Unlocking Love After Loss: Real Talk with Real Bachelors: Golden Bachelor Recap S2 E4
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Release Date: 10/24/2025
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Is your dating confidence low? Do you ever ask yourself if it's really possible to reinvent your love life at your age? In Episode 428 of The Charisma Quotient, “Dating Confidence at Any Age with The Golden Bachelor’s Edith Aguirre” dives deep into the concept of confidence with her special guest Edith Aguirre, Season One star from The Golden Bachelor. Together, they explore what it means to cultivate "second act charisma"—the confidence that blooms not from perfection or external validation, but from genuine self-connection, presence, and embracing where you are in life. ...
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Are you tired of feeling like you’re starring in your own dating version of Groundhog Day? Do you wonder why you keep attracting the same partners, or why your relationships keep ending in familiar heartbreak? What if breaking those old patterns and creating the love life you want is less about finding a different person—and more about becoming a different you? In Episode 427 of The Charisma Quotient, “Break Your Dating Patterns: Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong Partners” Kimmy dives deep into the cycles that keep you stuck in frustrating dating loops. Using real-life client...
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Do you want to find love in the new year? Maybe you have been repeating old patterns and feeling stuck not knowing what to change to attract a healthy relationship. It’s good to reflect upon what worked and what didn’t this past year to make new year dating resolutions for yourself! In Episode 426 of The Charisma Quotient, “How to Attract New Love in 2026” Kimmy looks back at some of her most popular and poignant episodes of 2025 that can help you find love in the new year. This special Charisma Quotient holiday compilation dives deep into the small, magical shifts...
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Did you know dating in the way you know it is changing as we head toward 2026? What if you could decode the trends, ditch the overwhelm, and finally feel confident navigating love in this new world? In Episode 425 of The Charisma Quotient, “Dating Trends 2026: What’s Really Working Now” Kimmy walks you through what’s in and what’s out for dating in 2026. In this episode, Kimmy tackles the burning questions and anxieties that so many later-life daters are quietly asking: How do you date confidently when the “playbook” keeps changing? Are there actually new dating skills you...
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Have you ever wondered why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners, even though you seem to have it all together in your career and personal achievements? What if the secret to meaningful relationships isn’t about doing more, but about truly connecting to how you feel and who you are? In Episode 424 of The Charisma Quotient, “Emotional Healing for Deeper Connection: Interview with Rebecca Silence” Kimmy welcomes renowned emotional healing expert Rebecca Silence to explore the powerful shift from achievement-driven living to deep emotional alignment. In this episode,...
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Have you ever sat across from someone on a first date and wondered, “Why does this feel so awkward? Why isn’t there any chemistry?” Are you stuck in your head, anxious about what to say and worried if you’re coming across as interesting or fun? In Episode 423 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: Creating Conversation and Chemistry: Coaching with Kimmy” Kimmy dives deep into these common dating dilemmas and explores how you can take control of your energy, spark chemistry, and break free from repetitive, boring conversations. In this episode, welcomes Kay, who’s struggled to...
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Have you ever wondered why old anger or resentment keeps resurfacing, even when you think you’ve moved on? Are you curious how forgiveness—not just for others, but for yourself—could change your relationships, your dating life, and your sense of peace? In Episode 422 of The Charisma Quotient, “How Forgiveness Frees Your Heart: Interview with Dr. Dravon James” Kimmy dives into the transformative power of forgiveness with renowned transformation specialist, Dr. Dravon James. Throughout this honest and heartfelt conversation, Kimmy and Dr. Dravon James unpack the many...
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Why are dating shows so wildly popular? Do you ever wonder if those wild moments from reality TV have anything to do with your real-life dating struggles? What lessons—good or bad—are these shows teaching us, and how do we handle the ever-evolving swipe culture and its endless options? In Episode 421 of The Charisma Quotient, “Swipe Culture, Dating Disasters & Reality TV with Zack Peter” Kimmy Seltzer and Allison Melody sit down with pop culture expert Zack Peter to tackle these big questions, blending reality TV drama with practical, real-world advice (and lots of laughs)....
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Have you ever found yourself wondering if your spark has faded? Do you think it's possible to feel sexy, confident, and truly alive—no matter your age, your relationship status, or the life curveballs thrown your way? What does “age gracefully” really mean beyond creams, serums, and green juices? In Episode 420 of The Charisma Quotient, “Rediscovering Your Spark: Renee Halverson’s Golden Bachelor Journey” Kimmy and her co-host Allison join pop culture guru and podcast host of So Bad It’s Good, to peel back the layers of pop culture, personal stories, and hard-hitting dating...
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Have you ever wondered what actually happens behind the scenes at a dating retreat inspired by reality TV? How can you bring more excitement and authenticity to your dating life, especially as you navigate dating later in life? Can reality television actually teach us meaningful lessons about forming connections? In Episode 419 of The Charisma Quotient, “Dating Lessons from the Golden Bachelor Mansion Retreat: Golden Bachelor Recap S2 E8” Kimmy and her co-host Allison are live in the Golden Bachelor Mansion in Temecula. They give you the full tour of the place before diving into episodes...
info_outlineWhat does it really take to open your heart after heartbreak or divorce? Why do we attract certain types of partners, and how can we break free from guardedness to find authentic connection? How much should we share about our past traumas, and when is the right time to get real about what we truly want in a relationship? In Episode 417 of The Charisma Quotient, “Unlocking Love After Loss: Real Talk with Real Bachelors,” you’ll get a special look at Kimmy’s new show Dating Real Talk where Kimmy and her co-host Allison Melody, and special guests Doug and Mark—two real-life bachelors sharing candid insights.
This episode explores the heightened emotions and drama of the "Golden Bachelor," but quickly goes beyond TV to extract powerful lessons for anyone dating in their second act. Kimmy Seltzer leads a lively discussion with co-host Allison Melody and two real-life bachelors, Doug Bass and Mark Primiano, about body language, pressure in dating, and the pitfalls of seeking commitment too soon, connecting reality show moments to what actually happens in the world of dating after divorce. The group tackles the differences (and surprising similarities) between men and women when it comes to vulnerability, attraction, and the pain of love lost. Plus, Doug and Mark reveal what it feels like to date post-divorce, how trauma and guardedness affect their desire for openness, and the lively banter around authentic connection versus superficial “fun.”
You’ll hear:
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The real-life male perspective on dating after divorce (what’s different, what’s hard, and what’s hopeful)
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Insights from watching and dissecting “The Golden Bachelor”—and what applies to your own dating life
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How to recognize body language cues that reveal true feelings (and the risks of ignoring them)
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Candid discussion on when (and how) to share your past traumas with a new partner
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The power of authenticity, self-love, and real energy in attracting the right relationship
If you’re ready to unlock love, book a free call with Kimmy here: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/breakthrough-session/
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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