Eight or so Christmas Coaching Questions

What might become possible if you gave yourself space to pause, reflect, and listen this Christmas?

This episode feels like a quiet exhale at the end of a full year. As we sat together, we wanted to offer something gentle, playful, and meaningful. Something that could be shared around a Christmas table, or held privately in moments of stillness during the festive period.

We recorded this episode with the intention of creating connection. Connection with ourselves, with the people we love, and with the parts of us that have carried a lot this year. Rather than small talk, we wanted to invite deeper conversation and reflection. The kind that nourishes rather than drains.

Throughout the episode, we read out eight Christmas inspired coaching questions. Each one is designed to open up reflection around rest, gratitude, celebration, self awareness, and letting go. As we shared the questions, we noticed how they landed in our own bodies. Some felt soothing. Others felt stretching. A few made us pause because we did not immediately know the answer, which often tells us there is something important waiting there.

We also held in mind that Christmas can be complex. Not everyone experiences it as joyful or full of people. These questions are offered with compassion, whether you are surrounded by family, working through the festive period, or spending time quietly on your own. Coaching questions can be powerful companions, especially when the rest of the world slows down.

This episode is shorter by design. It is not about teaching or fixing. It is about offering reflective prompts you can return to, share, or sit with over the holiday season and beyond.

 

Coaching Questions and Reflections

1. What part of you deserves to rest and be replenished this holiday season?
This question invites permission. Permission to notice where you are tired and to honour that need for rest without guilt. It encourages listening to your body, emotions, or energy rather than pushing through.

2. If you could wrap up this year as a gift, what would be inside?
A playful question that opens reflection on what the year has truly held for you. Lessons, moments, relationships, challenges, or growth may all feature, often alongside a sense of meaning that only becomes clear in hindsight.

3. Whose light has helped guide you this year, and how might you thank them?
This question centres gratitude and relational awareness. It often leads to naming people who have made a difference, sometimes those sitting in the same room, and recognising that being seen and acknowledged can be a profound gift.

4. Imagine you are at Christmas next year. What are you celebrating, and why?
An invitation to look forward with intention. This question shifts focus from only big achievements to the quieter milestones such as calmer relationships, self connection, or emotional resilience.

5. What truth about yourself have you quietly met this year, and how will you honour it going forwards?
One of the deeper questions. It encourages honesty and self respect, particularly around insights you may have noticed but not yet fully acknowledged or acted upon.

6. If you could hear the quiet wisdom of your future self this Christmas, what would they thank you for doing now?
This question draws on future focused reflection. It helps surface choices, boundaries, or actions that your future self may already be grateful for.

7. If you could gift somebody a belief or mindset shift this Christmas, what would that gift be?
Rooted in compassion, this question explores how we see others, often revealing care, understanding, and a wish for people to be kinder to themselves.

8. If you could leave something under the tree or send something back this year, what would it be?
A powerful letting go question. It invites reflection on beliefs, habits, or emotional weight that no longer needs to be carried into the year ahead.

 

Timestamps:

00:00 Welcome and setting the intention for Christmas reflection
00:30 Why meaningful conversation matters at this time of year
01:00 Question one on rest and replenishment
01:19 Question two on wrapping up the year as a gift
01:52 Question three on gratitude and guiding lights
02:22 Question four on celebrating next Christmas
03:28 Question five on meeting personal truths
05:17 Question six on future self wisdom
05:57 Question seven on gifting a mindset
07:40 Question eight on letting go and leaving things behind
08:10 Closing reflections and festive gratitude

 

Links and Resources:

www.igcompany.com/ilmcall
www.mycoachingcourse.com 

 

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