Rediscovering Your Spark: Renee Halverson’s Golden Bachelor Journey
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Release Date: 11/13/2025
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
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info_outlineHave you ever found yourself wondering if your spark has faded? Do you think it's possible to feel sexy, confident, and truly alive—no matter your age, your relationship status, or the life curveballs thrown your way? What does “age gracefully” really mean beyond creams, serums, and green juices? In Episode 420 of The Charisma Quotient, “Rediscovering Your Spark: Renee Halverson’s Golden Bachelor Journey” Kimmy and her co-host Allison join pop culture guru and podcast host of So Bad It’s Good, to peel back the layers of pop culture, personal stories, and hard-hitting dating advice.
In this episode, Kimmy is joined by Renee Halverson, a standout contestant from the first season of ABC’s Golden Bachelor and former NFL Chicago Honey Bears cheer captain. Together, they dive into the real meaning of sexy confidence and aging vibrantly. Renee shares her whirlwind experience on the Golden Bachelor and how, even when stepping out of comfort zones, she learned the importance of self-focus, sisterhood, and maintaining her sparkle. Kimmy and Renee unpack not just the glamorous moments, but also the doubts, personal reinvention, and challenges faced when dating later in life—especially after years spent caretaking and putting others first.
You’ll hear:
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What “sexy confidence” and aging vibrantly mean—beyond physical appearance and beauty routines
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Renee’s personal story: transitioning from caretaker to Golden Bachelor contestant
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The behind-the-scenes reality of casting, preparation, and life on the Golden Bachelor
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Honest revelations about comparing oneself to others and dealing with self-doubt
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The importance of female friendship, sisterhood, and support systems in later-life dating
If you’re ready to rediscover your spark, book a free call with Kimmy here: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/breakthrough-session/
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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