Sex After Menopause, Energy, and the Science of Reigniting Your Spark | Connie Kean
The Girlfriend Doctor w/ Dr. Anna Cabeca
Release Date: 07/02/2026
Why Your Sexless Marriage Isn't About Sex | Tressa Yonekawa
The Girlfriend Doctor w/ Dr. Anna Cabeca
She shut down. Walked out of the room. And you spent the next three days replaying the one sentence that did it. That right there is a trigger talking to a trigger. And it's exactly what my guest today spends her career untangling. Tressa Yonekawa holds a graduate degree in cognitive neuroscience for communication. Twenty five years in, she's used it with corporate leaders, celebrity clients, and couples who feel more like roommates than lovers. We get into her own near drowning at four years old, the voice she heard underwater that redirected her entire life, and how her father's war trauma...
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Dry, In Pain, and Told It's Just Aging? Not So Fast | Dr. Anna Cabeca
The Girlfriend Doctor w/ Dr. Anna Cabeca
She was 63, hadn't been intimate with her husband in years, and was told by every doctor, "This is just aging." Dr. Anna Cabeca had one thing to say back: No, it isn't. Dr. Anna Cabeca, The Girlfriend Doctor—a triple board-certified OB/GYN specializing in menopause, hormones, and women's vitality—shares her fully updated vaginal health protocol. This isn't the "just use a lubricant" advice you've heard before. It's a whole-body approach built from more than 26 years of clinical practice, her own experience with early menopause, and the patients who refused to accept "normal" as the final...
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The Cinderella Organ: Fascia, Trauma, and the Physics of Healing | Dr. Catherine Clinton (Quantum Biology, Part 2)
The Girlfriend Doctor w/ Dr. Anna Cabeca
What if the key to reducing chronic pain, improving mobility, sleeping better, and even slowing the effects of aging has been hiding in plain sight? In this fascinating episode of The Girlfriend Doctor Podcast, Dr. Anna Cabeca welcomes back naturopathic physician and quantum biology expert Dr. Catherine Clinton, author of Optimize, for a deep dive into one of the body's most overlooked healing systems: fascia. Together, they explore why fascia has been called the body's "Cinderella organ"—overworked, underappreciated, and essential for healthy movement, energy production, nervous system...
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Why You Wake Up at 3 AM (And It's Not a Melatonin Problem) | Dr. Catherine Clinton Part 1 (Quantum Biology, Part 1)
The Girlfriend Doctor w/ Dr. Anna Cabeca
You're not broken. Your light environment is. If you're waking up at 3 AM and staring at the ceiling for hours, struggling with menopause insomnia, or feeling exhausted despite getting "enough" sleep, this episode reveals the missing piece almost nobody is talking about. Dr. Anna sits down with Dr. Catherine Clinton—licensed naturopathic physician, educator, author of Optimize, and Founder of the Quantum Biology Health Institute—to explore the emerging science of quantum biology and how light, circadian rhythms, mitochondria, and your environment influence sleep, hormones, metabolism, and...
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Is Your Home Making You Sick? What I Learned About Feng Shui and Hormones | Marie Diamond
The Girlfriend Doctor w/ Dr. Anna Cabeca
Can your home be affecting your hormones, stress levels, sleep, and overall health? In this eye-opening episode of The Girlfriend Doctor Podcast, Dr. Anna Cabeca welcomes internationally renowned Feng Shui Master, bestselling author, and The Secret teacher Marie Diamond for a fascinating conversation about how your environment influences your physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being. Marie shares her remarkable journey from surviving a near-death experience to becoming one of the world's leading experts on feng shui, energy, and manifestation. Together, she and Dr. Anna explore how the...
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Sex After Menopause, Energy, and the Science of Reigniting Your Spark | Connie Kean
The Girlfriend Doctor w/ Dr. Anna Cabeca
What if your body already knows the answers — and you just need to learn to listen? If you've been feeling shut down, disconnected, or like the fire that used to drive you has simply gone out, this episode is for you. Whether you're navigating the energy crashes of perimenopause, moving through grief after losing a partner, or just quietly wondering if desire, vitality, and joy are still available to you — Dr. Anna and her guest Connie Kean are here to tell you: they absolutely are. Connie Kean is a Reiki Master, Energy Practitioner, and founder of Quantum Energy Infusion (QEI) — an...
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She Reversed Her Biological Age by 12 Years After Breast Cancer | Bettina Gordon Wayne
The Girlfriend Doctor w/ Dr. Anna Cabeca
What if your diagnosis wasn't the beginning of the end — but the beginning of everything? Eight years ago, Bettina Gordon-Wayne was handed a breast cancer diagnosis on a beautiful spring day in Washington, D.C. She had a four-year-old at home, a healthy lifestyle, and zero warning signs. Today, she is eight years cancer-free and biologically 12 years younger than her chronological age. And she has the data to prove it. Bettina spent 30 years as an international journalist interviewing world leaders, billionaires, and global experts. She was always the one asking the questions — until life...
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Your "normal" labs are making you sick | Dr. Shamita Trivedi
The Girlfriend Doctor w/ Dr. Anna Cabeca
Have you ever been told your labs are "normal"—but you still feel exhausted, gain weight despite doing everything right, struggle with brain fog, poor sleep, low motivation, or simply don't feel like yourself? In this eye-opening episode of The Girlfriend Doctor Show, Dr. Anna Cabeca sits down with endocrinologist and women's health expert Dr. Shamita Trivedi to uncover why "normal" lab results don't always mean optimal health. With nearly 20 years of experience in endocrinology and hormone health, Dr. Trivedi shares how she blends evidence-based medicine with a personalized, integrative...
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The Truth About Progesterone | Dr. Felice Gersh
The Girlfriend Doctor w/ Dr. Anna Cabeca
Is progesterone the most misunderstood hormone in women’s health? For decades, women have been told that progesterone is only necessary to protect the uterus. But what if that’s only a small part of the story? In this fascinating and thought-provoking episode of The Girlfriend Doctor Show, Dr. Anna Cabeca welcomes renowned OB-GYN and integrative medicine pioneer Dr. Felice Gersh for a deep dive into the science, controversy, and clinical nuances of progesterone therapy in menopause. Drawing on more than 45 years of clinical experience, Dr. Gersh explains why she believes progesterone is...
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What You’re Eating Is Making Menopause Worse | Andrea Donsky
The Girlfriend Doctor w/ Dr. Anna Cabeca
What if the brain fog, exhaustion, anxiety, bloating, hot flashes, sleep struggles, and weight gain you’re experiencing in perimenopause aren’t “just aging”… but signs your body is asking for a completely different kind of nourishment? In this empowering episode of The Girlfriend Doctor Show, Dr. Anna Cabeca sits down with nutritionist, menopause educator, and 7X published menopause researcher Andrea Donsky for a deeply validating conversation about the real science behind menopause symptoms—and what women can actually do to feel better. Andrea shares how her groundbreaking...
info_outlineWhat if your body already knows the answers — and you just need to learn to listen?
If you've been feeling shut down, disconnected, or like the fire that used to drive you has simply gone out, this episode is for you. Whether you're navigating the energy crashes of perimenopause, moving through grief after losing a partner, or just quietly wondering if desire, vitality, and joy are still available to you — Dr. Anna and her guest Connie Kean are here to tell you: they absolutely are.
Connie Kean is a Reiki Master, Energy Practitioner, and founder of Quantum Energy Infusion (QEI) — an international educational platform built on three decades of transformational energy work. She's also a musician and educator whose 40-year career teaching piano gave her a unique ability to translate the invisible into something you can actually feel and use. Her book, Quantum Now, and her five-level QEI program have helped thousands of high-performing individuals reclaim their energy, their presence, and their aliveness.
In this deeply personal and eye-opening conversation, you'll discover:
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What muscle energy testing (true for you testing) is — and how to use it right now to check your supplements, choices, and body's needs
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How your root and sacral chakras govern sexual and creative energy — and simple techniques to reopen them
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Why grief, loss, and caregiving often stall sexual energy, and how to channel it back into vitality
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The Map of Consciousness and why raising your frequency isn't just spiritual — it's measurable and protective
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How to fall asleep sending healing energy to your own body tonight
This one will shift something in you.
Time Stamps:
00:00:00 — Introduction to energy, fatigue, and reigniting passion in midlife and beyond.
00:02:00 — Connie’s background as a music teacher and how that prepared her for energy work.
00:03:20 — Her near-death experience on a plane and the beginning of her healing path.
00:05:10 — Finding Reiki in Indonesia and realizing immediately it was her calling.
00:06:40 — Traditional Reiki training and apprenticeship under a master.
00:08:20 — Returning to the U.S. and the early skepticism around energy work.
00:09:40 — Exploring how emotions can be stored in organs, tissues, and energy fields.
00:12:10 — Discussion of grief, heartache, and how energy release can feel physically.
00:14:30 — Connie shares the loss of her husband, father, and mother within 14 months.
00:17:00 — How she and her husband navigated cancer, intimacy, and soul-level connection.
00:20:00 — Sexual energy, creativity, and how she channeled energy into building her company.
00:23:10 — The importance of the root chakra and the second chakra in vitality and sensuality.
00:26:00 — Practical ways to stay connected to sexual energy after loss or with age.
00:28:00 — Using nature, grounding, and self-touch to awaken the body’s energy.
00:30:20 — The “true for you” testing method and how the body can indicate truth.
00:33:00 — Closing thoughts on energy as essential to life and healing.
Memorable Quotes
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"An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away." — Connie Kean
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"Your body is a pendulum. It moves toward what benefits it — just like a sunflower moves toward the sun." — Connie Kean
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"My mission is raising the collective consciousness to peaceful coexistence. That's why I'm on the planet." — Connie Kean
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"Where your attention goes, energy grows." — Dr. Anna Cabeca
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"We are walking, talking light stations." — Connie Kean
Connect With Guest
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Amazon Book Page: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNDDJKT8
Connect With Dr. Anna:
Website: Dranna.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegirlfrienddoctor/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thegirlfrienddoctor
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drannacabeca
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thegirlfrienddoctor