96: Grief and Grace: A Feminine Transmission on Loss, Cycles & Letting Go
Release Date: 04/06/2026
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info_outlineThis is a transmission originally shared inside Charli’s Circle, now released more widely following a recent live conversation.
Grief and Grace explores grief through a feminine lens… not as something to fix or move through quickly, but as a cyclical, embodied experience that asks to be honoured.
Shared in the midst of personal loss, this transmission speaks to the weight of grief… and the quiet intelligence within it.
🌿 In this episode, we explore:
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Grief as “making heavy”—the embodied experience in the body
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The cyclical nature of grief, reflected in seasons, moon phases, and the feminine body
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The cultural conditioning that encourages suppression (“keep going”, “hold it together”)
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Trauma looping and the cost of unexpressed emotion
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Grief as a universal experience: personal, collective, and global
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The connection between grief and the metal element (Chinese medicine), lungs, and letting go
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The importance of honouring the “winter phase” or dark descent
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The relationship between grief, renewal, and quiet rebirth
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The myth of Demeter and Persephone as a mirror for loss and return
🌿 This work & the retreats
The themes explored in this transmission are deeply woven into Charli’s retreat spaces.
Within Wild Awakening Retreats, women are supported to:
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Safely feel and process emotion held in the body
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Move beyond suppression and disconnection
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Honour their own cycles, including grief, rest, and descent
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Be witnessed in their truth without judgement or fixing
These spaces are not about bypassing pain…but about meeting it with presence, capacity, and support.
🌿 Continue the journey
If this transmission resonates, you may wish to explore:
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Wild Awakening Retreats (Crete, Spain, Norfolk)
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The Circle⭕Charli’s online space for ongoing support, teachings, and shared experience
🌿 Reflection
As you listen, you might gently consider:
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What have I been taught about grief?
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Where do I suppress or avoid feeling?
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What would it feel like to allow the weight… without rushing it away?
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