What Is Quantum Dating? Why Everyone’s Talking About It and How to Try It
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Release Date: 09/18/2025
Understanding Men’s Sexual Confidence: Interview with Dr. Ann Trong
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
What if sexual confidence isn’t about effort or technique, but something deeper happening in your body and mind? In Episode 429 of The Charisma Quotient, “Understanding Men’s Sexual Confidence: Interview with Dr. Ann Trong” Kimmy dives into the hidden side of masculine confidence, exploring how pressure, stress, and nervous system responses can shut men down and how it affects women when dating—with special guest Dr. Ann Trong. Together, they explore why so many men feel immense pressure to perform in dating and in the bedroom, and how these expectations can rob them of...
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Dating Confidence at Any Age with The Golden Bachelor’s Edith Aguirre
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Is your dating confidence low? Do you ever ask yourself if it's really possible to reinvent your love life at your age? In Episode 428 of The Charisma Quotient, “Dating Confidence at Any Age with The Golden Bachelor’s Edith Aguirre” dives deep into the concept of confidence with her special guest Edith Aguirre, Season One star from The Golden Bachelor. Together, they explore what it means to cultivate "second act charisma"—the confidence that blooms not from perfection or external validation, but from genuine self-connection, presence, and embracing where you are in life. ...
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Break Your Dating Patterns: Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong Partners
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Are you tired of feeling like you’re starring in your own dating version of Groundhog Day? Do you wonder why you keep attracting the same partners, or why your relationships keep ending in familiar heartbreak? What if breaking those old patterns and creating the love life you want is less about finding a different person—and more about becoming a different you? In Episode 427 of The Charisma Quotient, “Break Your Dating Patterns: Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong Partners” Kimmy dives deep into the cycles that keep you stuck in frustrating dating loops. Using real-life client...
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How to Attract New Love in 2026
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Do you want to find love in the new year? Maybe you have been repeating old patterns and feeling stuck not knowing what to change to attract a healthy relationship. It’s good to reflect upon what worked and what didn’t this past year to make new year dating resolutions for yourself! In Episode 426 of The Charisma Quotient, “How to Attract New Love in 2026” Kimmy looks back at some of her most popular and poignant episodes of 2025 that can help you find love in the new year. This special Charisma Quotient holiday compilation dives deep into the small, magical shifts...
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Dating Trends 2026: What’s Really Working Now
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Did you know dating in the way you know it is changing as we head toward 2026? What if you could decode the trends, ditch the overwhelm, and finally feel confident navigating love in this new world? In Episode 425 of The Charisma Quotient, “Dating Trends 2026: What’s Really Working Now” Kimmy walks you through what’s in and what’s out for dating in 2026. In this episode, Kimmy tackles the burning questions and anxieties that so many later-life daters are quietly asking: How do you date confidently when the “playbook” keeps changing? Are there actually new dating skills you...
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Emotional Healing for Deeper Connection: Interview with Rebecca Silence
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Have you ever wondered why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners, even though you seem to have it all together in your career and personal achievements? What if the secret to meaningful relationships isn’t about doing more, but about truly connecting to how you feel and who you are? In Episode 424 of The Charisma Quotient, “Emotional Healing for Deeper Connection: Interview with Rebecca Silence” Kimmy welcomes renowned emotional healing expert Rebecca Silence to explore the powerful shift from achievement-driven living to deep emotional alignment. In this episode,...
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ICYMI: Creating Conversation and Chemistry: Coaching with Kimmy
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Have you ever sat across from someone on a first date and wondered, “Why does this feel so awkward? Why isn’t there any chemistry?” Are you stuck in your head, anxious about what to say and worried if you’re coming across as interesting or fun? In Episode 423 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: Creating Conversation and Chemistry: Coaching with Kimmy” Kimmy dives deep into these common dating dilemmas and explores how you can take control of your energy, spark chemistry, and break free from repetitive, boring conversations. In this episode, welcomes Kay, who’s struggled to...
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How Forgiveness Frees Your Heart: Interview with Dr. Dravon James
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Have you ever wondered why old anger or resentment keeps resurfacing, even when you think you’ve moved on? Are you curious how forgiveness—not just for others, but for yourself—could change your relationships, your dating life, and your sense of peace? In Episode 422 of The Charisma Quotient, “How Forgiveness Frees Your Heart: Interview with Dr. Dravon James” Kimmy dives into the transformative power of forgiveness with renowned transformation specialist, Dr. Dravon James. Throughout this honest and heartfelt conversation, Kimmy and Dr. Dravon James unpack the many...
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Swipe Culture, Dating Disasters & Reality TV with Zack Peter
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Why are dating shows so wildly popular? Do you ever wonder if those wild moments from reality TV have anything to do with your real-life dating struggles? What lessons—good or bad—are these shows teaching us, and how do we handle the ever-evolving swipe culture and its endless options? In Episode 421 of The Charisma Quotient, “Swipe Culture, Dating Disasters & Reality TV with Zack Peter” Kimmy Seltzer and Allison Melody sit down with pop culture expert Zack Peter to tackle these big questions, blending reality TV drama with practical, real-world advice (and lots of laughs)....
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Rediscovering Your Spark: Renee Halverson’s Golden Bachelor Journey
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Have you ever found yourself wondering if your spark has faded? Do you think it's possible to feel sexy, confident, and truly alive—no matter your age, your relationship status, or the life curveballs thrown your way? What does “age gracefully” really mean beyond creams, serums, and green juices? In Episode 420 of The Charisma Quotient, “Rediscovering Your Spark: Renee Halverson’s Golden Bachelor Journey” Kimmy and her co-host Allison join pop culture guru and podcast host of So Bad It’s Good, to peel back the layers of pop culture, personal stories, and hard-hitting dating...
info_outlineHave you ever wondered why dating feels like a high-stakes interview or why the pressure to “find the one” can be so exhausting? What if there were a way to approach dating that feels lighter, more playful, and actually attracts better connections? In Episode 411 of The Charisma Quotient, “What Is Quantum Dating? Why Everyone’s Talking About It and How to Try It,” Kimmy invites you to rethink everything you know about modern romance.
In this thought-provoking episode of Charisma Quotient, Kimmy Seltzer introduces us to “quantum dating”—an emerging dating philosophy that flips traditional expectations on their head. Drawing from her years of coaching experience and referencing a viral term, Kimmy explains how quantum dating is less about chasing commitment and more about curious exploration. She dives into real-life stories of clients who transformed their love lives by loosening the grip on outcomes and letting each interaction become a valuable, self-revealing experience.
Kimmy goes over how quantum dating helps reduce burnout, expand potential partners, and ultimately attracts more aligned, lasting relationships by focusing on connection rather than pressure. Kimmy also addresses common concerns, busts quantum dating myths, and shares her top five actionable tips to help you put this game-changing mindset into practice—whether you’re casually dating, returning to the scene later in life, or seeking something real.
You’ll hear:
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What “quantum dating” really means (and why it’s not physics, but it is revolutionary).
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How rigid expectations and checklists create dating burnout and anxiety.
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The tangible benefits of quantum dating—like increased self-awareness, resilience, and a magnetic vibe.
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Kimmy’s answers to common listener concerns: “Isn’t this just casual dating?”, “Isn’t it wasting time?” and more.
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Five practical tips for dating with curiosity, intentionality, and presence (plus, why it’ll help you attract the right people!).
If you’re ready to experiment, have fun, and put this theory into practice, join Kimmy’s virtual speed dating event on September 23rd. You’ll get real-time feedback from hand-picked dates by Kimmy and meet new people. Sign up soon at www.stophatingdating.com.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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