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Ep. 222 — When Loving Kids Isn’t Enough with Michael Ingram

Child Care Rockstar Radio

Release Date: 03/05/2026

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Key Takeaways:

[1:10] Jennifer shares her journey from childcare owner to building a strong leadership team and moving to Mexico.

[1:25] She highlights how systems, finances, and leadership are critical to a sustainable childcare business.

[2:28] Jennifer talks about shifting from running schools remotely to becoming a coach and CEO rooted in love for children and families.

[9:32] Michael reflects on taking feedback too personally early on and learning to get comfortable with discomfort.

[16:20] Michael explains how stepping aside from his own ego and seeking mentorship transformed his leadership.

[20:22] He describes his school’s model, which includes on-site OT, speech, and ABA therapy for children with higher needs.

[22:31] The challenges that Michael faces in his school, and how he works to overcome them. 

[26:02] Michael’s passion for advocacy and advice for someone who wants to get involved but doesn’t exactly know how. 

[29:11] Finding the right group that advocates for your cause. 

[31:17] QTIP - Quit Taking It Personal, and how Michael learned to not take things so personally. 

[35:23] Learning how to give and take space as a leader, and embracing the mantra “just for today”. 

 

Quotes:

“The version of you that started your center isn't necessarily the version of you that sustains it or carries it forward.” [4:44] - Jennifer 

 

“I had to get out of the way of knowing all the answers and allow the people who I am here to serve and work with to help me figure out those answers.” [10:05] – Michael 

 

“Where there's uncomfortability, that's where growth is. You know, that's the innovation of growth. And so, I had to be comfortable with being uncomfortable.” [11:04] - Michael 

 

“You just have to embrace the uncomfortability, and then you can step into greatness.” [11:20] - Michael 

 

“We are doing great things, and we are ready to accept families and support families where they're at. And I think when you have a voice, and you use that voice, other people often will hear it, and it will energize them to rally around a cause that you're passionate about.” [29:43] - Michael 

 

“When you operate out of space, that’s when things fall into line.” [35:09] - Michael 

 

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Mentioned in This Episode:

Kris Murray

@iamkrismurray

Jennifer Conner 

The Child Care Success Company

The Child Care Success Academy

The Child Care Success Summit

Grow Your Center

Childcare Education Institute: Use code CDARenewal22 to get $100 off your renewal

Michael Ingram 

Bedford Heights Daycare Center