3534 More Than 'I Do'
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Marriage is often perceived as a partnership built on love, support, and shared experiences. But because life happens, it's easy to forget that there are two people in the marriage, more than 'I do.' Yet, amidst the whirlwind of daily routines and responsibilities, it's easy to fall into the trap of assuming that taking care of one's spouse means taking charge of every situation. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . The person who believes they are looking out for their partner by constantly stepping in may unknowingly be creating barriers to...
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3533 Are Your Emotions Victorious?
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Parenting is a whirlwind of responsibilities, celebrations, and challenges that can leave even the most dedicated and loving parent feeling emotionally drained and overwhelmed. Are your emotions victorious? As you strive to meet the needs of your children, manage household tasks, and keep up with life's demands, it's easy to feel like you're constantly treading water, struggling to stay afloat amidst a sea of never-ending obligations. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . The pressure to be everything to everyone can take a toll on your...
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3532 Never Settle!
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Why do we have to rise and shine, only to get our dreams shut down by all the responsibilities and the never-ending to-do lists? Maybe it's time to take a different approach in life. Never settle! You were created for more: to shine more, to share more, to snuggle more, to savor more. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . You were created on purpose for a purpose. But how much do you really believe that? How much do you think what you say to yourself is transferred through your actions? "What you think about you bring about." ~ Bob Proctor So,...
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3531 Beyond the Ordinary
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In a world saturated with shortcuts and society's norms, the journey to optimal health and well-being can often feel like a solitary pursuit. So go beyond the ordinary and embrace your extraordinary. This is all about elevating your wellness. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . But unfortunately, the allure of convenience and comfort can overshadow the dedication required to prioritize one's holistic wellness. What if you looked at your well-being from a different perspective? While the easy path may seem inviting, what if you dared to...
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3530 Expand Your Horizon
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In a world filled with routines, predictability, and comfort zones, it's easy to settle into a fixed perspective, both professionally and personally. Drop the boring and expand your horizon. We often find serenity in the familiar, sticking to what we know and the paths we've walked a hundred times before. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . But what if there's a whole world of possibilities waiting just beyond our current horizon? What do your eyes see right now? Do you see the impossible becoming possible? Or are you stuck in the mindset...
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3529 Fuel Your Dreams with Emotional Resilience
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You can have all the knowledge in the world and be connected to everyone and anyone, but if you don't believe in yourself, you will not go far. Therefore, fuel your dreams with emotional resilience. As you navigate through life with aspirations and ambitions, it becomes crucial to manage your emotions and feelings effectively. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . These internal factors can either fuel your journey towards success or become obstacles that hinder your progress. If you allow your emotions to overpower your rational thinking, your...
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3528 Faith Produces Perseverance
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Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. ~ James 1:2-3 Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. ~ James 1:4 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . This verse encourages believers to find joy in the midst of trials and challenges, recognizing that these difficulties can strengthen their faith and character, leading to maturity and wholeness. It emphasizes the importance of...
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3527 Find Freedom in Forgiveness
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In the hustle and bustle of daily life, it's all too easy to fall into the trap of keeping score in our relationships, especially in marriage. But what if, instead of keeping score, you choose to find freedom in forgiveness? As you know, it's all too easy to find ourselves mentally tallying up who did the dishes last, who took out the trash, who planned the last date night, or whose turn it is to get the kiddos ready for bed. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . What if you let go of the need to constantly measure your spouse's actions...
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3526 How to Nurture Parent-Child Connections
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Expressing love to our children is a constant balancing act. Even as hard as parents try, love can get lost in the message if parents don't learn how to nurture parent-child connections. As you know, parenting is an intricate dance. Just as each child is unique, so too are the ways they give and receive love. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . While parents may pour their hearts into demonstrating affection, sometimes it's not received well, if at all. This can lead to misunderstandings, miscommunications, and, ultimately, a disconnect in...
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3525 You Can Do This!
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Sometimes, we just need to hear, "You can do this!" Because when life comes at you with spirals and spikes, you have to know that you will not only survive, but you will thrive. What do you do when you're thrown off balance? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . Just when we think we have it all figured out, the unexpected happens, and suddenly we're left feeling lost and overwhelmed. It's during these challenging moments that you need to remind yourself of a simple but powerful truth: You can do this! In the face of adversity, it's easy...
info_outlineIn the hustle and bustle of daily life, it's all too easy to fall into the trap of keeping score in our relationships, especially in marriage. But what if, instead of keeping score, you choose to find freedom in forgiveness?
As you know, it's all too easy to find ourselves mentally tallying up who did the dishes last, who took out the trash, who planned the last date night, or whose turn it is to get the kiddos ready for bed.
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What if you let go of the need to constantly measure your spouse's actions against your own and instead focus on fostering a deeper, more loving connection?
How would that make you feel?
You know I'm all about a good football game. But in this case, the score of your game needs to remain zero to zero.
Let me ask you-- What is the score?
If you have to think twice, you are keeping score.
In marriage, give 'n take is all a part of unconditional love. But once you allow yourself to keep score and lean more toward what's not happening, you know that maybe the game is a little more serious than you thought.
So, how do you keep score to not keep score?
You must connect to the heart, not the scoreboard.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Connect to the heart!
Now, understand that words and actions have power. Yet, if everything is done because one of you wants the "win," you are married for the wrong reasons. You don't see the person you are sleeping with.
1. Practice Empathy and Understanding
One of the most powerful ways to let go of scorekeeping in a marriage is to practice empathy and understanding. Put yourself in your partner's shoes, try to see things from their perspective, and approach disagreements with compassion. When you let go of the need to be right (that "win") and instead seek to understand, you create a foundation of trust and emotional intimacy.
For example, instead of getting upset when your partner forgets to do something you asked, take a moment to consider what might be going on in their world that led to the oversight. By approaching the situation with empathy, you open the door to forgiveness and deeper connection.
"In the game of love, the score that truly matters is the one where both partners feel seen, heard, and loved." ~ Kristianne Wargo
2. Communicate Openly and Honestly
Another key to breaking free from the cycle of scorekeeping is open and honest communication, not demands or hints of "this is right." Create a safe space for both you and your partner to express your thoughts, feelings, and needs without fear of judgment. By fostering a culture of open communication, you can address issues as they arise instead of letting them fester and lead to resentment.
For instance, if you feel like your partner isn't pulling their weight in certain aspects of the relationship, have a candid conversation about your expectations and how you can support each other better. By communicating openly, you pave the way for understanding and forgiveness to flourish.
"True love thrives in the vulnerability of honest communication." ~ Kristianne Wargo
3. Cultivate Gratitude and Appreciation
Lastly, to shift away from keeping score and moving toward a more loving and forgiving mindset, cultivate a practice of gratitude and appreciation. Take time each day to reflect on the qualities and actions of your partner that you are grateful for. Show appreciation for the little things they do, whether it's making you a cup of coffee in the morning or leaving a sweet note on your desk. By focusing on the positive aspects of your relationship and expressing gratitude regularly, you create a sense of mutual respect and admiration that transcends petty grievances.
For example, make it a habit to express gratitude to your partner for their contributions to your shared life, no matter how small. Remember, you're in this together. And this will help you both feel valued and loved, strengthening your bond and fostering forgiveness.
"In the dance of marriage, gratitude is the music that keeps the rhythm of love alive." ~ Kristianne Wargo
In marriage, finding freedom in forgiveness requires a shift in mindset from keeping score to embracing empathy, communication, and gratitude.
By letting go of the need to tally up perceived slights and instead choosing to forgive and love unconditionally, you, as a couple, can deepen your connection and create a relationship rooted in understanding and compassion.
As you navigate the challenges of everyday life with your spouse, remember that the true victory lies not in winning imaginary competitions but in building a foundation of love that transcends scorekeeping and flourishes in forgiveness.
"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"
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