Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Oftentimes, life is a highway; a vast road with countless exits, destinations, and detours. Each day, you choose your direction, determining who you meet, what you do, and where you end up. When you’re cruising down your chosen path, life’s open road feeling fuels your momentum. But what happens when you realize you’re driving on the wrong side of the road? The highway you’re on isn’t aligning with the purpose you believe was laid out for you. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Many people have faced that exact crisis: recognizing...
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Why is it that we have this burning desire to chase our dreams, yet often find ourselves hovering just outside the doorway of action? You know what’s possible — the life you want, the impact you dream of making — but somehow your feet stay cemented in the comfort of where you currently stand. It's confusing and frustrating. However, you were made for more, for a purpose bigger than the habits and excuses that keep you stuck; venture into your greatness. But your actions haven’t caught up with that reality yet. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at...
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How do you see the glass when you wake up in the morning — half empty or half full? This simple image holds a powerful key to your day, your choices, and ultimately, your life. The heart of your attitude determines whether you view life as a series of obstacles or a world full of options. It’s more than just a mood; it’s the lens through which you interpret every challenge and opportunity. Research makes it clear: your morning mindset sets the tone for what follows. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . A landmark study from the University...
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Easter is the heart of the Christian faith—a powerful reminder that death does not have the final word. It is a celebration of Jesus Christ rising from the dead, a victory over sin and fear, a promise that new life is available to all who believe. Find hope in the empty tomb. The story of Easter morning is etched in the Gospels with profound awe and hope, especially in the experience of Mary Magdalene and the other Mary who came to Jesus’ tomb just as dawn was breaking. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . The Scriptures tell us in Matthew...
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Marriage can be comfortable—it can feel like a safe harbor in a chaotic world. But comfort is a double-edged sword. When we become complacent, assuming that our marriage will somehow maintain its course without active effort, we’re setting ourselves up for trouble. It’s not that love fades overnight, but it does become something we stop tending to, something we take for granted. And when we neglect love, it’s not missing suddenly—it’s slowly slipping away. So why not refresh your marriage and rediscover the love you once had? The truth is, no matter how strong or stable you believe...
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Defeat is often felt in the stillness of the storms — those quiet moments when exhaustion weighs heavy, and worries swirl about whether we’re truly meeting our children’s needs. Parenting is overwhelming. From sleepless nights to unexpected meltdowns to the endless what-comes-next questions, the journey demands more than just energy; it demands heart. Regardless of the stage our kids are in, staying on track is not optional; it’s required. When weariness and fear try to convince you to run or hide, remember this: you are doing the best you can. Desire to be supported and...
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Who doesn’t need a little pick-me-up in the middle of the week? A moment, a breath when the weight feels lighter, and the horizon looks a little bit brighter? We all carry burdens that stretch us beyond what feels bearable. But God carries whatever we cannot carry. And in His hands, all things are made new. This week, as we continue to walk through the sacred days of Holy Week, there’s a special invitation to dig deeper—beyond routine, beyond the surface—to what God truly desires for our hearts and lives. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the...
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You’ve seen it a thousand times: Buy One Get One free. The offer pops off the shelf, your eye catches the deal, and suddenly, your cart is fuller than intended. But lots of these “deals” aren’t deals at all. They lure you with the promise of abundance, but the truth is, you might not even need what you’re buying, or worse, you might get stuck with what clutters your life or pulls you off course; it's the BOGO trap. In life, “buying into” anything like ideas, habits, and shortcuts, without pause, can lead you to a path that feels good for a moment but steals long-term value. And...
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Chaos and busyness have become the backdrop to our daily lives. The constant rush, the noise, all the things; it all piles up until it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and powerless. But just because the world around us is untamed and crazy, doesn’t mean we have to live like that inside. Choose hope when the world feels restless. You know that when you choose hope, it is an act of rebellion against the chaos. It’s deciding that worry won’t write the script of your story. It’s a deliberate pause, a deep breath, a quiet moment to remind yourself that panic is not the answer. Desire to be...
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Ever had a moment when the everyday noise around you fades away, and suddenly you realize there’s a deeper question lurking beneath all the surface chatter and chaos? Not about the usual daily choices, but something that cuts to the core of who you are, where you are going, and who you are becoming. Those moments don’t come often, but when they do, they shake everything up and force you to reckon with what really matters. It’s in those rare instances that the story of your life can take a sharp turn—if you’re willing to face what’s really going on beneath the surface, the moment...
info_outlineOftentimes, life is a highway; a vast road with countless exits, destinations, and detours. Each day, you choose your direction, determining who you meet, what you do, and where you end up. When you’re cruising down your chosen path, life’s open road feeling fuels your momentum. But what happens when you realize you’re driving on the wrong side of the road?
The highway you’re on isn’t aligning with the purpose you believe was laid out for you.
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Many people have faced that exact crisis: recognizing that the route they’re traveling wasn’t their true calling. They expected a straightforward journey but encountered unexpected twists—job loss, broken relationships, health crises, or deep dissatisfaction. These moments test our resilience and demand course correction.
Take, for example, the story of J.K. Rowling, who faced poverty and rejection before finding her true path as the author of the Harry Potter series. She didn’t start her career intending to be a best-selling author, but after hitting the “wrong side” of the road in her life, she adjusted her route. Instead of giving up, she navigated toward a new path that brought fulfillment and success.
Research backs this up: a 2019 study published in the Journal of Vocational Behavior found that career setbacks often motivate people to discover more authentic and satisfying professional paths, leading to greater happiness and productivity.
Now, of course, this is not just about what you are doing in your career. You might say you don't have a career, you have a calling. However, look at it from the perspective of what God divinely designed for you.
You get to decide what you do every day and how you do it. Personal or professional, you get to choose.
So instead of being miserable and caught up in what everyone else is telling you to do, take a pit stop.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Take a pit stop!
What if you were to really think about what you are actively doing every day, what side of the road you're on, so to speak? What if you consider what's working and what's not? Maybe you need to watch the speed limit signs, too.
Just doing the same thing over and over again is not going to make things better. Yes, you know what to expect. But that does not mean you should keep doing it.
If there is a pothole in the middle of the road where you drive every day, do you think you should run over it just because it's there? NO! You can change lanes or swerve to avoid it.
This whole idea of living your life with a miserable badge of honor makes no sense. Now, that also doesn't give you free rein to be reckless. Connect your head and your heart and see what you can do to move from the wrong side of the road where God is leading.
So how do you move from the wrong side of life’s road onto the one that aligns with the life that God—or your deepest sense of calling—created for you? Here are three no-nonsense steps:
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Stop and Reassess Your Direction
You can't fix your journey while barreling forward blindly. Pause, get honest about where you are versus where you want to be. Ask yourself: What am I doing that feels off? What’s the cost of staying on this route? Clarity comes from reflection, journaling, or talking with trusted mentors who won’t sugarcoat your situation. -
Redirect with Intentional Action
Once you see the wrong road, make deliberate moves to shift lanes. This could mean learning new skills, saying no to toxic relationships, or setting healthier boundaries. Don’t wait for perfect conditions—momentum builds the minute you take clear steps away from what does not serve you. -
Build a Support System and Keep Course-Correcting
Few people reach their intended highway solo. So surround yourself with people who encourage your growth and align with your vision. Remember, hitting roadblocks doesn’t mean failure; it signals the need for adjustment. Stay flexible, keep your bigger destination in mind, and course-correct as life unfolds.
In essence, life as a highway isn’t about avoiding every bump or wrong turn; it’s about steering yourself back, over and over, to the road that fits your true purpose. When you do, you stop drifting in frustration and start driving with confidence—knowing the road ahead was meant for you all along.
"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"
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