3623 A Reflection of What Is and What's to Come
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As the final week of the year dawns upon us, it serves as a poignant reminder to pause and reflect on the journey we have experienced. Rest and recharge for a reflection of what is and what's to come. Just as the old year fades into the horizon, the new year beckons, brimming with endless possibilities and promises. It is a time to recharge our souls, reconnect with who we are and who we are becoming, and renew our commitment to the path that lies ahead. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, it is easy...
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3622 Embrace the True Gift
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As we gather around in the warmth of the Christmas lights and the joy of the season, it's important to pause and remember the real reason for this season: embrace the true gift – the birth of Jesus Christ. In the midst of the shopping frenzy and holiday chaos, let us take a moment to reflect on the profound miracle of the Incarnation and the fulfillment of God's promise to send a Savior into the world. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . In the Gospel accounts of the Nativity in Matthew 1:18-25 and Luke 2:1-20, we are reminded of the humble...
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3621 Lift Your Voice
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Imagine if you spread the good news. How would that change your life? Because nowadays, it's easier to let the CRAP of life and the negative rise to the top. Make an impact today and lift your voice. Today is Christmas Eve! Amidst the final touches and rushes of people grabbing last-minute dinner ingredients and gifts, let's take a moment to reflect on the power of your voice and the impact it can have on the world around you. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . Where negativity often takes center stage, it's important to remember the...
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3620 Cheers to the Holiday Stress with Less Mess
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As the Christmas countdown intensifies and the holiday chaos looms near, finding inner peace amidst the festive frenzy becomes a precious gift you can give yourself; cheers to the holiday stress with less mess. Imagine what it would be like to approach the holidays with the reason for the season followed by your purpose and passion of the heart. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . How would you feel if. you could enjoy the calm of a peaceful and joyful season with all the chaos that swirls around you. You would have thought a snownado,...
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3619 Love Came Down
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With the tunes of the cheerful carols moderately playing in the background, it's all too easy to lose sight of the significance of Christmas. Beyond the gifts and decorations, a story of how love came down was born. In the hustle and bustle of the holiday season, amidst the twinkling lights and cheerful carols, it's all too easy to lose sight of the profound significance of Christmas. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . This love came down from heaven as a tiny baby, born in a humble manger over two thousand years ago. John 3:16-17 captures...
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3618 Twas the Night Before Christmas
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Twas the night before Christmas, as the hustle and bustle take center stage, it's easy for couples to get swept away in the chaos. Don't let who matters most to you fade; keep the spark alive in every way. While it's tempting to focus on checking off our 'Santa Claus list,' it's crucial to carve out moments for togetherness and connection. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . In the spirit of fostering that connection, think outside the holiday norm. The K.I.S.S. ~ Think outside the holiday norm! Here are some creative ideas for couples to...
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3617 It's Good to be Scared!
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As we turn the page to Christmas day, parents often face challenges that test their patience, resilience, and hope; the holiday that really means stress and anxiety for many. But what if you knew that it's good to be scared? Embracing fear can open up your heart to see more than what you think you see in the moment. It pushes and pulls you in all different directions. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . In the rollercoaster journey of parenthood, there are moments that strike fear into the hearts of even the most seasoned moms and dads. It's...
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3616 Embrace the Magic of the Season
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As the holiday season sweeps in with its flurry of activities and demands, it's easy to get caught up in the chaos and lose sight of what truly matters. Make this holiday different; embrace the magic of the season. Now I get how the pressure to create the perfect holiday experience can often lead to stress and overwhelm, leaving you feeling drained and disconnected from the magic of the season. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . However, amidst the hustle and bustle, there is an opportunity to pause, reflect, and redefine your approach to...
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3615 Dashing Through the Snow
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As the frosty winds of winter draw near, it's time to bundle up, brace ourselves, and embrace the transformative power of cold. You might want to be all snuggly and warm, but you should be dashing through the snow. I get it. The holiday season may be synonymous with cozy fires, warm blankets, and hot cocoa, but perhaps it's time to shift our perspective and see the beauty in the chill of winter. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . From invigorating our minds to revitalizing our bodies and uplifting our spirits, the cold has much to offer...
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3614 Becoming
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Just because the world is filled with challenges and uncertainties, it doesn't mean that you have to let yourself be who you are not. Don't lose sight of who you are and who you are becoming! Resilience is not just about bouncing back from setbacks; it's about embracing them as stepping stones toward growth and self-discovery. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . Life's games may not always be easy, but it is through facing these challenges head-on that we truly discover our inner strength and capacity for resilience. Dedication is the fuel...
info_outlineAs the years pass for married couples, a subtle yet highly impactful dynamic often emerges--the issue of keeping score. While you might say 'sorry,' a whisper screams loudly in your head, "Sorry, not sorry."
But what toll does this subtle scoreboard mentality take on a relationship?
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And how can we shift this paradigm to foster growth and authentic connection within our unions?
How do you say you're sorry?
"Sorry is not just a word; it's an action!" ~ Kristianne Wargo
The K.I.S.S. ~ Make 'sorry' an action!
Here are three vital steps a spouse can take to truly understand the essence of saying sorry, and to align actions with intentions:
1. Embrace Vulnerability: Rather than viewing apologies as a sign of weakness or surrender, consider them as the ultimate display of vulnerability and strength within a relationship.
"Apologies pave the way for genuine communication and connection between spouses." ~ Kristianne Wargo
For instance, when addressing a past mistake, instead of offering a generic apology, delve deeper into the emotions behind the action. By articulating feelings and acknowledging their impact on your partner, you can lay the foundation for authentic reconciliation.
2. Practice Active Listening: Apologies lose their efficacy when NOT accompanied by active listening. Mirroring your partner's sentiments and validating their feelings can transform a superficial apology into a meaningful exchange.
"Listening is the bridge that connects two hearts." ~ Kristianne Wargo
Take the time to sincerely listen to your partner's perspective without interruptions or defensiveness. By demonstrating empathy and understanding, you can enhance the healing power of your apology and establish a mutual sense of respect within the relationship.
3. Cultivate Forgiveness: True apologies and forgiveness are intertwined in the intricate tapestry of relationships.
In the context of marital conflicts, forgiveness plays a pivotal role in moving beyond grievances and building a foundation of trust. By actively practicing forgiveness, both spouses can liberate themselves from the shackles of resentment and foster a climate of empathy and grace in their relationship.
"Forgiveness is not a one-time act, but a continuous choice to release resentment, embrace reconciliation, and build trust." ~ Kristianne Wargo
The art of saying sorry transcends mere words; it embodies a profound commitment to vulnerability, empathy, and forgiveness. By embracing these principles in our interactions with our spouses, we get to escape the confines of keeping score and cultivate a marriage grounded in mutual understanding and growth.
"Authentic apologies are not merely spoken – they are felt, understood, and lived well."
Strive to embody the essence of real apologies in your marriage, where saying sorry is not a mere phrase but a heartfelt expression of love and respect.
"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"
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Music by Mandisa - Overcomer
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Song Title: Overcomer
Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia
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