#149. Why Co-Parenting Stress Hits Dads Harder During the Holidays And What To Do About It
Dad Central: A Parenting Podcast To Reduce Stress & Build Confidence In Fatherhood
Release Date: 12/08/2025
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info_outlineAre the holidays feeling more stressful than joyful since your separation or divorce?
If you’re a dad navigating co-parenting during the holidays, you’re not alone and you’re not imagining how intense it feels. From juggling schedules to managing emotional expectations (yours and your kids’), the season can feel overwhelming. This episode identifies the real challenges dads face and why the pressure hits differently for fathers.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
- How to spot hidden stress triggers unique to co-parenting dads during the holidays
- Why proactive communication isn't just helpful, but is essential to your kids’ emotional health
- Practical, real-world strategies to create child-centered holiday plans (without losing your mind or your traditions)
Listen now to learn how to reduce holiday stress, improve co-parenting collaboration, and create meaningful memories your kids will cherish.
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Timestamps
00:00:00 — Picture-perfect holidays vs. reality; letting kids feel at peace
00:00:40 — The unique stresses of co-parenting during the holidays
00:02:14 — Initial thoughts: Challenges and opportunities in holiday co-parenting
00:03:37 — Understanding holiday stressors specific to co-parenting
00:05:02 — The importance of proactive communication
00:07:28 — Creating a child-centered holiday plan
00:11:04 — Tips for discussing and handling holiday schedules and emotions
00:12:31 — Strengthening your relationship with your kids during the holidays
00:14:50 — Key takeaways: planning, communicating, and keeping the child’s needs central
00:15:50 — Recommended resource for separated/divorced fathers
00:16:06 — Closing remarks and reminders for dads
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