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You Don’t Need Everyone

The Chase Jarvis LIVE Show

Release Date: 03/18/2026

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Hey friends, Chase here

Let’s talk about something that quietly holds a lot of creators back — the belief that your work needs to resonate with everyone.

It feels natural. We’re wired for connection. We want to be seen, appreciated, recognized. That’s human. But when that instinct starts driving your creative decisions, it can pull you further and further away from the very thing that makes your work meaningful in the first place.

So here’s the truth I want you to hear clearly:

You don’t need everyone.

Not their approval. Not their attention. Not their validation.

In fact, trying to get all of that is one of the fastest ways to dilute your voice and disconnect from what matters most.

This episode is about what happens when you stop chasing everyone — and start creating from a place that’s actually true to you.

The Core Idea

If you try to make something for everyone, you end up making it for no one.

I see this all the time — creators, entrepreneurs, builders of all kinds trying to shape their work so broadly that it appeals to the widest possible audience.

And on the surface, that makes sense. More people should mean more opportunity, right?

But in practice, the opposite tends to happen.

When you aim at everyone:

  • Your message gets softer
  • Your point of view gets less clear
  • Your work becomes harder to connect with

Because the things that actually resonate — the things that stick — are specific. They’re personal. They come from a real place.

The goal isn’t to be liked by more people. The goal is to be meaningful to the right people.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

This is a short, focused episode, but it cuts right to the heart of what matters:

  • Why we’re wired to seek approval — and how that instinct can quietly shape our creative decisions
  • The hidden cost of trying to please everyone — and why it leads to weaker work
  • The simple framework for creating work that actually resonates
  • Why authenticity isn’t a buzzword — it’s a requirement for connection
  • How small audiences can create big impact when the alignment is right

Timecodes (So You Can Jump to What You Need)

  • 01:51 – Why creators feel pressure to be liked by everyone
  • 02:21 – The problem with trying to appeal to everyone
  • 03:22 – Why pleasing everyone leads to weaker results
  • 03:45 – The three-step framework: create, share, repeat
  • 05:01 – Why people can feel whether you love your work
  • 06:19 – Stop looking sideways and start creating from within
  • 07:08 – Why you don’t need a massive audience to succeed
  • 08:13 – Finding your people through consistent creation

The Shift That Changes Everything

There’s a subtle but powerful shift at the center of this conversation:

Stop trying to get your work liked. Start making work you actually like.

That might sound simple, but it’s not always easy.

Because it requires you to:

  • Trust your own taste
  • Follow your own curiosity
  • Create without immediate validation

And that can feel uncomfortable — especially in a world that constantly shows you what everyone else is doing.

But here’s the thing:

People can tell.

They can feel when your work is coming from a place of genuine interest, curiosity, and care — versus when it’s shaped to chase trends or approval.

And over time, that difference compounds.

You Don’t Need Everyone — You Need the Right Few

One of the biggest myths in modern creative culture is that success requires a massive audience.

Millions of followers. Huge reach. Constant visibility.

But the reality is much more grounded.

You don’t need thousands of people to love your work.

You need a small number of the right people.

People who:

  • Understand what you’re making
  • Connect with it deeply
  • Care enough to engage, support, and share

And those people don’t show up all at once.

They show up one at a time.

Through consistent work. Through honest expression. Through putting something real into the world over and over again.

Questions to Ask Yourself

If you want to turn this episode into something practical, start here:

  • Where am I trying to please everyone instead of being specific?
  • What kind of work do I actually love making — regardless of response?
  • Am I creating from curiosity, or from approval-seeking?
  • Who are the “right people” for my work?
  • What would I make if I stopped worrying about being liked?

A Simple Practice

If this idea resonates, here’s something you can do right away:

  • Make one thing this week that you genuinely care about
  • Don’t optimize it for reach
  • Don’t shape it for approval
  • Just make it true to you

Then share it.

Not because everyone will like it — but because the right people might.

And that’s how this works.

Final Thought

The more you try to be everything to everyone, the harder it is to be anything meaningful at all.

So stop chasing the crowd.

Start making what matters to you.

Share it.

Repeat.

You don’t need everyone. You just need your people.