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The Girlfriend Doctor w/ Dr. Anna Cabeca
Release Date: 06/04/2026
The Girlfriend Doctor w/ Dr. Anna Cabeca
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info_outlineWhat if the brain fog, exhaustion, anxiety, bloating, hot flashes, sleep struggles, and weight gain you’re experiencing in perimenopause aren’t “just aging”… but signs your body is asking for a completely different kind of nourishment?
In this empowering episode of The Girlfriend Doctor Show, Dr. Anna Cabeca sits down with nutritionist, menopause educator, and 7X published menopause researcher Andrea Donsky for a deeply validating conversation about the real science behind menopause symptoms—and what women can actually do to feel better.
Andrea shares how her groundbreaking menopause research uncovered more than 103 symptoms associated with perimenopause and menopause, with many of the most common symptoms linked to brain health, cognition, anxiety, mood, and sleep. Together, Dr. Anna and Andrea unpack why so many women feel dismissed by healthcare providers and how nutrition, digestion, blood sugar balance, sleep, stress reduction, and targeted supplementation can dramatically improve quality of life.
Andrea also introduces her BALANCE Blueprint from her new book Nourishing Menopause, a practical framework for supporting hormones, metabolism, gut health, and energy through midlife and beyond.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
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Why blood sugar balance is critical during perimenopause and menopause
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The surprising connection between gut health, hormones, mood, and brain fog
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How digestion changes in menopause—and why constipation, bloating, and inflammation increase
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Which foods and habits may worsen hot flashes, night sweats, and poor sleep
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The foundational supplements Andrea recommends for midlife women
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Why menopause symptoms are often misunderstood or dismissed by doctors
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How mindset, self-compassion, and education can transform the menopause experience
If you’ve ever felt like “something is wrong” in your body but couldn’t explain it, this conversation will help you feel seen, informed, and empowered with practical tools to support your Second Spring.
Key Timestamps:
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00:01 – Why more women are finally talking openly about perimenopause
Dr. Anna introduces the conversation around optimizing health during menopause and beyond. -
01:52 – Andrea discovers there are over 100 menopause symptoms
Andrea shares how her menopause research journey began and what surprised her most. -
02:54 – The shocking link between menopause and mental health symptoms
Discussion about anxiety, cognitive health, depression, and why women often feel “crazy” during hormonal shifts. -
05:47 – What Andrea’s doctor visit survey revealed
The heartbreaking reality of women being dismissed, unheard, and misdiagnosed during perimenopause. -
10:56 – What women are still not being told about menopause
Andrea explains why “just exercise more and lose weight” is not enough. -
13:40 – The BALANCE Blueprint for nourishing menopause
Andrea breaks down her nutrition framework for supporting metabolism, hormones, gut health, and energy. -
16:02 – Why blood sugar balance becomes essential in menopause
Discussion on insulin resistance, PCOS, metabolism, and protein needs during midlife. -
20:47 – How menopause changes digestion and gut health
Andrea explains bloating, constipation, food sensitivities, inflammation, and the gut-brain connection. -
26:58 – Nutrition strategies for better sleep and fewer hot flashes
Why late-night eating, alcohol, chocolate, and blood sugar spikes may worsen symptoms. -
32:56 – Andrea’s foundational menopause supplements
Magnesium, omega-3s, fiber, vitamin D, and why supplementation matters during hormonal shifts. -
37:47 – Rapid-fire menopause wisdom and mindset shifts
Andrea shares the habits, mindset changes, and self-care practices that transformed her own menopause journey. -
42:27 – Where to find Andrea’s book, resources, and menopause research
Final thoughts on empowerment, pelvic health, and changing the menopause conversation together.
Memorable Quotes:
“We found there are actually more than 103 symptoms associated with perimenopause and menopause.” — Andrea Donsky
“Nine out of the top ten menopause symptoms are brain health, cognitive health, and mental health related.” — Andrea Donsky
“You are the CEO of your body.” — Anna Cabeca
“We cannot do what we did before. We have to relearn how to nourish ourselves in this phase of life.” — Andrea Donsky
“You can’t heal a body you hate.” — Anna Cabeca
“Menopause is a time of recalibration, not failure.” — Andrea Donsky
Connect With Guest:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreadonsky
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@andreadonsky
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreadonsky/
Website: https://wearemorphus.com
Book: https://nourishingmenopausebook.com
Podcast: Menopause Reimagined
Connect With Dr. Anna:
Website: https://dranna.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegirlfrienddoctor/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thegirlfrienddoctor
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drannacabeca
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thegirlfrienddoctor
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