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EPISODE 5: Why You’re Stuck—Breaking the Cycle of Self-Sabotage, Perfectionism, and Procrastination

The F*ck Yes Movement

Release Date: 03/20/2025

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Have you ever felt stuck in a frustrating cycle—starting and stopping, doubting and dreaming, and wanting more but never quite getting there? Maybe it feels like you’re getting in your own way, even though you deeply want to change.

There’s nothing wrong with you. You’re not lazy, unmotivated, or broken. Your brain is clinging to old patterns, programming, and deeply rooted fears. And the good news? You can break free.

In this episode, I break down:

  • What self-sabotage really is (hint: it’s not your fault!)
  • Why your brain is wired to love what’s familiar—even if it’s keeping you stuck
  • The Fear Loop: how your brain keeps you in a cycle of procrastination and avoidance
  • Why perfectionism is self-sabotage in disguise—and how to ditch it for good
  • How to rewire your brain using science-backed strategies like neuroplasticity
  • My favorite mindset hack (spoiler alert: your brain is a dick) that brings lightness to the process
  • Actionable steps to build momentum, rewire your beliefs, and create lasting change

This episode isn’t just about uncovering why you’re stuck—it’s about giving you the tools and strategies to move forward with confidence.

Action Steps from Today’s Episode:

  1. Interrupt the Fear Loop: Journal on what’s triggering your fear, the story your brain is telling you, and one small action you can take to challenge it.
  2. Ditch Perfectionism: Commit to taking messy, imperfect action. Progress, not perfection, is the goal.
  3. Start Small: Break your goal into the tiniest possible step and just do that today.
  4. Rewrite Your Rules: Identify one limiting belief, challenge it, and replace it with a new, empowering story.
  5. Visualize Your Success: Spend 5 minutes imagining your goal as if it’s already real—feel the emotions and see yourself taking action.

Stay tuned for my upcoming course, Stop Holding Yourself Back: The 7-Day Break the Cycle Intensive! (DM me on Instagram @carli_louan for early access)

Remember, you’re not stuck—you’re just in a pattern. And patterns? They can be changed. No more waiting, no more holding back. Let’s break the cycle together.

🎙 Listen now, and take your first step toward freedom, confidence, and unstoppable momentum.