3900 The Holiday Secret Nobody Tells You
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Release Date: 12/03/2025
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
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With the complexities of the holidays, families are caught in the whirlwind of the kids bursting with excitement, the house in a constant uproar, and the clock that keeps ticking down. It's the Christmas countdown! So don't lose sight of the heart of the season. Now, if we do, the heart of the season will get shoved aside because you're too busy. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Christmas demands your attention; it deserves your family’s focus. And the good news? You don’t need elaborate plans or perfect Instagram- or Facebook-worthy...
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The holidays have a way of whipping us into a frenzy. Heartbeat racing, lists in hand, and Google tabs open on every store from here to the North Pole, chasing that ONE perfect gift. The one that will say, “You matter,” “I love you,” and “This year will be the best ever.” Only to find it’s backordered, out of stock, or mysteriously vanished from every website. Oh, sugar cookies—presence over presents! We scramble to fix what feels broken but miss what’s already whole. The real gift this holiday season isn’t wrapped and tied with a bow. It’s your presence. Desire to be...
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The holidays don’t just exhaust your body—they can wreck your mind if you don’t fight back. Between rushed shopping, noisy family gatherings, and relentless pressure, stress hits an all-time high. Peace isn’t something someone else can give you. You have to claim it on purpose. Time to create mental peace in the holiday chaos. Waiting for calm to “show up” or hoping a perfect season will magically fix your frazzle? That’s wishful thinking. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Protecting your mental and emotional well-being is your...
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When you think about the holidays, it’s usually the thoughts that strangle the hope of the season. At some point, you have to figure out how to cut through the noise, silence the chaos, and turn up the volume of “I can.” But you know that takes commitment. Trim your thoughts, not the tree. Here’s the thing: It’s not the physical decorations or the packed schedules weighing you down. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . It’s the clutter in your mind—the relentless swirl of worries, doubts, and negative self-talk that steals your joy...
info_outlineWhy is it that this time of year, the calendar fills up and your energy disappears? December comes in like a whirlwind, dishes pile up, and suddenly you’re wondering when you signed up to be the world’s busiest elf. Seriously?!? If you’re like most people, your own wellness gets pushed way down on the list just because there’s too much to do. However, ignoring yourself this time of year is the fastest route to burning out before the big day even arrives. But there's the holiday secret nobody tells you.
Yet, if you’re anything like most people, you keep pushing harder, giving more, and telling yourself it’s worth it — even as you ignore the warning signs from your mind, body, and spirit.
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But here’s the brutal truth nobody wants to admit:
If you don’t care for yourself first, there won’t be anything left to give.
This isn’t just feel-good fluff. It’s a critical holiday survival strategy. Think of it like this: you cannot refill anyone else’s cup if yours is bone dry.
"Rest isn’t a luxury or a reward—it’s a divine directive." ~ Kristianne Wargo
The biblical invitation in Matthew 11:28 lays it bare: “Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”
Beyond faith or philosophy, this is science. Chronic stress, burnout, and exhaustion wreck your immune system, crush your joy, and hijack your ability to connect with the people you love. The holiday season isn’t just about getting through December—it’s about laying the foundation for your whole year ahead.
What you need to do is start now, and not wait until the new year. Resolutions come and go. But you have one mind, body, and spirit.
Reclaim your power this holiday season!
The K.I.S.S. ~ Reclaim your power!
This is all about what you have control over. You can't control the inventory for the gifts you want to buy. You can't control the attitudes of those around you. You can't control traffic. You can't control the weather.
BUT you can control yourself and choose to reclaim your power this holiday season to make it enjoyable from a healthy point of view.
Here are the three most essential ways:
1. Prioritize Rest Like Your Life Depends On It
Put rest on your calendar with the same urgency as your meetings. Sleep, pause, and deep breathing aren’t optional—they’re your survival tools. Even a 10-minute mindful break can reset a stressed-out mind and body.
Say no to non-essential plans that drain you and yes to moments that restore you.
2. Nourish Your Body with Purpose, Not Guilt
Forget crash diets or “detoxes” after the fact. Fuel yourself with whole foods that energize. Skip empty calories disguised as “holiday treats” and give your body real nutrients instead. Hydrate like it’s your job and notice how much more vibrant you feel.
Your body should serve your goals, not sabotage them.
3. Create Space for Joy and Connection, Not Obligation
You don’t have to do all the things or please everyone. Cut out the noise and focus on moments that bring real joy—whether that’s a quiet cup of tea, a walk outside, or meaningful time with loved ones.
Curate your holiday experience with intention—because joy is the best kind of self-care; what's the real reason for the season?
"One step at a time leads to miles of greatness.” ~ Kristianne Wargo
This season, let those steps be gentle but determined. Your mind, body, and spirit deserve a radically different December—one decorated from the inside out.
No more chasing calories or commitments that don’t serve you. It’s time to build a foundation of wellness that fuels your greatness beyond the holidays and into every day that follows.
This year, make your holiday survival your secret weapon. You aren’t just surviving December—you’re mastering how to show up fully, fiercely, and joyfully for everything and everyone that matters.
"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"
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Song Title: Overcomer
Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia
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