Navigating Childhood Loss Through Storytelling (259)-B.R.'s Story
Release Date: 06/18/2025
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info_outlineThis episode is dedicated to Katie’s dear friend Joe, who recently passed away, leaving behind his wife and two young sons. Joe’s story reminds us to live in alignment with our purpose and to cherish the people we love.
In this heartfelt episode of the Child Life On Call podcast, Katie Taylor speaks with B.R. Duray, an author, filmmaker, and storyteller whose debut children's book, The Mood Swing, is rooted in his experience of losing his father at the age of 10. With it being Father’s Day this past weekend, this conversation takes on even deeper meaning.
B.R. shares how grief has shaped his creative life, the ways it resurfaces during important life moments, and how his book can help both children and adults find healing together. Whether you're a parent, a grieving adult, or a healthcare provider, this episode provides validation, comfort, and hope.
5 Key Takeaways from this Episode:
✅ Grief grants both pain and power
B.R. explains how losing his dad gave him heightened emotional sensitivity and a creative voice to express and process those feelings.
✅ Grief resurfaces in different stages of life
He shares how emotions from his childhood resurfaced 20 years later during his engagement, reinforcing that grief evolves with us.
✅ Reading about grief helps parents, too
Though The Mood Swing was written for children, it often evokes emotional responses from adults who find healing in its message.
✅ The Mood Swing originated as a film
The story began as a poem and animated concept, but eventually took form as a children’s book—and later inspired a short film.
✅ Parents can model healthy grief
Katie and B.R. discuss how parents showing emotions in front of children teaches them it’s safe to feel and process grief together.
📍Episode Highlights:
⏱️ [3:00] – Katie dedicates the episode to her late friend Joe and reflects on how his life reminds us to live with purpose.
⏱️ [4:00] – B.R. shares how his father’s death shaped his creativity and opened his heart to telling meaningful stories.
⏱️ [10:30] – Discussion around how grief reemerges during milestones like engagements and weddings.
⏱️ [16:30] – The story behind The Mood Swing, how it began as a movie concept, and why B.R. shifted to a book format for a deeper connection.
⏱️ [22:00] – B.R. reflects on the emotional reactions he’s received from adults who have read The Mood Swing and how grief connects us all.
⏱️ [24:00] – Katie and B.R. talk about the importance of parents being open with their grief in front of children to foster healthy emotional expression.
📘 About The Mood Swing
The Mood Swing follows Peter, a young boy navigating the highs and lows of emotion on a magical swing that helps him find balance through physical sensation and presence. Inspired by B.R.'s childhood grief, the book supports kids through big emotions without directly referencing death—making it a versatile tool for many types of emotional challenges.
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Visit moodswing-media.com – View the book trailer, film, or donate a copy
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