'll learn why conversation resilience isn't about personality or experience, how top performers build mental frameworks before important meetings, and why the same principles apply whether you're in a high-stakes negotiation or making prospecting calls. This episode challenges the assumption that...
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What Do You Actually Mean By That?
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Why do prospects choose competitors even when you clearly have the superior solution? In this episode, Dan and Pam uncover a critical gap that's costing sales professionals deals every day: the failure to understand what prospects actually mean by the descriptive words they use. Through real client examples and personal experiences, they reveal how making assumptions about terms like "innovative," "strategic," or "creative" leads to wasted time, missed opportunities, and lost trust. You'll discover why this seemingly simple skill creates such powerful results, the psychology behind why...
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Stop Forcing Sales Conversations
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What if the secret to higher closing rates isn't better techniques, but better preparation? In this episode, Dan and Kristie break down one of the most common mistakes they’ve observed in client calls: professionals who force conversations instead of letting them unfold naturally. Drawing from extensive study of recorded sales calls, they reveal why experienced salespeople often jump too quickly to solutions, pepper prospects with lazy leading questions, and ultimately sabotage their own success. You'll learn the specific preparation techniques that build confidence to trust the conversation...
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Are You Tracking Performance or Just Hoping for the Best?
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What if your sales success has more to do with luck and timing than actual skill? In this conversation, Dan and Pam tackle the uncomfortable truth that many sales professionals are operating in the dark—putting substantial effort into their pipelines without tracking the metrics that reveal whether their efforts are actually working. Pam shares her humbling story of going from a top performer to nearly losing her job when her boss moved her from a high-performing territory to the company's worst neighborhood. The result? Two months without a single sale and a harsh wake-up call that...
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Are All Nos Equal?
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Are you proud of the nos you're getting? Most sales professionals celebrate any rejection as progress, but here's the uncomfortable truth: there are nos you should feel accomplished about, and then there are nos that are filled with regret. In this episode of Breaking Sales, Dan and Pam break down the critical difference between an easy no and a hard no. You'll discover why making prospects work hard isn't about being difficult—it's about being responsible, and why your role isn't to solve for prospects, but to help them figure out if there's anything worth solving for. Dan and Pam...
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Stop Making Outreach Decisions Based on How You Feel
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What separates high performers from everyone else when it comes to prospecting? It's not their message, their experience, or their market. It's how they think about the activity itself. Most sales professionals make the critical mistake of allowing their feelings in the moment to dictate whether they follow through on their prospecting commitments. They convince themselves that how they feel right now—tired, unmotivated, or overwhelmed—should determine whether they make those calls or send those emails. But here's the uncomfortable truth: your best client is still out there, and they're...
info_outlineWhat determines whether your 2026 becomes a breakthrough year or just another year of good intentions?
Most sales professionals approach year-end planning the same way they approach everything else: they only focus on what they want without examining why they don't already have it.
This Breaking Sales episode provides a planning methodology that flips that approach on its head: Instead of starting with ambitious goals and hoping for the best, you begin with brutal honesty about the behaviors and thinking patterns that have kept you stuck—and the ones that will move you forward.
In this episode, Dan walks you through exercises that help you connect what you want to achieve with the mental shifts required to get there. You'll also discover how your natural tendency to imagine negative outcomes causes you to avoid taking action, and why the most successful people have learned to reframe their internal dialogue around risk and opportunity.
Whether you're looking to break through a performance plateau or finally bridge the gap between your potential and your results, this framework provides the foundation for creating lasting change in the new year.