Episode 199 | Kate's Story- A daughter with Infantile Spasms
Release Date: 12/13/2023
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info_outlineJoin me for an emotional and insightful conversation as I sit down with Kate Kostolansky in this episode of Child Life On Call. Kate, a dedicated mother and advocate, shares her touching journey of raising her daughter, Charlotte, who battles infantile spasms. In this heartfelt discussion, Kate sheds light on the challenges faced by families dealing with rare medical conditions, emphasizing the importance of parental instincts and advocating for timely medical attention. Discover Kate's inspiring efforts to create age-appropriate resources, including a poignant book and a comforting teddy bear, designed to support and educate children navigating epilepsy. This episode offers valuable insights into the world of pediatric epilepsy and the powerful impact of emotional support from peers. Kate's advocacy work and her family's emotional journey will surely resonate with anyone facing similar challenges. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of navigating pediatric epilepsy and the remarkable strength found in advocacy and support. #InfantileSpasms #PediatricEpilepsy #ChildLife #Advocacy #RareMedicalConditions
In this episode, you will be able to:
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Discover insights on parenting a child with infantile spasms.
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Learn the importance of seeking timely medical attention.
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Explore advocacy strategies for raising infantile spasms awareness.
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Find age-appropriate resources for children with epilepsy.
The key moments in this episode are:
00:00:05 - Introduction to Childlife on Call podcast
00:01:24 - Kate's Family and Experience with Infantile Spasms
00:06:03 - Recognizing Infantile Spasms and Seeking Medical Help
00:11:37 - Advocacy for Infantile Spasms Awareness
00:15:54 - Challenges of Treatment and Advocacy
00:18:23 - Understanding the Impact of Epilepsy on Children
00:20:24 - Filling the Gap in Pediatric Epilepsy Resources
00:23:34 - Coping with EEG and Treatment
00:25:21 - Empowering Children through Understanding
00:29:30 - Resources for Children with Epilepsy
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