3921 A Sacred Stillness
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Christmas Eve. For many, it’s the crescendo of the holiday whirlwind—the last-minute preparations, wrapping, cooking, and hosting. But it doesn’t have to be that way, not when you have a sacred stillness. Amid the busyness, Christmas Eve offers a sacred invitation: to pause, to be still, to receive rest and renewal. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Psalm 46:10 reminds us, “Be still, and know that I am God.” At what point are you going to release your anxious grip on the season’s frenzy and rest in something bigger? Think about...
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3920 Find Joy When Life Feels Messy
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Christmas Eve is nearly here, and for many of us, the holiday season carries a mixed bag of emotions. The bright lights and festive songs promise joy, but behind the scenes, life might feel messy, exhausting, and overwhelming. When weariness weighs down your mind, body, and spirit, it’s natural to default to the easiest option—often kind of numb survival that distances you from what really matters. Yet, you can still find joy when life feels messy. You get out of life what you put into it. When you choose to lean into the beauty amid the chaos, you reclaim the heart of Christmas—the...
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3919 How to See Straight When the World is Spinning
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The holiday season should bring joy and meaning. Yet, all too often, it feels like the world is spinning faster than ever. Sometimes it's hard knowing how to see straight when the world is spinning. That's where the pressures are mounting, events piling up, and endless distractions keep pulling your attention every which way. A spinning top is a real thing, even if you don't want to admit it. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . When everything around you is out of control, how do you stay grounded in what matters? How do you still make an...
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3918 Love—The Greatest Gift
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Love is the word that’s everywhere at Christmas, wrapped in songs and shiny cards, but too often it feels like a hollow echo. What if this love isn’t just a sweet feeling or a seasonal mood? What if real love is the boldest, most demanding choice you make—one that shakes your world and changes everything? Get ready to feel that kind of love, the kind that moves, sacrifices, and breaks every boundary in its path; love—the greatest gift. John 3:16 says, "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting...
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3917 Falling In Love All Over Again
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The holidays can be a spinning mess. One moment, you’re sipping hot cocoa, planning festive fun, and feeling optimistic that everything will go smoothly. Next, you’re in the middle of a heated argument, wondering how two people who share the same space can feel so disconnected. It’s this familiar trap amidst the chaos of Christmas where it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters. For couples, remembering the real meaning of the season is more than a challenge; it’s a chance for renewal and falling in love all over again. Christmas often brings out the best and the worst in...
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3916 It's the Christmas Countdown!
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With the complexities of the holidays, families are caught in the whirlwind of the kids bursting with excitement, the house in a constant uproar, and the clock that keeps ticking down. It's the Christmas countdown! So don't lose sight of the heart of the season. Now, if we do, the heart of the season will get shoved aside because you're too busy. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Christmas demands your attention; it deserves your family’s focus. And the good news? You don’t need elaborate plans or perfect Instagram- or Facebook-worthy...
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3915 Oh, Sugar Cookies—Presence over Presents!
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The holidays have a way of whipping us into a frenzy. Heartbeat racing, lists in hand, and Google tabs open on every store from here to the North Pole, chasing that ONE perfect gift. The one that will say, “You matter,” “I love you,” and “This year will be the best ever.” Only to find it’s backordered, out of stock, or mysteriously vanished from every website. Oh, sugar cookies—presence over presents! We scramble to fix what feels broken but miss what’s already whole. The real gift this holiday season isn’t wrapped and tied with a bow. It’s your presence. Desire to be...
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3914 Create Mental Peace in the Holiday Chaos
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The holidays don’t just exhaust your body—they can wreck your mind if you don’t fight back. Between rushed shopping, noisy family gatherings, and relentless pressure, stress hits an all-time high. Peace isn’t something someone else can give you. You have to claim it on purpose. Time to create mental peace in the holiday chaos. Waiting for calm to “show up” or hoping a perfect season will magically fix your frazzle? That’s wishful thinking. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Protecting your mental and emotional well-being is your...
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3913 Hope in the Hustle
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December screams at us with a million demands—end-of-year wrap-ups, gift lists that stretch forever, parties, commitments, and the constant pressure to “do it all.” The noise is deafening. It’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters. But life isn’t about doing all the things—it’s about doing what’s worth doing; hope in the hustle. At some point, you have to step back and be okay with simply feeling the spirit of Christmas. That feeling—quiet, humble, and real—deserves the front seat in a season that so often feels chaotic. It’s what holds the true meaning of the...
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3912 Trim Your Thoughts, Not the Tree
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When you think about the holidays, it’s usually the thoughts that strangle the hope of the season. At some point, you have to figure out how to cut through the noise, silence the chaos, and turn up the volume of “I can.” But you know that takes commitment. Trim your thoughts, not the tree. Here’s the thing: It’s not the physical decorations or the packed schedules weighing you down. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . It’s the clutter in your mind—the relentless swirl of worries, doubts, and negative self-talk that steals your joy...
info_outlineMarriage is no fairy tale without effort. It demands work, dedication, and a clear purpose to turn the ordinary into an extraordinary journey. When that effort wanes, couples find themselves facing the big ‘D’—divorce. No one wants that outcome. Yet, many walk down the aisle with hope for forever, only to get distracted by the temptation of greener grass elsewhere. But the problem is that they're digging for gold in the wrong places.
Picture this: It’s Black Friday, and everyone’s scouring the stores, hunting for the best deals, the quickest wins, the most immediate gratification. People elbow past one another looking for the flashiest bargain, only to realize that the shiny price tag wasn’t worth it.
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This frantic search mirrors what happens too often in marriage. When you dig for gold, hoping to find what suits your wants, you're likely unearthing unmet desires—not the true needs of your spouse.
Here’s the hard reality: When you focus your energy on what benefits you the most, the marriage suffers.
That kind of selfishness eclipses the bigger picture—the life you’re building together. You might be tending to your own needs, but if your care doesn’t shift to serve your spouse in their unique ways, you’re missing the point of digging for gold at all.
So how do you dig for the right gold—the kind that deposits value into your marriage account and lays a strong foundation for growth?
The K.I.S.S. ~ Dig for the right gold!
Here are three game-changing shifts to make:
1. Chase Needs, Not Wants
Your spouse’s true needs are the veins of gold worth mining. This might be emotional support, respect, time, or physical affection.
Wants are fleeting and surface-level—they shine for a moment but don’t last. When you prioritize their deeply rooted needs, you build trust and connection. Ask yourself: What do they need to feel valued, secure, and loved?
2. Focus on Giving, Not Taking
Black Friday shoppers hoard deals for themselves. Marriage demands the opposite mindset.
Serve your partner with intentionality, not through the lens of what you get back. This could be small daily acts—listening without interrupting, sharing the workload, or celebrating their wins. These deposits accumulate into a treasure chest of goodwill.
3. Align Your Goals for the Bigger Picture
You’re not two separate entities anymore. Your marriage is a shared venture, and its success depends on unified goals.
Set your sights on the long-term vision: building a life that reflects both your dreams, values, and commitments. Digging together in the same direction strengthens your foundation and protects against distractions.
When you commit to digging for gold with the right intention, it transforms everything. Instead of frantic digging for surface-level satisfaction, you develop a rhythm of deliberate, heartfelt effort that uncovers the true riches of marriage: connection, trust, and unwavering partnership.
So when the urge strikes to envy the grass on the other side or chase what’s easiest, remember the Black Friday crowd—it’s chaotic, selfish, and fleeting. Instead, dig deep, dig with purpose, and strike gold where it matters most—in your marriage.
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