3921 A Sacred Stillness
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Christmas Eve. For many, it’s the crescendo of the holiday whirlwind—the last-minute preparations, wrapping, cooking, and hosting. But it doesn’t have to be that way, not when you have a sacred stillness. Amid the busyness, Christmas Eve offers a sacred invitation: to pause, to be still, to receive rest and renewal. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Psalm 46:10 reminds us, “Be still, and know that I am God.” At what point are you going to release your anxious grip on the season’s frenzy and rest in something bigger? Think about...
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3920 Find Joy When Life Feels Messy
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Christmas Eve is nearly here, and for many of us, the holiday season carries a mixed bag of emotions. The bright lights and festive songs promise joy, but behind the scenes, life might feel messy, exhausting, and overwhelming. When weariness weighs down your mind, body, and spirit, it’s natural to default to the easiest option—often kind of numb survival that distances you from what really matters. Yet, you can still find joy when life feels messy. You get out of life what you put into it. When you choose to lean into the beauty amid the chaos, you reclaim the heart of Christmas—the...
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3919 How to See Straight When the World is Spinning
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The holiday season should bring joy and meaning. Yet, all too often, it feels like the world is spinning faster than ever. Sometimes it's hard knowing how to see straight when the world is spinning. That's where the pressures are mounting, events piling up, and endless distractions keep pulling your attention every which way. A spinning top is a real thing, even if you don't want to admit it. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . When everything around you is out of control, how do you stay grounded in what matters? How do you still make an...
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3918 Love—The Greatest Gift
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Love is the word that’s everywhere at Christmas, wrapped in songs and shiny cards, but too often it feels like a hollow echo. What if this love isn’t just a sweet feeling or a seasonal mood? What if real love is the boldest, most demanding choice you make—one that shakes your world and changes everything? Get ready to feel that kind of love, the kind that moves, sacrifices, and breaks every boundary in its path; love—the greatest gift. John 3:16 says, "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting...
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3917 Falling In Love All Over Again
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The holidays can be a spinning mess. One moment, you’re sipping hot cocoa, planning festive fun, and feeling optimistic that everything will go smoothly. Next, you’re in the middle of a heated argument, wondering how two people who share the same space can feel so disconnected. It’s this familiar trap amidst the chaos of Christmas where it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters. For couples, remembering the real meaning of the season is more than a challenge; it’s a chance for renewal and falling in love all over again. Christmas often brings out the best and the worst in...
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3916 It's the Christmas Countdown!
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With the complexities of the holidays, families are caught in the whirlwind of the kids bursting with excitement, the house in a constant uproar, and the clock that keeps ticking down. It's the Christmas countdown! So don't lose sight of the heart of the season. Now, if we do, the heart of the season will get shoved aside because you're too busy. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Christmas demands your attention; it deserves your family’s focus. And the good news? You don’t need elaborate plans or perfect Instagram- or Facebook-worthy...
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3915 Oh, Sugar Cookies—Presence over Presents!
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The holidays have a way of whipping us into a frenzy. Heartbeat racing, lists in hand, and Google tabs open on every store from here to the North Pole, chasing that ONE perfect gift. The one that will say, “You matter,” “I love you,” and “This year will be the best ever.” Only to find it’s backordered, out of stock, or mysteriously vanished from every website. Oh, sugar cookies—presence over presents! We scramble to fix what feels broken but miss what’s already whole. The real gift this holiday season isn’t wrapped and tied with a bow. It’s your presence. Desire to be...
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3914 Create Mental Peace in the Holiday Chaos
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The holidays don’t just exhaust your body—they can wreck your mind if you don’t fight back. Between rushed shopping, noisy family gatherings, and relentless pressure, stress hits an all-time high. Peace isn’t something someone else can give you. You have to claim it on purpose. Time to create mental peace in the holiday chaos. Waiting for calm to “show up” or hoping a perfect season will magically fix your frazzle? That’s wishful thinking. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Protecting your mental and emotional well-being is your...
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3913 Hope in the Hustle
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December screams at us with a million demands—end-of-year wrap-ups, gift lists that stretch forever, parties, commitments, and the constant pressure to “do it all.” The noise is deafening. It’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters. But life isn’t about doing all the things—it’s about doing what’s worth doing; hope in the hustle. At some point, you have to step back and be okay with simply feeling the spirit of Christmas. That feeling—quiet, humble, and real—deserves the front seat in a season that so often feels chaotic. It’s what holds the true meaning of the...
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3912 Trim Your Thoughts, Not the Tree
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When you think about the holidays, it’s usually the thoughts that strangle the hope of the season. At some point, you have to figure out how to cut through the noise, silence the chaos, and turn up the volume of “I can.” But you know that takes commitment. Trim your thoughts, not the tree. Here’s the thing: It’s not the physical decorations or the packed schedules weighing you down. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . It’s the clutter in your mind—the relentless swirl of worries, doubts, and negative self-talk that steals your joy...
info_outlineThe holidays can be a spinning mess. One moment, you’re sipping hot cocoa, planning festive fun, and feeling optimistic that everything will go smoothly. Next, you’re in the middle of a heated argument, wondering how two people who share the same space can feel so disconnected. It’s this familiar trap amidst the chaos of Christmas where it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters. For couples, remembering the real meaning of the season is more than a challenge; it’s a chance for renewal and falling in love all over again.
Christmas often brings out the best and the worst in relationships. It’s a mirror reflecting both your deepest hopes and your rawest frustrations.
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The pressure to “make it perfect” can trigger disappointments, and the pile-up of tasks leaves little room for patience. Add busy family schedules, travel stress, and well-meaning but intrusive advice from relatives, and it’s no surprise couples sometimes reach their breaking point.
But it doesn’t have to be that way.
Christmas is more than gifts and glitter; it’s an opportunity to root your marriage in grace and a deeper love that withstands storms. It’s a chance to reboot your connection—to fall in love all over again by focusing on what really counts: kindness, presence, and intentionality.
Love isn’t found in grand gestures alone. It’s found in the small, daily choices to be kind, to listen, and to nurture one another. It’s about making the space to truly see your partner beneath the noise of the holidays. When couples remember this, the season shifts from a source of stress to a wellspring of hope.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Shift your season by connecting!
Here’s how you can deepen your connection during this busy season—and beyond.
1. Choose Grace Over Grievance
“The Lord is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love.” —Psalm 103:8
In the frenzy of the holidays, imperfections become magnified.
- Your partner forgets to pick up a gift
- Tension mounts over family logistics
- Frustration bubbles under the surface
But falling in love again starts with choosing grace instead of grudges.
Remember, grace isn’t ignoring problems; it’s opening space for healing. When tempers flare, pause and breathe. Instead of escalating conflict, say to yourself: “I’m choosing love over being right.”
An original truth to hold on to: Love grows when we give it the room to breathe, not the weight to suffocate.
Extend forgiveness freely—because holding on to small hurts only sinks the connection.
2. Create Meaningful Moments Amid the Madness
“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.” —Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
Connection isn’t just about big displays; it’s built on small actions. Whether wrapped up in holiday errands or catching the end of a Christmas movie, these little moments create “sticky” bonds that glue hearts together.
Think beyond gifts:
- Share a quiet walk after decorating
- Cook a meal together
- Write down what you appreciate about each other.
These acts signal, “You matter to me,” stronger than the most expensive present.
As I often say, “Life gets messy, but love is built in the moments you’re both fully present—even if it’s just for five minutes.”
Seek those pockets of genuine connection every day.
3. Speak Words That Nurture and Build
“Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.” —Proverbs 16:24
Words carry enormous power in relationships, especially during stressful seasons. It’s easy to default to criticism or complaints. But what if you flipped the script? What if your words became the bridge, not the wedge?
Make a habit of sincere compliments, encouragement, and affirmations. Tell your partner what you love about them, what you notice they do, and how they make your life better. Speak life into your marriage.
“Your voice can either deepen love or drain it—choose to speak as if your words water a garden.” ~ Kristianne Wargo
"Whether you’re together in the same room or miles apart this Christmas, opportunities to love are woven into your daily actions." ~ Kristianne Wargo
Those connections, small yet profound, make life sticky. And a sticky marriage is one that lasts.
So this season, leave behind the holiday chaos as an excuse. Instead, let Christmas be the season you fall in love all over again—rooting your marriage not in perfection, but in grace, presence, and heartfelt words. That’s the best kind of gift there is.
"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"
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