Ep. 216 - What “Trust the Process” Really Means with Kris Murray
Release Date: 12/04/2025
Child Care Rockstar Radio
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info_outlineIt’s solo episode time! Kris shares insights from her new book, The Antidote to Fear, and outlines three practical ways to trust yourself and the process. She talks about embracing fear and self-doubt, including her “yoga mat” moment that changed her career direction. Kris discusses manifestation as a giving process and highlights the importance of creating quiet spaces for intuition and growth. She also gives an update on her recent women’s retreat in Maui.
Key Takeaways:
[2:22] Kris explains the concept of “trust the process” from the Success Academy’s guiding principles.
[11:11] How fear can come in and stop us from taking action on following our intuition and going towards our calling.
[14:28] The yoga mat moment that came from a moment of stillness and changed Kris’s life.
[15:00] Hug your fear? Why going towards your fear is actually one of the best things you can do to alchemize it.
[17:25] The importance of tapping into gratitude.
[18:08] Overcoming self-doubt.
[21:24] Calling out the “B.S.” in your life, and why having a coach or mentor to help you through the process is great.
[22:04] Manifestation as a giving process.
[33:26] Kris talks about manifesting a fun book club where she is surrounded by sisterhood, and her beautiful partnership.
Quotes:
“When you feel fear, the ultimate strategy, the ultimate antidote to fear, is to move towards it. It’s to actually embrace it and to feel it and hug it.” — Kris [15:24]
“The opposite of fear is actually love. So the way to alchemize the fear is to love it, and to tap into gratitude.” — Kris [17:25]
“Manifest from the giving energy, the loving energy, and everything in your world can change.” — Kris [33:26]
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