3921 A Sacred Stillness
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Christmas Eve. For many, it’s the crescendo of the holiday whirlwind—the last-minute preparations, wrapping, cooking, and hosting. But it doesn’t have to be that way, not when you have a sacred stillness. Amid the busyness, Christmas Eve offers a sacred invitation: to pause, to be still, to receive rest and renewal. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Psalm 46:10 reminds us, “Be still, and know that I am God.” At what point are you going to release your anxious grip on the season’s frenzy and rest in something bigger? Think about...
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3920 Find Joy When Life Feels Messy
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Christmas Eve is nearly here, and for many of us, the holiday season carries a mixed bag of emotions. The bright lights and festive songs promise joy, but behind the scenes, life might feel messy, exhausting, and overwhelming. When weariness weighs down your mind, body, and spirit, it’s natural to default to the easiest option—often kind of numb survival that distances you from what really matters. Yet, you can still find joy when life feels messy. You get out of life what you put into it. When you choose to lean into the beauty amid the chaos, you reclaim the heart of Christmas—the...
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3919 How to See Straight When the World is Spinning
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The holiday season should bring joy and meaning. Yet, all too often, it feels like the world is spinning faster than ever. Sometimes it's hard knowing how to see straight when the world is spinning. That's where the pressures are mounting, events piling up, and endless distractions keep pulling your attention every which way. A spinning top is a real thing, even if you don't want to admit it. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . When everything around you is out of control, how do you stay grounded in what matters? How do you still make an...
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3918 Love—The Greatest Gift
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Love is the word that’s everywhere at Christmas, wrapped in songs and shiny cards, but too often it feels like a hollow echo. What if this love isn’t just a sweet feeling or a seasonal mood? What if real love is the boldest, most demanding choice you make—one that shakes your world and changes everything? Get ready to feel that kind of love, the kind that moves, sacrifices, and breaks every boundary in its path; love—the greatest gift. John 3:16 says, "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting...
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3917 Falling In Love All Over Again
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The holidays can be a spinning mess. One moment, you’re sipping hot cocoa, planning festive fun, and feeling optimistic that everything will go smoothly. Next, you’re in the middle of a heated argument, wondering how two people who share the same space can feel so disconnected. It’s this familiar trap amidst the chaos of Christmas where it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters. For couples, remembering the real meaning of the season is more than a challenge; it’s a chance for renewal and falling in love all over again. Christmas often brings out the best and the worst in...
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3916 It's the Christmas Countdown!
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With the complexities of the holidays, families are caught in the whirlwind of the kids bursting with excitement, the house in a constant uproar, and the clock that keeps ticking down. It's the Christmas countdown! So don't lose sight of the heart of the season. Now, if we do, the heart of the season will get shoved aside because you're too busy. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Christmas demands your attention; it deserves your family’s focus. And the good news? You don’t need elaborate plans or perfect Instagram- or Facebook-worthy...
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3915 Oh, Sugar Cookies—Presence over Presents!
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The holidays have a way of whipping us into a frenzy. Heartbeat racing, lists in hand, and Google tabs open on every store from here to the North Pole, chasing that ONE perfect gift. The one that will say, “You matter,” “I love you,” and “This year will be the best ever.” Only to find it’s backordered, out of stock, or mysteriously vanished from every website. Oh, sugar cookies—presence over presents! We scramble to fix what feels broken but miss what’s already whole. The real gift this holiday season isn’t wrapped and tied with a bow. It’s your presence. Desire to be...
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3914 Create Mental Peace in the Holiday Chaos
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The holidays don’t just exhaust your body—they can wreck your mind if you don’t fight back. Between rushed shopping, noisy family gatherings, and relentless pressure, stress hits an all-time high. Peace isn’t something someone else can give you. You have to claim it on purpose. Time to create mental peace in the holiday chaos. Waiting for calm to “show up” or hoping a perfect season will magically fix your frazzle? That’s wishful thinking. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Protecting your mental and emotional well-being is your...
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3913 Hope in the Hustle
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December screams at us with a million demands—end-of-year wrap-ups, gift lists that stretch forever, parties, commitments, and the constant pressure to “do it all.” The noise is deafening. It’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters. But life isn’t about doing all the things—it’s about doing what’s worth doing; hope in the hustle. At some point, you have to step back and be okay with simply feeling the spirit of Christmas. That feeling—quiet, humble, and real—deserves the front seat in a season that so often feels chaotic. It’s what holds the true meaning of the...
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3912 Trim Your Thoughts, Not the Tree
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When you think about the holidays, it’s usually the thoughts that strangle the hope of the season. At some point, you have to figure out how to cut through the noise, silence the chaos, and turn up the volume of “I can.” But you know that takes commitment. Trim your thoughts, not the tree. Here’s the thing: It’s not the physical decorations or the packed schedules weighing you down. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . It’s the clutter in your mind—the relentless swirl of worries, doubts, and negative self-talk that steals your joy...
info_outlineRaising kids with kind hearts filled with gratitude feels like an uphill battle these days. It’s no secret that screens dominate their attention—heads buried in phones and tablets, tuning out the world around them. But it doesn't have to be this way.
If we let kids do what they want with technology, many will struggle to grasp what it really means to be kind, respectful, and thankful.
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And here’s the tougher truth: parents aren’t always present either, caught up in their own whirlwind.
If both sides are disconnected, how do we break the cycle?
How do parents show up fully as role models, living kindness and gratitude instead of just preaching it?
The K.I.S.S. ~ Model what you want to pass on!
Here are three actions every parent can make to be truly present and set a powerful example.
1. Ditch Distractions – Commit to Screen-Free Moments
If kids see you glued to your phone or laptop, scrolling mindlessly, it sends the message that real connection is optional. The first step is radical honesty: identify the pockets of time where you can switch off technology—no notifications, no sneaky checks. Dinner time, bedtime stories, or even a 15-minute walk are golden opportunities. These moments show your child that they have your full attention. Presence breeds connection, and connection is the foundation of teaching kindness and gratitude.
2. Practice Open, Intentional Conversations
Being present means more than physically being in the room. It means engaging with your child on a real level. Ask questions that require more than “yes” or “no.” Listen actively, reflect their feelings, and share your own honestly. Show them it’s okay to express gratitude, not just as a polite word but as a genuine feeling. When you talk about your day’s frustrations or joys, model empathy and thankfulness. Kids learn how to communicate kindness by seeing it modeled, not just hearing it preached.
3. Choose Actions Over Words Every Day
Kindness and gratitude aren’t abstract concepts—they live in daily actions. You can role model these by doing small but intentional acts like saying “thank you” often, helping a neighbor, or admitting when you’re wrong. Invite your children to participate in these gestures. Whether it’s volunteering together or writing thank-you notes, these practical experiences stick with kids beyond any lecture. When parents prioritize kindness as a lifestyle, children catch on fast.
Parenting is a full-time, no-BS job. It’s tempting to justify distractions with the pressures of multiple work demands, but none of that counts if your kids don’t feel you. Your time is the most powerful currency you offer. Prioritize your children with purpose, raising more than just good kids—to raise people capable of changing the world around them with kindness and a grateful heart.
You alone decide what living legacy you leave with your presence. So get off autopilot. Show up. Speak up. Love intentionally. Your kids—and the world—need it more than ever.
"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"
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