Prader-Willi Syndrome, Motherhood & Finding Community Through Advocacy [REPOST] (253)- Jessica's Story
Release Date: 05/07/2025
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info_outline📢 This is a special repost of one of our most heartfelt and insightful episodes. Whether this is your first time hearing Jessica’s story or a revisit, her perspective as a mom of a child with Prader-Willi Syndrome will stick with you. This month is also Prader- Willi Syndrome awareness month.
What happens when a diagnosis changes everything you expected about motherhood? For Jessica Patay, it sparked a journey through fear, resilience, advocacy, and ultimately, the founding of an incredible nonprofit called We Are Brave Together.
In this deeply moving episode, Jessica opens up about:
✅ Her son’s diagnosis with Prader-Willi Syndrome and the earliest signs
✅ The challenges of hypotonia, feeding tubes, and navigating early interventions
✅ How her family balances safety, structure, and joy with a life-altering genetic condition
✅ The impact of anxiety and food-seeking behaviors in PWS
✅ The emotional toll of parenting a medically complex child—and why self-care is essential
✅ Her mission to connect moms through retreats, support groups, and honest conversations
Whether you're a parent of a child with a rare diagnosis, a caregiver, or a child life specialist, this episode offers comfort, validation, and powerful insight.
Timestamps & Key Topics
⏱️ [00:00] – Meet Jessica Patay & Her Family
A mom of three from California and founder of We Are Brave Together
⏱️ [04:00] – Ryan’s Birth and First Signs Something Wasn’t Right
From a quiet newborn to a NICU stay, and the challenges of a delayed diagnosis
⏱️ [08:00] – Diagnosis: Prader-Willi Syndrome
How a Google search and a persistent dad led to answers
⏱️ [10:00] – The Emotional Impact of Diagnosis
The grief, the fog, and how Jessica slowly found strength
⏱️ [14:00] – Life with Feeding Tubes and Early Interventions
Occupational, speech, and physical therapy in the early years
⏱️ [19:00] – Living with PWS: Hypotonia, Delayed Milestones, and Growth Hormone
Ryan’s journey to walking at age three and building muscle
⏱️ [20:00] – When Food Becomes a Medical Emergency
How the insatiable food drive in PWS shapes daily life—and safety plans
⏱️ [24:00] – Creating a Safe Home for Ryan
Locked kitchens, food schedules, and adapting to his needs as he grows
⏱️ [26:00] – Rethinking Success: What Matters Most
The shift from pushing academics to prioritizing happiness, safety, and stability
⏱️ [29:00] – Parenting Through Anxiety and Fatigue
How PWS affects mental health—and how Jessica copes with it all
⏱️ [32:00] – Self-Care Without Shame
Why letting go of perfection and choosing peace is essential
⏱️ [38:00] – Founding We Are Brave Together
Jessica’s mission to combat caregiver isolation through connection and retreats
⏱️ [42:00] – How to Get Involved
Join support groups, start a chapter, and access online resources
⏱️ [44:00] – What Ryan Has Taught Jessica
A beautiful reflection on motherhood, perspective, and being changed for the better
Resources & Links
🌐 Learn More: We Are Brave Together
📲 Follow Jessica on Instagram: @wearebravetogether
🎙️ Listen to Jessica’s Podcast: Brave Together with Jessica Patay
📘 Explore Support for PWS: Prader-Willi California Foundation
📱 Access Child Life Tools Anytime: SupportSpot App
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